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Wish I could have done to my face and body what you did to this site.  More colorful. More vibrant.  Old parts seem new again.  Thanks for all your work.  

This! 

Totally agree with this.  Not all of us rely on this as a sole means of earning a living and need to post a face pic on an escort site such as RM.  In the past, I've had the luxury of working in an environment with direct client interaction which has translated to many regular and loyal customers over many years.  Currently I don't and won't ever send a face pic to anyone, period.  It doesn't matter who I will lose, there will always be clients who are willing to hire, face unseen. And let's not forget, different clientele require different SOP's.  Speaking from my own experience, the clients I see surely don't want to share photos of themselves and understand the importance of mutual discretion.

I just have this thing that I don’t send face pix out if a client request them . Im definitely not unattractive but as far as my face pix it’s just for my privacy. In the beginning I would do that , But I started to think some are just collecting to make their own personal portfolio. Some would say they don’t want to travel (incall) X-amount of miles without seeing a face pic but others have no problem doing this .Which I can see that’s valid because I would feel the same way. Sometimes I think it’s hurting my business but most times I just chalk it up . But my face pic is something I just want to hold onto for myself, family and friends. I’ve seen tons of ads where they don’t show their face just their body maybe they have the same problems with face pic request that I do maybe not .  It’s just that I feel if you want a face pic it’s really dipping into my personal life . It’s already enough that I’m naked/ half naked on these Ads also some request more and more pix (right there I know it’s Bs) . Also whenever I switch my Ad to Not available I seem to get more calls/views but when I’m available it’s  so minimal it’s kinda backwards with that. 

"I'm more of a ws sub/bottom". That might work for you. Use the opposite if you want to shower someone or give the piss. ?‍♂️ ??

Apologies for the provocative title, but this article is a fascinating and valuable read...
https://bitcoinmagazine.com/culture/check-your-financial-privilege
 
"While Western headlines focus on Coinbase going public, Tesla buying billions of dollars’ worth of Bitcoin and tech bros getting fabulously rich, there is a quiet revolution happening worldwide. Until now, governments and corporations have controlled the rules of money. That is changing.
 
"To learn more, the author spoke to Bitcoin users in Sudan, Nigeria and Ethiopia, three countries with a combined population of 366 million, well in excess of the number of individuals living in the United States."

Please wear a helmet

So I got my new ride, was wondering if anyone on here has one that and loves it as much as I do (unlikely) ?
 
Onewheel

Hey y'all I just want to ask if there are any suggestions you have for how to wisely use/invest/save money. I'm applying to med school this year and looking at some future medical school debt, but hoping to learn things I could potentially do even now or in the future too. Any books you found useful or tips from your own experiences would be mighty helpful!
 
Some things I've started so far have been opening a high-interest savings account, light investing with Robinhood, and just tracking income/expenses with a monthly budget excel sheet I made.

Thank you everyone.
 
Often times PF results from tight calves or tight hips or tight hamstrings too. My calves are not tight nor are my hamstrings nor my hips, all three areas are super flexible.
 
My podiatrist and I think it's a result from all the yoga I've been doing this last year (so cliche, I know, "everyone" started to do Yoga in front of Youtube during lockdown). The prone position of the feet in UpDog, other backBends, and numerous other positions probably got to be too much.
 
I did get a steroid shot and it did help...for a few days.
 
Becket, that sounds wonderful.
 
I've tried frozen water bottles, doesn't help. Those spikey balls make my foot itch terribly, so I can't do that. I forgot about a lacrosse or racquetball thank you. I'll try that.
 
For the last few months while it's been acute, I have refrained from calf raises when I do resistance band workouts.
 
I bought VERY good shoes that are very supportive. I don't know how to pronounce the company name, maybe it's just "On" but it's this one:
 
https://www.on-running.com/en-us/
 
My Podiatrist made super expensive custom orthotics and they are great, very supportive, much better than the ones that the shoe stores try to manipulate you into purchasing.
 
Since I don't run, unless I'm being chased, I'm not going to get surgery. If I have to put up with some pain during yoga and swimming and walking so be it.
 
I really miss being barefoot, but that only makes it worse.
 
Thank you again everyone, I think I just have to be diligent and patient; it's almost certainly self-limiting, like most things.

As an escort, I can say that mediums such as Mastercard/Visa, Venmo, and banks, are not secure for my use purposes. Efficiency is not the only relevant parameter to consider. All the aforementioned institutions can close my account at any time and keep my funds, sometimes indefinitely. Cryptocurrency provides both security and privacy under the best of circumstances. Not all cryptos are secure, private, AND efficient. However, many cryptos offer at least a couple of these features, and as blockchain and crypto technology improves, more and more options will develop that meet all of these needs. As for the claim that credit cards and Venmo are more efficient, I also tend to disagree. When I accept a deposit with Bitcoin, the value is truly mine in less than an hour generally. No one can ever take it away from me. I hold those coins now. With CCs or Venmo, the processing company truly owns that value for much longer than an hour. I don't actually receive those funds for days afterward. Venmo has instant deposit as an option, but you'd better BET they will reach into your bank account and take the money back after giving it to you if they change their mind about it.
 

 
Good faith in fiat currency and the authorities that back it has been waning for a very long time. It's not sustainable for currency to have its value dictated at the whims of whatever political party happens to be in control at the time. And leaves a lot of room for dangerous political manipulation. In India, the ruling party devalued almost all paper currency in the entire country overnight as a way to kneecap their political opponents (most election funding comes from black market cash) after converting their black market cash into real estate and other assets in advance of the announcement, then sold it to the Indian people as being a patriotic move to fight against criminals laundering. I lived there at the time and experienced the reality of everyone's money suddenly becoming worthless at the whims of politicians. The multi-hour lines at every ATM in the entire city. Taxi drivers and street hawkers who live hand to mouth, without work for days/weeks because no one had any cash. Not saying that this specific situation is the entire problem with fiat currency. But just a poignant example of why people have lost faith in the current system and are moving on to something better- currency that runs on technology instead of politics.

That's awesome, make them gains! ?

@HoleTrainer as I've said before, let them revisit this thread a year from now. No getting through to people who are clinging to the antiquated economic rails that will eventually be replaced by the modern rails of our time.

I'm so ready for clients in this industry to be ready to move to crypto. On the escort side, a lot of us have been using Bitcoin to pay for our ads for a while already. A client sent me a few hundred dollars worth of Bitcoin as a deposit in 2017 that's worth over 2K now. No complaints on my part!!

Dogecoin IS a joke AND a bubble. Bitcoin and Ethereum are the future of global finance. People invested in Dogecoin DO need to figure out their exit point because it intentionally is designed to have no scarcity. Not all cryptos are created equal.

Years ago I met one really cool client, only problem was he was openly contemplating leaving his bf of many years to be with me. I swiftly ended that , he sorted his shit out and now we still get together and its never spoken of. Sometimes clients who fall in love too quickly need some space from the great sex and realize what they have beyond time with their escort.

This thread just reminded me of something that happened years back when I was first starting out. A new client who became a regular over the years first tipped me a rather handsome amount extra in the envelope. I contacted him after counting it and asked him if he miscounted, and he replied no and thanks for reaching out about it. Years later when we got a lot closer he mentioned that tip and said it was a test of honesty, character, something along those lines. He said most of his hires dont say anything and thank him generally for the meet without acknowledging the extra stack.
Any clients on here ever done this as a test? I thought it was interesting that the majority just sat pretty with their bonus and with no acknowledgement.

One workaround for volatility would be the use of stablecoins for payment. For those uninitiated, it is essentially a token that is pegged to the value of a fiat currency ie USD, EUR, GBP, etc. From there, the provider could do as he/she pleases with it. The only downside would be ERC-20 gas fees, which brings back the option of using an alternative low-fee crypto. I cant stand Ethereum rn.

That is one that seems to have some serious potential long-term. Once their SC's roll out with Alonzo HFC, things will be possible.
 
On SC's in general, they would make transactions and specifically cancellations, tips and other specifics pertaining to payments, deposits, etc much easier and transparent for both client and provider.

Years ago I met one really cool client, only problem was he was openly contemplating leaving his bf of many years to be with me. I swiftly ended that , he sorted his shit out and now we still get together and its never spoken of. Sometimes clients who fall in love too quickly need some space from the great sex and realize what they have beyond time with their escort.

Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate it!

Hey OP!
 
Most of my trips to a client have been preceded by an interaction; either him visiting my area and staying in a hotel or me heading out there and staying in a spot of my own. For both the client and I, it gave us a bit of time to get to know our likes, dislikes and ironically it always led to talks and follow-through for another interaction.
 
I hope your trip goes well! ?

There's someone for everyone! Nice to meet ya, btw. Also from Toronto ?

I've had the opportunity to work (or play, depending on how you look at it) with other escorts. I found it prudent to lay out the difference between a threesome and a voyeur-centric session as many times things can naturally turn into the former. At no fault of the client, but if rates are to change based on a pre-arranged session type, it should be adjusted in short order. It has never been an obstacle and the clients have understood.
With voyeur-centric sessions, I have offered the client my dedicated work phone to snap photos that I would in turn edit to watermark, remove face/other details that myself or the escort I'm with wishes to have removed. A bit of a personal touch.

OR you could earn your hourly/overnight/weekend etc rate in crypto, add it to a DeFi /CeFi platform to earn yield with higher interest rates and zero management fees. All with the ability to convert to fiat currency...if that's your thing. This is what Gen Z/Millenials are doing to exit from the current financial paradigm that is suffering from chronic inflation. This is our generation's equivalent of buying gold and building wealth. Traditional centralized investments are going to die out by way of a thousand cuts. DM me if you're interested in learning more. ?