Prime38

One of my personal favs.
 

Do a search in the forum Gallery for "speedos",  swim, pool, lycra...... And many other Threads here with great swimwear shots......Just go shopping !

He did say "baby" shower and not "bridal" shower.  These must be some horny women.  You've offered the best of the best for him to choose from.

It never dawned on me to do a forum search LOL thank you so much.  Those results were perfect.

One of my personal favs.
 

One other note about Swinging Richards. They have not hired a single new dancer since February 2020.  Several hot guys have gone by the club and asked.  They were told by the manager we aren’t hiring.  
 
Also was told that at 10:30 pm on Friday night they had 10 customers. I’m sure it picked up later.  It is a shadow of its former self 

I presume you mean BJ Roosters?......they aren't naked in the main room, but will get naked during a private in one of the curtained booths.....as always, politely discuss a plan with the entertainer and come to an agreement on rate, etc.......the vibe at BJs is very casual and more bar-like than SR......

really hard to answer....
if the ad is on MF or RM, as you suggest, it might include "sensual" elements (that word is open to definition)......the masseur may be planning to upsell the client in the middle of the session as things heat up with tantalizing offers of "erotic" elements (yup, open to definition, too!)......or it may be entirely therapeutic with the masseur fully clothed and the client "draped" (towel over the middle)........or, it may be a 30-minute "express" massage done in a chair??.......
of course, the best answer from us is to discreetly and politely ask the masseur....are sensual or erotic elements included in the base rate, how long is the session, is the client required to be draped, is the masseur clothed?????......be professional and don't ask blunt questions about "happy endings" and all that.......some subtle body language from you during the massage and gentle murmurs of pleasure may prod things along.....chemistry, too, you know.....
if that rate is for an hour, that's about average for a legit therapeutic session in a large city and maybe a little high for Texas (for legit).....maybe the masseur doesn't know how to price?.....or is trying to drum up business?......or plans to upsell?......or isn't licensed?.......

Hello fellas! 
 
I’m responsible for party games at a baby shower. I’m the only man going and gay. 
 
I want to play pin the junk on the hunk. 
 
I need 12 photos of men of all races in different styles of bathing suits.
My graphic artist is going to crop the bathing suit and the women have to guess which junk goes on which hunk.
I figure it’s more fun for us to share our favorite photos instead of me just googling.
 
Anyone have a photo they can submit? 
 
Thanks guys! 

Yup, yesterday was the first night back since Feb. 2020. 

without getting too specific, was that the house on a cul-de-sac just off the east side of the 101 near Cahuenga Pass with a nice view out the back??.....yes, great spot, if so...

Covid -19 forced us to examine every facet of our lives together and apart and make hard decisions. Namely, that after 8 years married and 14 together, our marriage, from my perspective, had run its course. I’m using covid in this sense to mean the time period of March 2020 - April 2021.  We completed mediation and filed with the court. The judge hasn’t officially signed off on it yet.

Thanks to staff, most of this won’t be an issue. All the chores are handled pretty competently by professionals. 
 
he’s stressed the importance of quiet, private space, which is important to me too so I think we’re going to jive on that. 
 
He’s subletting his place to a friend for the summer and keeping his work from home job.  In the event either of us is unhappy, I agreed to two weeks severance and he’ll move back with the friend and share that space for up to 10 weeks. 

Nice, seeing it tonight and I do have 2.5 spare, lol.

my only contribution is to consider all the daily practical things and their impact on the other person.....dishes in the sink, laundry routine, loud music, cleaning the bathrooms, late-night returns home, car parking, late-riser or early-riser?........  

Thanks @Prime38, your whole post was helpful! 

The only person I could ever imagine living with would be a husband I really loved and could put up with. A platonic roommate would really get on my nerves. When my husband of 42 years died several friends said “you’ll meet someone else”. My reply was “I hope not”. 

This is great advice thank you. 

He came recommended to me by someone who knows us both fairly well. I talked to him for 20 minutes on zoom, and a 5 minute follow up call to set rate. My house is 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms. He is maintaining a full time work from home job and asked for quiet, private space from 9-5. I told him I’ll be out of the house at my office during those times and he’ll have the house to himself. We discussed only one of us being at the house on weekends. Either he or I will go into nyc on weekends giving the other some time off. I don’t think he currently has friends but I told him he can have guests at his discretion. The deal includes him purchasing, preparing and delivering all meals, and setting the workout calendar. Although he is objectively very good looking, I don’t find him attractive personally based on the zoom, which actually makes this all better. 

I think it is hard to assess your situation without knowing more details of the arrangement. Do you know anything about this person's living habits? How large is your house? When he is not providing services to you, where will he be? Do you live in a downtown area or in a more residential neighborhood? Does he have friends that might come over when you are not there? What are your habits when not training? Does the nutritional deal include his preparing the meals? Finally, is he cute?

My advice @Coolwave35 is to set out and agree ALL the ground rules before he moves in. You do not want disputes or arguments and drama later. 
When I was single, I enjoyed having various models visiting Europe stay as house-guests. Many were str8, all were polite and friendly; some became lovers. 
What matters to you may vary a lot from what matters to me, but I’d discuss personal matters in advance. If he has a girl- or boy-friend, can they stay overnight, and how often? How about smoking in the house or use of drugs? How noisy, how late at night will he be?
 

In addition to laying out some "rules of engagement" from the outset (perhaps especially including boundaries around private time), I might recommend pre-scheduling some kind of regular check-in routine for you to together discuss what's working (and what's not), so things can adapt/evolve in ways that work for both of you. (You don't want to get into one of those low-grade bad roommate situations where either of you are biding time until the three months are over.)

Watched it last night on HBOMax, really enjoyed it. Yes, many hot Latino/Latinas (hint I find freckles attractive) and also a loving wonderful abuela.

Congress voted a few days ago to make Pulse a national memorial. Even though the shooting happened 5 years ago, I still look for all the exits when I go to a gay bar, just in case. 
https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/congress-votes-make-pulse-nightclub-national-memorial-rcna1170