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    411 jakethecakexxx

    in The Deli

    Posted

    29 minutes ago, jakethecakexxx said:

    Hi! I first would like to thank you all for contributing your time and resources to the industry. My name is Jake, and I have context/rebuttals to some of the comments previously made.

    -I changed my handle/username because I filmed a scene with Cade Maddox last week and did not want to advertise a phrase for titling and name recognition purposes.
    -I am sorry that my communication and relay strategies seem impersonal. Even worse, ineffective and wasteful of your time. I have my calendly listed strictly for streamlining the process for both parties. I try my best to touch base as soon as I receive notification that an event was scheduled, but outstanding obligations sometimes limit my ability to do so. I also have severe ADHD, making forgetfulness something I am constantly developing strategies to abate. I am eliminating the scheduling platform in hopes that it will overall better suit everyone and encourage more direct communication.
    -If I ever seem disinterested/nonchalant/preoccupied, PLEASE lightly mention it in the moment. I am likely not conscious of what I was doing or that I am coming across as such. Whether my distraction is due to a nervous habit or purely accidental, I never intend on using a clients time for anything other than what they sought out. I am extremely easy going, forward, and respectful but confrontation does not bother me. ----Regardless, to anyone who felt as if I were trying to be elsewhere while we were together I sincerely apologize and wish I could respond in a more personal and specific context to each scenario.

    I am not trying to excuse any moments/instances of unprofessionalism, and lack of attention to detail. I try my best to run this as if it were a growing small business, so if I ever don't respond, or if I seem short, please do not hesitate to reach out again. I promise that I will be respectful and respond as soon as I can. Thanks for taking the time to read this, again no excuses,  just trying to give dimension to the picture being painted.

    xx Jake 

    @jakethecakexxx I give you props for coming on here and chiming in.  All the best!

    411 jakethecakexxx

    in The Deli

    Posted

    3 hours ago, Pensant said:

    Good to know. He’s coming to Seattle and I was interested and then got a canned response with his calendar. Sorry, that’s not something I’m interested in filling out.

    I filled out the calendar link and followed up with a text, back in June.  I never heard anything back besides an auto response so I cancelled. 

    Thatboyaaron

    in The Deli

    Posted

    So he’s still quoting $1500/hour or $2000 for an overnight. This kind of perplexes me - if I’m willing to spend 1500 why wouldn’t I just do the overnight for 500 more?  Or is this not a real rate? 

    David_ILCA in DC

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I’ve not met him, but talked via text. Was planning to meet but my schedule got messed up and had to cancel. He gets a lot of flack on this forum for the name changes, but he’s incredibly nice and pleasant via text. I’m sure he has reasons for the name changes, I’d still love to meet him someday. 

    Alpharetta Georgia: Any thoughts on living there?

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    On 8/18/2021 at 6:56 PM, Doe Be Doe said:

    What's the big mixed use Avalon place like? Shopping, apartments, homes, etc.

    It’s OK. Typical live-work-play situation. Most cities seem to have one now. Whole Foods, Lulu Lemon, chain restaurants, movie theatre, green space, Apple Store, etc...

    Alpharetta traffic is insane like most of the area. I will say the downtown Alpharetta has come a long way even in the 6 years I’ve lived there. Very walkable, lots of green space, condos, restaurants, etc...

    The whole place is still a little too suburban for me so I’m hoping to move in the next year or so. Feel free to PM with specific questions.

    Asking those who reviewed for feedback

    in The Deli

    Posted · Edited by jtmick
    Fix error

    I was recently contacted by no less then 5 guys after leaving a review on RM. First time hiring, so it was a little jarring, but I didn’t mind responding.  One pushed for quite a few details, including the rate, but I just kept my response positive (it was a VERY good experience), and vague.  I didn’t feel comfortable sharing the rate, but again, it was my first time, so not sure if that’s commonly done.

    Overweight clients

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    10 hours ago, lonely_john said:

    Getting back to the original topic, and responding with a possible solution to @jtmick:

    1. Start on Rentmen.
    2. Use the Search feature to filter by 'Preference: Bears'.
    3. Browse the list and pick providers.
    4. Then look if they also have a profile on Rentmasseur.

    Depending on your city, you should end up with a decent list of prospects.

    Thank you @lonely_john!  I used a lot of the advice on this thread and reached out to a provider about 2 weeks ago. I was honest with my concerns and what I was looking for. I found an excellent guy and it couldn’t have gone better. I’m very appreciative of all of the comments and advice, and for this forum in general.

    Overweight clients

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.

    The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 

    I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

    Overweight clients

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    First time posting here so apologies if this is a repeated topic. I did some searching but didn’t find a lot.

    Some background, used to be super obese (over 400 lbs) and now into the obese territory, (250 lbs). Still losing but I’ll probably never be thin or buff...

    I’m looking at some escorts and obviously I’d disclose all of this before, just wondering if I should be prepared for rejection. 

    Honest feedback please, I can take it!

    thanks!

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