Luvfurrytops

Despite being a Millennial, I actually don't pay my escorts by credit card, haha. I always pay with cash. But I am thinking about paying my regular (and favourite) escort by PayPal, as I think he prefers that over cash.
And I agree with you that just because someone uses escorts, doesn't mean they cannot get laid otherwise. I'm not unattractive and I currently look young for my age (or so most people including some of the escorts I see tell me), and I do sometimes get laid for free in the saunas, whilst cruising or meeting someone off the apps. But my favourite way to get laid is with an escort. Escorts provide a sexual experience that most free hookups simply won't and can't provide.
I use escorts because I want to, not because I have to. And I think that's true for a lot of people regardless of their age.

Some years back, I dated a 24 year old in Manhattan. We went to bed on our first date. He was gainfully employed and extremely physically attractive. And on our third date, he told me he’d hired escorts in the year before we met. When I expressed surprise that he would do that, his response was Why not? If I’m hungry, I order food in. I was horny - I didn’t want to spend hours trying to meet someone - so I hired a guy to do what I wanted.

MARYLANDER --- I Intend on playing with men until I am dead -- as the ambulance pulls out of my
driveway I will be groping the HOT Paramedic and promising a big tip if he puts the 02 up my nose and the cock down my throat!

@Luvfurrytops In my experience it’s best to decide what your priority is — a good erotic massage or sex. If it’s sex, I suggest you hire your guy from an escort site like rent.men, looking for guys that include massage in their ad and have good mentions on this forum. You’ll be quoted the escort rate and get both massage and sex. I suggest hiring from RentMasseur or MasseurFinder when your priority is the erotic massage, again though, look for guys with good mentions on this forum to help ensure great experience.

You can find out through reviews and such if what the escort likes is what you like.  Then, when you message him, tell him what you are interested in; he'll say, "me too!" or "not me!" or say nothing, and by then you've done all the pre-arranging you can do.  Then when you meet, assuming you've chosen an experienced escort and made it clear you're inexperience, he'll take the lead.
Good luck, Have fun!
 

Hey guys. I recently moved to the US from Europe, so still getting my head around how things work in the US. While living here, I discovered RentMasseur and MasseurFinder, and have been booking sessions with providers coming to my town (some really good, some quite disappointing...). The massage context is easy, as you arrive, you chat a little bit, you take your clothes off and lie down on the bed/massage table. If something happens, it arises naturally from the massage itself. But now I want to hire men just for the sex part, so unsure how does one proceed with that. 
How does it usually work with RentMen providers in the US? Do you agree beforehand what will happen? Do you discuss on arrival? Or you just see as things develop while on it? Since I am quite new with the the transactional nature of these kind of encounters (and also a bit shy), not sure what's the best way to make an encounter just for sex less awkward at the start. 
Also, I would appreciate some advice as to how to arrange a meeting. What do providers want to hear from clients, other than the requested date and time? Is it rude to ask for the rate in the first message (RentMen does not show that, unlike RentMasseur)? Should I mention my stats (age, height, weight, etc)? 
Any help greatly appreciated.
 
 

As an older provider I can say that the age of my clients doesn’t matter, it’s their attitude that’s important. My aim is to help them feel attractive, desirable, interesting and for them to have fun. If they start off by firmly believing they’re too old (or young) for that then it’s challenging so I suggest they pretend at first. We all like pretending. After a while they forget they’re pretending and relax, and then it comes naturally. Once you stop worrying what other people are thinking you can really enjoy yourself. 

Not what I think of when the word Hercules is used. A bit underwhelmed.

I felt his "gift" in several spots in my body, but I didn't attempt to reach for it.
 
What? Here's my motto: "if the meat ain't for sale don't hang it in the window."