KensingtonHomo

I haven't had much of an issue with providers being late. Perhaps it's an NYC thing where time is always precious and we're all over booked. I've noticed when we hire in P Town, there's a tendency for the providers to be more lax with time but like 15-30 minutes, not more than that. I'm more forgiving in a vacation environment.

Girl, I didn't ask for your opinion, let alone for you to condescend to me with your "love" while asserting that I have "internalized homophobia." I've been in therapy since I'm 5 years old. I've well-processed all that happened to me. And I'm a prison abolitionist so I'm not calling the police over shit that happened 30 years ago, even if the statute of limitations hadn't run out.

I'm glad you cleared the air. Sounds like quite the ordeal and very unfair of this person to put you in this position.

Diabetes is also on the rise because of structural lack of health food options and limited time to exercise. What gets construed as "human nature" (including sexual orientation) is the result of socio-ecoonomic forces at a particular historical moment. We've had chocolate cake for hundreds of years but huge spikes in Type 2 diabetes happened in the past three decades. That's the result of increasing sugar and corn syrup in our food, as well as constant advertising of sweets to create desire.

I found any queer person who lives in Dubai suspect. Actually anyone who lives in Dubai. LOL

That's not human nature; It's consumerism primed by capitalism. Honestly, this guy is blandly pretty, with a nice body that's also kind of bland. It's all very "I'm a model." But I don't fuck with straight guys and he doesn't seem like any fun.

I read all your posts so don’t condescend to me. There is literally no good reason why you can’t plan for 10 am the morning of. But go off queen!

I work in an industry where I deal with/am answerable to a lot of stakeholders. If I neglect to respond to them for 2 weeks, it would be very bad for me because I would be considered "messy." @Gadfly22 has what, to me, seem like unrealistic expectations. But you're also admitting that you sometimes neglect to respond to clients or potential clients. I believe a lot of us are just oversaturated with email, texts, phone calls, social media, the news, etc. It's like we're drinking from a firehose.

Americans are particularly awful this way, and I say that as one of them. I've been actively trying to be more patient and also less available because it's a very mentally and physically unhealthy way to live.

Dude, you're coming off really poorly here. Yes, a reasonably prompt reply would be good. But since you've said you take a day off for your play, why wait until that day to make the appointment? As I've said above, we're going to Montreal in 6 days and I'm already setting things up. We met up with a provider we really enjoy in DC last weekend. I reached out to him when the trip was set to see if he'd be in town as he travels a lot. We kept in touch and had an amazing time. I think what providers here are objecting to is you wanting to set a date in a couple of hours and being pissed if the guys you want are busy. And, sure, a couple of guys I reached out to in Montreal haven't responded. That's fine. Either they're booked up and don't need the gig, or they're messy. If it's the latter, I don't want to see them anyway.

For me, I prefer to schedule things in advance. Perhaps it's because I'm a bottom and want to be clean, not have eaten right before. And as I get older I find I prefer late afternoon to early evening for sex. And since I play with my husband, we have to align our own schedules and, if we're hosting, we have to get our neighbors to watch the dog. (The dog is a sweetheart but very attached and will want to "help" the escort.) I tend to reach out a couple of days to up to a week in advance. And I think giving 24 hours for a reply is reasonable. We usually have someone in mind, with some back ups. However, I have had a few providers who refuse to schedule that far out. Or will ask us to text them the day before. Generally, the guys who want to confirm 24 hours in advance are flakey. If it's one of our regulars, we're much more open to negotiating a time. If it's someone we're checking out, refusing to schedule in advance (and we are willing to do a reasonable deposit), then we're going to move on. We're going to Montreal next week and we're already chatting with guys - not lengthy convos but getting rates, availability, checking for fit - and hope to lock a couple down before we arrive. A couple of guys have been unresponsive. And one asked us to text when we arrive. So we'll see how it goes.

Hey All, Hubby and I are off to Montreal next week for a few days. I've been checking out RM and we have a few guys who seem hot, but I'd love any recommendations from locals or people who've visited recently. I did a search but the last threat of this type was over three years old. So anything more recent would be great.

He's a pretty well known Porn star - though he has dumb politics. It's possible that he thinks you're hot and just wants to bone, but it could also be a scam.

I saw him today. Such a nice guy. Great technique and the extras (which were included) were delightful. He's very handsome, so don't let the lack of pics dissuade you.

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.

That's borderline sexual assault. Consent to blow someone is not consent to swallow.

I don't think you need to be that embarrassed. I've told guys they're sexy or hot or whatever. Maybe it was a bit excessive but I think most people have had a moment where they were taken in by someone's sex appeal. I'm also sure you feel like you said it way more times than you actually did.

I do try and be as specific and direct as possible. Not all providers are comfortable discussing these things via text, so I generally discuss it when I arrive.

Wow. I've seen him many times in the past and he was always pretty sweet. He's quite a large guy and imagine him being angry would be frightening.

His website says “Position/Top”

Okay, I took the plunge and saw StrongStrokes yesterday. He is everything that his fans have stated. He's very handsome with dark hair and blue eyes. A super-friendly guy, with great technique and well-orchestrated extras. Great body and personality. In a city where 20-something guys with no technique are charging $300 for a rub and tug, SS is the real deal. If you're into handsome, fit, smooth bodied, white guys, I cannot image you wouldn't be into him. I will definitely be a repeater despite him living on a fourth floor walk up!

No, because when you're blocked you lose access to the messages. It was a VERY banal exchange about services and pricing for me and my husband. Perhaps he just wasn't into couples or he didn't find us attractive.

It wasn't.

I had someone preemptively block me on RM after a few pleasant exchanges. Never made any sense to me.

I'm vers for everything but an anal bottom. I can enjoy giving oral for a certain amount of time depending on the guy and the vibe. I do love getting it, and am not interested in tops who don't give oral.