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Hey guys. I’m a 34 year old male. Have a comfortable and seemingly normal life. I had a fiancé but ended that about 6 months ago. I’ve dated since then but nothing serious.

 

Here is why I’m posting... I’ve had a desire to be with a man for some time. I had a married buddy that I met through CL years ago. We would meet up, JO - some touching but that’s it.

 

I’ve never had a dick in my mouth or ass. I want to try that. I travel a lot for work so want to this during a work trip.

 

I need advice - this is something I want to try soon. Should I try to meet someone through a hookup app or hire an escort? Or maybe start with an erotic massage?

 

I’ve chatted with a few guys on Grindr. I’m 34 6’3” 200 lbs. Played baseball in college and have an athletic/muscular build. The reason I mention that is because I’m getting a lot of responses from guys that want me to top them. I suppose I’ll want to do that. But what I really want is a guy that teaches me how to suck, bottom and can make me feel good. A dominant albeit respectful and patient guy. A guy that won’t get upset if I don’t go through with it all the first time we meet.

 

I frequent Seattle, Minneapolis, Chicago, Philadelphia, Dallas, and Los Angeles for work. Hope this hasn’t bored you yet. I don’t know how to best move forward with this. Suggestions would be greatly welcomed. And if anyone knows of the right person? Any recommendations would be appreciated.

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Find someone from an established website, like jock2go for example, based on your body type. Plenty of people love first timers. Hookup apps aren't as reliable, and erotic massage specialists won't give you what you're really looking for.

 

Since your description essentially looks like an advertisement of yourself, post YOU on these mediums you mention and great things will happen - soon.

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Hey guys. I’m a 34 year old male. Have a comfortable and seemingly normal life. I had a fiancé but ended that about 6 months ago. I’ve dated since then but nothing serious.

 

Here is why I’m posting... I’ve had a desire to be with a man for some time. I had a married buddy that I met through CL years ago. We would meet up, JO - some touching but that’s it.

 

I’ve never had a dick in my mouth or ass. I want to try that. I travel a lot for work so want to this during a work trip.

 

I need advice - this is something I want to try soon. Should I try to meet someone through a hookup app or hire an escort? Or maybe start with an erotic massage?

 

I’ve chatted with a few guys on Grindr. I’m 34 6’3” 200 lbs. Played baseball in college and have an athletic/muscular build. The reason I mention that is because I’m getting a lot of responses from guys that want me to top them. I suppose I’ll want to do that. But what I really want is a guy that teaches me how to suck, bottom and can make me feel good. A dominant albeit respectful and patient guy. A guy that won’t get upset if I don’t go through with it all the first time we meet.

 

I frequent Seattle, Minneapolis, Chicago, Philadelphia, Dallas, and Los Angeles for work. Hope this hasn’t bored you yet. I don’t know how to best move forward with this. Suggestions would be greatly welcomed. And if anyone knows of the right person? Any recommendations would be appreciated.

If you’re in LA give Richard a try. Very sweet guy, he’s a top and also does massage. https://rent.men/RichardLA

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Most guys on Grindr are bottoms in my experience. It’s not gonna work if you’re wanting to bottom yourself. Hire someone so you can pretty much lay out your requirements rather than going at it by luck. Sucking is pretty normal. If you want to bottom then be sure to clean. Having a clean ass is always fun not only for your top but also for you. I’m sure some tops have had experience with finding a piece of golden nugget at some point. I think it’s very scarring to an inexperienced bottom from embarrassment of not being clean. And as someone suggested, start small. While it is nice to look at a huge cock it is a different story going inside your ass.

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I would try hiring the first couple of times that you are just trying sex knowing these are sexual experiences and nothing else. Then you can move on to hooking on with guys on sites feeling more confident about your sexual life and likes. Make sure you do your research about the various escorts and what they offer. You will also be able to get a sense of how you will relate with them. Make sure that you express your particular circumstances and in what direction you would like to go. Do not base everything on your first coupling (unless it is fantastic!). You can see various posting on the Forum on how to do research. If you plan to bottom, as already noted you have to be clean. Here's a couple of sites that can explain things (one more explicit than the other). https://thebiggayreview.com/anal-douche-guide/ https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com Though it it not the end of the world you want to avoid as much embarrassment as you can because stress is just a natural emotion to have the first couple of times.

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Whoa... that makes me want to reconsider my decision about bottoming. Tops have more fun?

 

Not necessarily --- Both positions offer unique pleasure

Look at www.daddysreviews.com for the cities that you visit - read what other people who have spent time with the gentlemen have to say. Then reach out--- Be honest about what you want and your level of experience/inexperience. Choose someone with experience and good reviews --- choose someone who communicates well with you

 

Then Go to YouTube there are several excellent videos on how to prepare for anal sex - do a trial clean out before you book - if you don't have a dildo get one and practice a little -- if your dildo comes out clean so will his cock.

 

Then make an appt with your chosen gentleman -- relax and enjoy! You are the client and if you don't like the Ford - Next time rent a Caddy!

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I would try hiring the first couple of times that you are just trying sex knowing these are sexual experiences and nothing else. Then you can move on to hooking on with guys on sites feeling more confident about your sexual life and likes. Make sure you do your research about the various escorts and what they offer. You will also be able to get a sense of how you will relate with them. Make sure that you express your particular circumstances and in what direction you would like to go. Do not base everything on your first coupling (unless it is fantastic!). You can see various posting on the Forum on how to do research. If you plan to bottom, as already noted you have to be clean. Here's a couple of sites that can explain things (one more explicit than the other). https://thebiggayreview.com/anal-douche-guide/ https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com Though it it not the end of the world you want to avoid as much embarrassment as you can because stress is just a natural emotion to have the first couple of times.

Thanks. I am going to make sure I’m ready. I’m going to dallas. I listed a couple people I’m interested in reaching out to but no comments on them. Maybe they’ve been reviewed earlier. I will do my research. I want this to be a good experience. I’m a little nervous but excited to finally try this.

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Thanks. I am going to make sure I’m ready. I’m going to dallas. I listed a couple people I’m interested in reaching out to but no comments on them. Maybe they’ve been reviewed earlier. I will do my research. I want this to be a good experience. I’m a little nervous but excited to finally try this.

 

Put their name in the Search function and if they had been mentioned before hopefully it will come up (sorry if you already knew or tried this).

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Dallas Steele

Benjamin Nicholas

Chad White

Inzane

 

Thanks. I’ll search. This is my list for Dallas. I go to LA in August so if it doesn’t work this trip, I imagine LA will work out. I’ve been sent the name Rod Hagen through PM by multiple folks. Maybe I’ll reach out to him.

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Benjamin Nicholas has posted here many times. You should be able to read many things that he has written (to get a sense of his personality) and if you do a search I am sure you would find a lot that has been written about him. I am sure that if you could find reviews on the now segregated Daddy Reviews. As aa matter of fact use this link and just search under his name (use the "name" section). http://daddysreviews.com/search

I have always found him incredibly sexy and if I recall a really nice body. You could always contact him and explain things as noted above.

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Yep, it's me. Howdy.

 

I have a solid collection of stellar reviews, if you'd like to browse them: http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/benjamin_nicholas_sanantonio

 

Feel free to email me privately. The address is linked below, along with my other online shenanigans.

 

And I hear BN is a Great Cook - and fun guy - and quite the lil dancer~

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I wanted to share where I’m at... I got a lot of private messages. Thanks for all the advice. I think I’m starting with a massage first - ideally sensual. I think it will help ease into more.

 

These are the guys I’m looking at in Dallas...

 

Bill

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30935/

 

Robert

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/15806/

 

Eric

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/223/

 

Troy

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5923/

 

Adam

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8275/

 

 

I’m physically attracted to all these guys. I’ll do my own research but if anyone has suggestions would be appreciative of any advice.

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