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After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

Anyone had any recent contact?  Meeting him tonight and now all the sudden nervous!!
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Just curious as to how we are defining “older”? 

First off sharing taking those steps of going to therapy to acknowledge how to deal with issues of depression, trauma, self-esteem, and anxiety is a very important first step.  

I have also recently taken my first step of going to therapy again after a 4-year hiatus of attending a session for very similar issues. Based on my experience with therapy, as long as you are not conducting any harm towards yourself and another person you should be able to share your experience in life: however I don't know how you and your relationship with your therapist are but sharing that part of your life should only be based on you and your relationship with the therapist. 
Be proud that you are taking those important steps for your mental health. 

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Gentlemen, You know that expression, “If you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all”. There are plenty of other threads on the site that you can reply to. Let’s stop the body shaming. 

Lots of pics on his Twitter.  He has A LOT to offer…

As someone who has met Furry_wolf, I can report that he was a total gentleman, both in person and through text messaging. 

Lots of pics on his Twitter.  He has A LOT to offer…

A LOT! 

I’ve met him and he’s a very nice guy and 100% professional.  I didn’t bring up any of this forum talk as I figured it’s not a good subject for him and I didn’t want to sour the experience.

I’ve met him and he’s a very nice guy and 100% professional.  I didn’t bring up any of this forum talk as I figured it’s not a good subject for him and I didn’t want to sour the experience.

just a caution to all to read the profiles carefully.....note that this guy does not list himself as an "escort" in the "Rentmen Services" field and does not have any "I Am Into" section at all....deliberate choices that allow him some wiggle room regarding "interaction".........as always, clients need to be polite, professional, and discreet, but communication is most important

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

First time posting here so apologies if this is a repeated topic. I did some searching but didn’t find a lot.
Some background, used to be super obese (over 400 lbs) and now into the obese territory, (250 lbs). Still losing but I’ll probably never be thin or buff...
I’m looking at some escorts and obviously I’d disclose all of this before, just wondering if I should be prepared for rejection. 
Honest feedback please, I can take it!
thanks!

Update: had my first meeting and it was fantastic. Incredibly grateful to this forum and all the posters!

Just want to thank everyone for chiming in on this thread! I really appreciate the perspectives and it makes me feel a lot more comfortable booking a session.

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

Update: had my first meeting and it was fantastic. Incredibly grateful to this forum and all the posters!

My name is Adam & i’m a provider from San Antonio Tx
https://rent.men/AdamRoseXo
 
A new client of mine has brought this website to my attention, and from the looks of it, seems like I’ve had some derogatory things said  about me, mainly being my lips, and I have encountered some discrimination in unnecessary comments from people on the site, my question why? If a provider isn’t what you’re looking for move along, this seems to be the toxic masculinity problem, particularly in older, gay men were they expect every escort to be macho man Randy savage. It seems like some of them are stuck in the 80s or 90s when it’s already 2023, and I’ve read some of these post, and not just about myself, but about others. If you dont like the provider, just move along… 

I realize there was a thread a while back on him, but any recent encounters?  Please feel free to PM...
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Thanks!

Wow.  It seems like I’ve struck a chord.  
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