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That was exactly how it went. It got a bit busier as the night went on, but none of the guys were very my type. (I tend to like built or bear-adjacent dudes and they were all slim or twinky.) they advertise a drag race watch party on Fridays so I came back tonight and there were 5 people there for drag race lol. Followed by a drag show for an hour and then the same 4 guys came back out as gogos

Several years ago the NYC government made the decision to deprioritize enforcement of nudity/sexual activity laws w/r/t gay bars. Without naming any names, there are NYC gay bars that advertise having play spaces, there are events held at bars that openly advertise as play parties, and there are even gay naked happy hour events that travel around between non-gay bars. 

Atmosphere has no lap dances at all. I don’t think there’s anything that could be called a “strip club” in Chicago at the moment. 

I’m at Karamba half an hour before the show and there are 10 women and one other guy here. This doesn’t bode well lol. 

I was recently there on a Wednesday night and there was a crowd of 40 dudes fooling around in the corner and they didn’t break it up. Very different from when I used to go there when I lived in NY 

I also had a great experience with Armagan. Super friendly, very sexy, very powerful and sensual massage, great extras. He’s also super friendly. Only caveat is that my theory that you have to subtract two inches from listed height proved to be correct yet again lol. His ad said 6’ but I’m 5’10” and he was my height if not slightly shorter. 

I just saw Jordan and I agree with Kensington on 100%. Had a much better experience than I often do with more expensive masseurs. The blending of sensual and relaxing was so smooth compared to a lot of experiences I’ve had, and he’s just super friendly to boot. We had discussed a 90 min a few days ahead and he forgot and did a 60 min - I was so satisfied when I left that I didn’t even notice, but he messaged me to let me know I overpaid him, which I really appreciate. Excited to see him again next time I’m in NYC. 

Also on my way out I told the guy who runs the parties they need to come to Chicago. He said Chicago isn’t the most hospitable legally, but I told him I regularly go to bars in Chicago nowadays where there are full on sex parties and there’s never been any trouble, and he was surprised. He said there’s definitely a market there, and I agreed. There’s nothing like Adonis in Chicago currently. 

I got 3 dances, my favorite was with the big guy from Montreal (who lives in Toronto now). He’s just like the perfect college football jock looking dude, and has a weight to the way he moves. But he talked all through the dance about like rents in different cities and stuff, it was kind of distracting lol. 
 

im only in town for a week so I went to spunk on Thursday, Adonis at Fairytail on Friday, and I saw a couple of the same guys at all three places which as a client for some reason feels embarrassing heh. Hoping I don’t see them again at macho Mondays tomorrow 

6 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I got the DJ naked with a very nominal amount of money, guys are getting easier and easier. It was great overall.  I got to hang with many forum guys, which is always nice. Brogan remains a star. 

Ha nice! I was surprised when he was naked. 

On 2/17/2024 at 8:07 AM, Km411 said:

It’s never the words, it’s the intent. A significant cause of today’s deep divisions? Self-righteous word-shamers of the PC movement.

Sometimes the use of certain words belays the intent (or lack of intent) of the person using them. 

On 2/14/2024 at 2:06 PM, Marc in Calif said:

I hope you say "Indians" if you speak with any of them or even with a museum employee. Let us know how that goes!

Many native populations still use the word Indian to describe themselves. 

Got a massage from Wagner the other night and he was sexy as fuck. Furry, built, and tatted. Was also super nice. Had a relaxing massage with lots of body contact. Left very happy. 

Yep! Got a ticket 

Is there a party happening this week? I thought they’d’ve sent the info by now. 

Though if you’re into smaller guys, this might be up your alley: https://twitter.com/funny_mxxx

We also had fun at Nicho, but we are bears and into bears. Didn’t see naked gogos there but there were some pretty hot beary gogos in underwear. 

Unfortunately the altitude got to us and we didn’t end up going out much on the weekend because we were exhausted at the end of the day. We did go to Tom’s Leather Bar on Sunday and they did have naked hard gogos even on Sunday which surprised us. One came out every half hour on the dot. We realized they’d play a showtune every half hour and right after that ended the gogo would come out which was pretty funny. 

Currently at Blow Bar. There are a couple cute dancers but I’m having a hard time enjoying myself when 60% of the crowd seems to be straight women and straight couples grinding on each other. All the girls are screaming and the dancers are definitely focusing on them. Probably not the right spot for me. 

Planning on it, but I did go to Tom's on a Tuesday 11 months ago and they did have nude dancers and it was packed.

Going back to CDMX next month, I'll let you know if I come across anything good.

6 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Queer Nation created this sticker in 1990 (It's from the link you provided).  Yeah.... I'm not going to take guidance from them regarding terms I'd like to be called.

If that bothers you you should probably steer clear of the brand Lockwood51.

It also rubs me the wrong way when people whine about how long LGBTQIA+ etc. are getting nowadays. Like, no one’s going to yell at you for saying LGBT. People are just trying to be more thoughtful and make more people feel included, I don’t know why it’s a bad thing. 

The meaning of words evolves over time. Saying it’s impossible for queer to be empowering because it means “strange” or “other” makes as much sense as saying “fa**ot” cant be an insult because it means “bundle of sticks.”  Sure, these words can mean those things, in specific contexts. In the modern context “queer” means “not conforming to cis and heteronormative expectations of gender and sexuality.” In many contexts today that is used in a positive or neutral descriptive way. It’s possible to lob it as an insult or slur, depending on the intent of the speaker, the same way “gay” can be a neutral or positive term or be used as an insult or slur depending on the speaker’s intent. 

The insult comes in that I've never heard a woman called a cocksucker as an insult, I've heard it lobbed at men all the time.