Alex93108

If anyone has the time, please write up a best practices manual on how to court talent from Grindr and SA. I don't know where to even begin.

in New York city . Please don’t give providers in other places ideas

hop on a plane and go to a different market . The prices in New York are commensurate with the cost of living in New York . The increased supply ( 33 pages on rm hasn’t brought down rates either , when there are daddies willing to pay what the boys are asking ). Beyond 350 i just refuse , and even then is has to be 10/10 . I’m balking at 300 . The rates in New York are probably the highest in the world for male professionals, and I think the most lucrative. London is probably #2, with 15 pages on rm. If you are hot, young, can perform, and do the job, plenty of people with lots cash that need entertaining in both cities. ( I travel a lot and have noticed ) And as discussed frequently here, it takes more than just being young, with a hot body and a pretty face…..

Never been married 😞

That's post covid New York city prices which I haven't quite fully accepted. I'm balking even 350, unless its a 10/10 in all aspects and is a sure hit ( previous hire or comes with referrals as well as glowing reviews) In my mind, I can just hire when I travel ( which thankfully @jetlow is back on a jet plane at least once a month now) , at much lower rates, with the convenience of a hotel also while on the road. 400 is a non starter even without the uber. I don't care how hot he is. NO. Its nice that the richer dadies can afford this, I'm still saving for my retirement.

2012 was a really good year for me too….

I will tell you the best sex I have had ( both free ) and professionally via a provider has been in counties where gay sex is illegal You’re missing out . Live . A little dangerously - fuck like there is no tomorrow . You’ll be a better person for it

I typically ask a guy during the appointment if he wants a review - . I met this boy that didn’t care for it and guess what - he sucked

The movie made me question : It is better to have never found such love or to have found it and lost it forever ? Sergei never found another man like Roman again in his lifetime , and the memoir which i read parts of , it’s evident that he struggles with the question also . Roman haunts him in his sleep years later - something the movie does not touch. I am hopeful I find someone like Roman in my lifetime . Still searching

I approach hiring very differently than the apps. At least with texting a provider I get a response ! I would have passed also.

I attended the festival and watched the movie at the SVA Theatre in Chelsea. As a lover of slavic men, I can tell you the lead actor that plays Roman who is ukrainian is very handsome , met him in person at the screening. The story is just beautiful. Its not about being gay, its not about the men, its about love. Highly recommend

Oh he's read it. Thanks for the insight. ( and I had no idea the read / sent receipts could be viewed by providers also) which makes sense since you're paying 100 bucks a month for it. US.

Dime a dozen esp in the city of brotherly love. Next !

Full disclosure I am a late millennial, most of the providers tend to be Get Z , meaning currently aged 20-30. The ones closer to thirty are young millennial ish. So I texted a new interest a day ago and have not yet received a response. How long is too long before I assume the said provider has no interest ? I think 1 day seems to be about right. Same time zone. Most Gen Z will reply right away, if not also note they will reply later. I never quite figured out the ghosting thing, but really don't need it if I'm hiring. Unlike the older dadies I don't need to face time guys or talk to them on the phone. Keep it simple. But ghosting prospects? I was very to the point

I can manage a bit of ASL but i think it would be hot to communicate with alex and hot to be touched by him aslo . Anyone tried ASL ( American Sign Language) with him ?

Thats the same a my flashjack which doesn't expect a donation, tip or uber after.

If its slower than usual in October in New York, I wonder how is it in London and Europe. I have noticed, that some of my favorites from Europe are planning tours in the US next month, now that they are allowed in. Also I have noticed much more of an influx into Europe ( from Brazil and other places) as restrictions get lifted. All this extra supply….one wonders if pre covid pricing will be back, but I doubt it I want to be the guy in the blue coat with fur collar, whoever he is. You got to have vision!!!

If i can hijack this thread slightly - most of my hiring sprees occurs when I'm on the road ( international ). I typically contact providers 1-2 weeks before to check in with them on availability. Most will let me know their availability but will ask me to text them the day before to check in, which I do. But because of my travel, and tight schedules - planning is required. I've been taking a very direct approach, but in my experience is most providers really don't want to hear from me 1-2 weeks before, but days before. That may impact speed of response. To the poster that mentioned deposits : There's a very lively thread about deposits which I will describe as "fierce"

I have a thing for the trojan warrior on the front of American Express cards...but that brings us to fetishes I never leave home without it . For travel and entertainment😋😈

So he forgot to pay and forgot his phone ? Or offered his phone as payment ? I asked my regular the same question . The only time he never got paid was when it was with a meth head who was out of his mind - and it was bad news. Seems like Tina is bitch all around.

@Benjamin_Nicholas The reason why I hire is because I don’t enjoy the chase. If i did I would just work Grindr and Scruff . I want to have the best kind of hot sex at a time window of my choosing , with someone who is a 10/10 in both physical appearance and technique . Providers should figure out the rest I think providers should keep it simple - there is enough drama on this forum already and in the gay world in general - i don’t need it when i’m hiring a professional

Uber is not that expensive in London ( when it’s not surging ) . London has a few apps for this . Have you seen what the uber prices are in New York ? I don’t use it because it’s so high compared to a yellow cab or even Lyft I paid for the last one because the provider doesn’t live near a tube stop and i wanted him in a good mood I generally hate the car service tack on - but i try to bake it in with his fee , a common practice in Brazil . I can understand why clients from the states don’t like this - not the done thing . If i am asked to pay for car service i don’t tip . A lot of this is cultural

I wish we had more. Mainly so I can be a better client …in all aspects j

PM me if anyone has this

Kiss and show my lovers some love. Some people don't know how.