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    Existinguser got a reaction from + claym in 411 on Healing Hero Ohio/Michigan   
    https://x.com/Bodyandspirit45
     
    He's a follower of Alex Jones.
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    Existinguser reacted to + PhileasFogg in 'No tax on tips' not for sex workers   
    Technically, this is an overhyped benefit to the working guy.  fICA is still due, most tip payers are on low marginal tax brackets anyway, so you’d have to be declaring huge taxable income and tips to reap much benefit.
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    Existinguser reacted to wallnut in Mobile Massage by Thomas - Palm Springs?   
    Recently saw Thomas and would highly recommend. Super hot guy, with great massage skills, and a generous with his touch. 
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    Existinguser reacted to MikeH10 in 411 Kyle Strong   
    I reached out to him in DC and he said (paraphrasing): he doesn't escort (top) on the first meeting, but only after multiple bookings and once he's gotten to know someone. 
    which jives with what someone else on the forum said (don't remember who). i guess i understand his reservation, but it's tough to establish rapport over multiple bookings when he's only in your city for a couple days...
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    Existinguser reacted to ReynST in How to avoid providers under the influence?   
    I agree. The purpose of a review isn't to complement someone for a good job; it's to give future clients insight on what to expect from a client perspective.
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    Existinguser reacted to bear8084 in Providers in ATL   
    I have seen Dimitri several times but don't think I will repeat.  Some very good sessions but last was really disappointing.  Shorted me on time and was a lackluster experience.
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/52551/
    I think from your list we can tell what kind of masseur you are seeking.  lol
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    Existinguser reacted to BeefyDude in Providers in ATL   
    I will review your list later.  Btw that was a big list go go through
    IMHO putting that many (or many at all) in a thread gets confusing.  Guys will often reply about someone and not say who - so you don't know who they are talking about.  Just some friendly free help to get better use from this site and the MANY guys who will help you
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    Existinguser reacted to + Jamie21 in Tipping - if so, and how much?   
    I’m an independent masseur / escort who sets his own rates but I always appreciate a tip. What it does is the next time the client books I’m more likely to be extra flexible to accommodate his preferred time. I’ll make myself available for him and be extra accommodating. I don’t expect a tip but if a client does tip it’s very welcome. I prefer a positive reference on RentMasseur to a tip however. That kind of reference is extremely valuable. 
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    Existinguser got a reaction from spidir in Tipping - if so, and how much?   
    @ReynST I love the way you worded that. More than a decade in to hiring masseurs, I believe the tip is perhaps more for my sake than anything else in that I'm older, prefer evening massages in my home and I live in the suburbs. From the pool of 130 masseurs advertising on RM in my area, maybe 5 that I'm interested would be willing to accommodate that service, so I understand tipping well is important.
    That said, I'm often the wide-eyes client after the first massage for I typically hire the same masseurs repeatedly and upon discovery of one that I really like, it's like damn, struck gold, pay the man and make it worth his while so he'll be agreeable to the next session. 
    I've also read commits on threads regarding tipping masseurs in that they're comparable to other well-paid professionals as in doctors, lawyers and CPAs where tipping is not the norm. I would dispute in that every lawyer and CPA I've worked with has always padded their billable hours and my last two primary care physicians recently began charge concierge fees between $3-5k a year which isn't cover by insurance nor accessed to my annual out of pocket. Point being, gratuity has established itself in every service profession in this country but simply referred to in sectors by another name. 
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    Existinguser got a reaction from JMS in ACRODAVEXXX visiting San Diego, Los Ángeles, Las Vegas...   
    I believe it verifies the obvious that being his prices are reflective of his popularity as a porn creator rather than massage skills. 
    That being said, I think it's great that most content creators give their fans the opportunity to experience the object of their desires in the flesh, yet it is annoying when someone elects to ignore the obvious and then complains that the massage wasn't up to par.
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    Existinguser got a reaction from Chiron368 in DeeperTouch visiting LA   
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    Existinguser reacted to BeefyDude in Providers in ATL   
    Could you be any more vaugue?
    If you want help here, give some specifics of what types of guys, types of massage etc
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    Existinguser got a reaction from Runningguyindc in DeeperTouch visiting LA   
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    Existinguser reacted to DunwoodyGuy in Handsome, Athletic Rustin in Atlanta   
    Well, hop in the clown car, Bozo!
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    Existinguser reacted to chitownguy in PREP By Stomach   
    I currently do the every two month apretude injection for Prep.  I've talked to my doctor about switching to the twice yearly shot.   Medicare would pay for it. But  I'm hesitated because of the two shots in the abdomen.  I've read that there can be more pain and discomfort than the two month shot.
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    Existinguser reacted to ICTJOCK in PREP By Stomach   
    So after discussion with my doctor about changes with Prep, I decided to set aside the Descovy and do the semi annual injection.  That was after a lot of discussion.     Two shots right in my lower stomach or upper abdomen.  It wasn’t pleasant and a bit of discomfort for a week.  Will decide if I want to do it again in September.  Kind of a mixed view, but we’ll see.  Any thoughts or personal experience?
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    Existinguser got a reaction from liubit in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    That's beautiful.
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    Existinguser got a reaction from ReynST in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    That's beautiful.
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    Existinguser got a reaction from TMB in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    That's beautiful.
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    Existinguser got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    That's beautiful.
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    Existinguser reacted to ReynST in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    I finish my massages with a hug and it is the one thing he needs to keep going. When his marriage turns sour, when a parent passes, and when he loses his job or his children lash out, he comes. He comes other times as well, but always when he's at his lowest. I give him a hug and sometimes he cries, sometimes uncontrollably. He says that he tries so hard and I say nothing back. I hold onto him as long as he needs someone to hold on to and when the tears have stopped, I let him go. I wipe him down with warm towels, he thanks me and he goes his way. 
    The first time he said "I love you" I said "you're welcome". He wanted to express his thanks using stronger words and I gave my response to his gratitude. 
    He says I love you every time afterwards and he's been saying it for for years. Recently he moved to a different coast. He has a fulfilling new position and a new house in suburbs of an exciting new city. He also has a great relationship with his children.
    Whenever he visits, he comes and he's full of smiles but even still he sometimes cries, and sometimes uncontrollably. And he says I love you.
    It's still just a thank you 
    (Yes, this is a true story)
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    Existinguser got a reaction from Loseer2 in Tipping - if so, and how much?   
    @ReynST I love the way you worded that. More than a decade in to hiring masseurs, I believe the tip is perhaps more for my sake than anything else in that I'm older, prefer evening massages in my home and I live in the suburbs. From the pool of 130 masseurs advertising on RM in my area, maybe 5 that I'm interested would be willing to accommodate that service, so I understand tipping well is important.
    That said, I'm often the wide-eyes client after the first massage for I typically hire the same masseurs repeatedly and upon discovery of one that I really like, it's like damn, struck gold, pay the man and make it worth his while so he'll be agreeable to the next session. 
    I've also read commits on threads regarding tipping masseurs in that they're comparable to other well-paid professionals as in doctors, lawyers and CPAs where tipping is not the norm. I would dispute in that every lawyer and CPA I've worked with has always padded their billable hours and my last two primary care physicians recently began charge concierge fees between $3-5k a year which isn't cover by insurance nor accessed to my annual out of pocket. Point being, gratuity has established itself in every service profession in this country but simply referred to in sectors by another name. 
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    Existinguser reacted to mrkileen in Tipping - if so, and how much?   
    I dont understand how you would factor in what another individual may or may not pay in taxes. If you tip other service based providers it might be a good idea to tip these guys too. 
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    Existinguser reacted to + bashful in Tipping - if so, and how much?   
    My last hire was before the Pandemic.  I had pretty much always tipped.  My last hire had a great reputation on this platform so scheduled 90 minutes for a suggested $450 donation.  I put $500 in an envelope.  It didn’t turn out to be like his reviews said, and I didn’t have the nerve to ask for change.  Moral of the story is always keep tipping money separate.
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    Existinguser reacted to ReynST in Law enforcement?   
    One of my regulars actually IS a cop, though he technically operates in a different city. 
    It's not cops that providers are concerned with, but entrapment and some questions and approaches are definitely hinting at that. So have some discretion and decorum in communication.
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