Alex93108

So I told him concisely what areas I think he can improve on. We’ll see .
i think if anything that I learned from this experience, I will ask providers if they parTy & chems?  Anyone that answers yes gets an automatic disqualifier.  Also will ask personality questions , and expectations. 

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I gave a provider a second chance and it was a disaster.  I'll never do that again.

This might sound big headed but I’ve not had negative feedback. One client said he’d have liked a bit more of a particular thing (and he had asked for it at the start) so I guess that was fair enough. He didn’t book again but if he had I’d still have accepted the booking.  Feedback is good because I know what to change for next time. I like to hear what my clients think.
I always ask as they are getting dressed if they enjoyed it and I say if they want to book again I’m happy to adjust the session based on what they liked etc. I think that immediately after the session and face to face they’re unlikely to say much but it signals that they can send me a message afterwards about what they liked / didn’t like and what they want if they book again. 
I also keep a note of what they liked during the session, anything that worked really well etc so that if they book again I know what they’re into. Generally people won’t say because they’re embarrassed about talking about these things or they just don’t have the words to express it. So I find keeping a discreet note helps me to make their second visit better. Plus it helps me remember them. I’m bad at recognising faces but I remember their cock 😂. 
 

Update - told him my thoughts via text message and suggestions improvement so I can bury this .

He should be having an encounter that goes smoothly when he makes his trip to Buffalo! 🤩

Be nice . On the flip side I am sometimes concerned about the provider , esp in certain markets where “Chems” is a so prevalent. I’m thinking London specifically.  
We both need to be responsible people . clients want a good time , providers willing to perform 

Be nice . On the flip side I am sometimes concerned about the provider , esp in certain markets where “Chems” is a so prevalent. I’m thinking London specifically.  
We both need to be responsible people . clients want a good time , providers willing to perform 

I need more details here.  - What movie did you watch?
I wouldn't use him again. He burned the relation you had as a client - I feel like you should tell him that. I would. Be nice about it though . 
I feel like since he has a BF, his escorting days are winding down, he had to take one last hit at the golden goose. 
Its done.  LA has lots of aspiring talent, I am sure you can find a replacement. 
No way I am going to repeat this 1200 mistake.
 

I have taken providers to dinners off the clock ( in Brazil) with an established relationship. Multiple hires. Usually after the appointment .  They love to be taken out to dinners. I don't mind..  One has exited the business, and I'm still friends with.
In the US that might not fly, but in Europe it might.  This same boy ( in Europe) asked me to get him a cab from his gym outside the center of the city, the Brazilian boys in Brazil did not do that. They got it themselves, i tipped a bit more to cover.  At the end of the day these guys are hustlers…...
@HoseMaster We need to be prepared to bail out of appointments as soon as the circumstances of the appointment change.  Quickly. Sorry you got hosed!  Now I don't feel so bad for the money I lost on this kid.
My gut feeling is to walk away from all of this.  Which I probably will. This particular European city has TONS of providers, that come and go.  
 

The guy has shown you what he’s really like. Time to move on rather than set yourself up for further disappointment.

I need more details here.  - What movie did you watch?
I wouldn't use him again. He burned the relation you had as a client - I feel like you should tell him that. I would. Be nice about it though . 
I feel like since he has a BF, his escorting days are winding down, he had to take one last hit at the golden goose. 
Its done.  LA has lots of aspiring talent, I am sure you can find a replacement. 
No way I am going to repeat this 1200 mistake.
 

C'mon, don't be a shit.  He wasn't complaining: He was just sharing an experience.
I've dealt with having to quietly leave a restaurant or put clients 'to bed' when they've overindulged.  It happens, but escorts should never forget that we need to do things in the right way to avoid liability issues and possible legal repercussions.  
These are the little things you learn when spending extended time with someone.  It's really all about making sure the client's experience is a smooth, good one and that he doesn't feel horrible about what happened.

I don’t care how hot he is . NO 

I am equal parts nonplused and unsurprised  by some of the judgements displayed in this thread. This from the same forums where providers are often picked over mercilessly in the Deli for their physical appearance - too many muscles, not muscular enough; bad teeth, teeth look fake; too hairy, too smooth; ad infinitum. We don’t even need to get into the whole tattoos and piercings contretemps. 
Nothing @rustyrex shared gave me any sense that this provider was vain or entitled. At the most basic level, the provider is selling a product - himself. It’s only prudent that he do everything he can to increase demand for his product. Otherwise, as often noted in discussions in the Deli, there’s plenty of others out there.
I’ve also had a peek behind the curtains with a few regular gents I have engaged. That body you see on RM doesn’t just happen. Beyond the gym, supplements, gear, there’s manicures/pedicures, tanning, for those that do, professional manscapping, hair care and grooming, personal care products, wardrobe, housing, and yes Botox and even plastic surgery (in my experience it has been corrective as in its something the provider always hated and only now had the funds for it), etc.. You may not think it, but there’s so much that goes into being a provider than one realizes. 
Don’t judge - be thankful instead that there are providers who care enough about this vocation, and about providing their demographic the best physically that they can. 
 
BBD

depending on the distance I see it becoming a thing to do. I can only see this being a thing with big cities like LA if the RM escort is visiting. I personally offer if they are coming to me when traveling and staying at hotel out of the way.

I don’t care how hot he is . NO 

I don’t care how hot he is . NO 

I don’t care how hot he is . NO 

I don’t care how hot he is . NO 

This advice is gold. Just relying on looks and number of 5-star reviews can be highly deceptive. I like to look at reviews to read between the lines the style of the providers and if it will be compatible with me. It rarely fails.

I guess my new rule is midweek hires ( presumably that is when providers are rested  ) or overnight . In Europe an overnight is £1000 / €1000 /or more  a bit too much for me unless it’s a sure hit 
I’m guessing mid week is a slow time ?  this was a sunday appointment, presumably said provider was busy on saturday 

This could not be more true . I find the providers that tend to do other things and are a bit more well rounded offer the best experience . 
Also providers : A good appointment should leave  the client feeling like the whole thing was a fantasy come true, and wanting more ( another longer, repeat appointment, ). I was left feeling concerned for the well being provider ( which really shouldn't be my concern but i'm a human being) and not entirely satisfied. 
Definitely felt like a sex robot, not human. 

Maybe you caught him on a bad day. I have provider friends who party then go to see a client. It’s not the best state to be working. It seems like he was trying but was really just going through the motions, like on autopilot. 
Doing sex work is demanding, and you need to be extremely mentally strong to make it successful. I’m lucky, I have support and I don’t get involved in any of those drug party scenes which are alluring but ultimately will destroy you. Maybe he is just now realising that and I hope he has some good people around him to support him. 
I don’t think you could have done any different during the session but I would say that you might have made a better selection before booking him. Ask a few questions of him before you book, try not to be influenced too much by the body (not easy!) because ultimately it’s his personality and demeanour that will influence how well the meeting goes. 

 

Picked up a guy in business class on a flight from Europe. We both were flying to the east coast US, with connections beyond. Flirted with him on the plane. Flirt was mutual.  Midway thought the Atlantic  action under thick blankets, he jerked me off. This was before flat bed seats, in the age of recliners that starched 3-4 windows nearly fully flat  and his seat was next to mine. In the dim cabin with large blankets, its easy to play.. I actually miss those seats, I slept well in them, maybe because I got used to them.  The flat bed seats today tend to be narrow, but flat, unless its one of those luxury middle eastern airlines.  
After we came, we both asked for a glass of champagne and refills, delivered by this gay flight attendant. I wonder if he knew. 
We arrived back in the US. Both of us had connections, so we went to the lounge, I reserved a shower where he proceeded to fuck me.  Afterward, I went on my connecting flight, he went on his. Getting into the shower without being noticed was a challenge , but we figured it out. 
I wish I had taken his contact info. He was older than me, and I was a young thing.