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    Threatening situation and consequences

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    23 hours ago, Lohengrin1979 said:

    I am so sorry you went through this. I’ve had a similar situation happen with one provider and I pretty much resolved it the same way. It’s a horrible feeling to feel unsafe in strange, dirty surroundings.

    I am also disturbed by the fact that he is a forum member here and is somehow quasi-shielded by that. Were I you I would absolutely call him out on here and on RM. Let him explain himself. You do future clients of his a disservice by not warning them of the possibility of ending up in that same, unsafe situation.

     

    On 11/21/2021 at 3:33 PM, TylerGrovesNYC said:

    If the provider is a member of this forum, I understand your being apprehensive about straight up outing him & putting his RM profile name on blast right on here.

    The bigger problem however is that something needs to be done about warning people about this behavior OFF of RentMen. RentMen is not exactly always reliable in terms of unbiased feedback, there are ways of getting bad reviews removed. 

    I could understand you wanting to leave because the place was gross, but the real messed up thing is that your exit was blocked and you were held hostage without your consent. He should have just said, "hey OK, I get it, this doesn't work for you, it is what it is, doors right there".

    You probably are reluctant to start more confrontation but perhaps you could post this same story under a throwaway account on here so that there is reliable information that won't get deleted?

    Keep in mind...I'm not the "provider police" and I'm just going based on your word if it's true...it hurts all the other providers when this behavior goes unchecked.

    To be fair. He could always just make a new RM account & reform his behavior if your negative feedback really puts him in the gutter. 

     

    On 11/19/2021 at 12:13 AM, marylander1940 said:

    Report him to RM and give him a bad review if he hasn't block you by now. 

     

     

    On 11/18/2021 at 11:59 PM, sam.fitzpatrick said:

    If a provider is asking you into his home/place of business, you should not have to ask if the place is clean and free of smoke/pot/pet odors.  If upon arrival, you discover that not to be the case, that alone is reason to terminate the session before it starts.  

    As for lealving a review - I would.

     

    I left a bad review and also reported him to RM admin 👩‍💼 exactly the same way I did here. Plus provided screenshots of the nasty messages he sent me afterwards. Dozens of them. Hopefully it will take some effects. Blocked him on RM as well. What a nightmare!

    Threatening situation and consequences

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    1 hour ago, lonely_john said:

    I use 420 myself so I don't mind if a provider does 420 and is still functional and can perform. And I can actually confirm that most providers perform better when they use 420. It's usually the hard drugs the ones that mess with people's lives so then you start seeing run down apartments among other signs. If you use the search feature of the forum using the keyword "Signs of PNP" you will find some threads that mention the signs to look for in a provider's profile to determine if he's using or abusing even if he doesn't include PNP in his intos.

    I don’t mind 420 either. Don’t smoke but don’t mind others. I’m not suggesting that he was on something hard. Either way it should be consensual and announced. 

    Threatening situation and consequences

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted · Edited by Rand

    1 hour ago, Storm4U said:

    He sounds like a nightmare and the way you describe him sounds like he is a drug user. This may be a polarizing thing to say, but I just think that there is a greater likelihood of trouble with  clients or providers who are drug users. My recommendation would be to leave a review to help spare someone else the trouble. I have never been in a situation where I felt like I was in danger from a client, but I'm always cautious and on guard.

    Maybe he felt anxious and smoke something. At the end of the day I don’t care. I don’t do drugs nor I support anyone who does. Next time I’ll be more vigilant. 

    Threatening situation and consequences

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    Posted

    3 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

    It sounds like you did the right thing by leaving. He’s not professional or respectful if he sees clients in that state. I guess when you chatted to him he wasn’t high but when you turned up he was. That’s no state to provide a good service. You probably shouldn’t have paid him anything but I understand in the situation you had to get out. Put it down to experience and maybe do a bit more due diligence on your chosen provider (although I’m not sure what else you could have done in that situation). 
    I’m tempted to say you should provide a review on here or Rentmen but perhaps contact him with your complaints and see what he says before posting a review. Give him the opportunity to explain how he was in that state and the opportunity to apologise. 

     

    The thing is that I was so disgusted and stressed that I don’t want to talk to him anymore. Ever. 

    Threatening situation and consequences

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Hey y’all. 
    So I’m asking providers and everyone else. 
    Yesterday I had absolutely terrifying experience with one of the providers and wanted your opinion on how to resolve this situation or what to do, or maybe just put it all behind me. 
     

    We chatted nicely for some time and he sounded like a nice sweet guy. Exchanged some pics in the messages and both were excited. I decided to take a chance and meet at his place. After spending almost an hour to get there, he opened the door. He was standing behind it and I walked in (why I did it explain later). I saw a guy with about 15-20lb extra (old pics 🤦🏻‍♂️), candy wraps, trash and cigarette buds everywhere on the floor, stained walls and sheets. He was holding a cigarette in the hand and immediately closed the door. It smelled horrible in there. Within a minute I decided to leave that hole but he just locked and blocked the door and started being agitated. I tried to move him away from the door but he said “You don’t want to fight me”. My first thought was “I’m gonna fucking die in this hole”. I said I don’t feel save and want to leave right now. When he asked why, I just pointed him at all that mess and said I can’t be here anymore. He was looking high or on something and started saying that he spent time on “cleaning his place and waiting for me” so I suppose to pay him anyway. I said that I spent 2 minutes (would be seconds if I had access to the door) in his place and not gonna pay $300 for that. After some arguing and trying to calm him down I said I’ll pay him $50 for “his time”, sent him money and ran out of that apartment. Can’t find words to describe how awful I felt on so many levels! He was texting me afterwards that he has a big dick and asking why I left. My first impulse was to explain why and what, but I decided to just ignore all that. Didn’t see the reason to explain obvious things and waste anymore time on that person. Big dick doesn’t mean you can be a dick and people will suck it willingly in this shithole. Maybe some that are desperate will but I’m not amongst them!

     I’m sharing this a day later because I wanted to my emotions so set and relax. 
     

    Now about why I entered apartment without looking at him carefully in the first place. He does look like on pictures. I didn’t notice that pics were outdated right away. He has a lot of good reviews on Rentmen with only couple of them negative quite some time ago. And he actually a member of this forum.

    I’m not posting his name because I don’t know what to do with this situation. At least not decided should I leave a terrible review or just leave it all behind. 
     

    Have you been in that kind of situation? What did you do?

    Peace to everyone ✌️

    NYC's Finest in 2021 - Manhattan

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    1 hour ago, Italiano said:

    What a bout an excellent massage with lots of extras and fuck?...😃

    This is usually what I’m inevitably getting lol Even though I don’t plan it. As soon as masseur concentrate on my butt it’s all goes downhill 😝 I just hope that I get massage for the rest of my body beforehand. Oh well, I’m not gonna complain about that. 

    411 on Richarrrd in NYC

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    On 11/15/2021 at 12:57 PM, dutchal said:

    By emails says:

    "Hello. I give professional deep health and sports massage to the whole body, each individual massage usually lasts for 75 minutes.
    Complete Revitalisation ,and re energisation muscle complaints.
    My expertise therapy is conducted from my home only Monday till Friday offering Professional massage table,hot towels, high quality oils, shower and shower creams are all included with nice background music .
    Therapy times:
    A 12:30-13:45.
    B 14:10-15:25.
    C 15:45-17:00
    D 18:30- 19:45
    E 20:15-21:30
    Advance bookings. Prompt time keepers please.
    I will personally meet you down stairs
    793 Lexington 61 street

    Cash only $200

    you can make appointment for the next week just send a convenient time from options A,B,C,D,E and day of the week.
    Thank you 😊
    Richarrrd"

    What an interesting time slots. 
    Was is just for you or those are the times he receives a client?

     

     

    Top Men Spa NYC

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    On 11/15/2021 at 6:33 PM, Occhiverdi said:

    I just had a session at Top Men Spa. The place feels brand new. Very clean and big rooms. I had a massage with Max (after reading other reviews) and the experience was really nice. While leaving I spoke a bit with the guy at the reception and apparently they just opened last week. He also mentioned they have a variety of therapists with different backgrounds. I’ll def go back. 

    How was Max?

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