KensingtonHomo

I don't think you're overreacting. If a provider lists that they offer something, they should be willing to do it for you. To be honest, this is why I tend to avoid providers who identify as bisexual. I feel like there's a correlation between "no kissing" and identifying as bisexual.

What part of he's a human being are you having trouble with? There's no comparison in remarking on or reviewing an inanimate object, or a service that is being provided, and someone's body or other physical characteristic. It's like going to a restaurant and saying "the service was terrible and the waiter was homely." The first is fine; the second is dehumanizing.

No. It is not hypocritical to say that people have a right to bodily autonomy AND that it's wrong for you to take a well-known person and pick them apart publicly. It means I see providers, porn actors, whatever as full human beings, that do not exist solely or primarily for my sexual gratification. Conflating what you did with reviewing a restaurant or a piece of art is literally dehumanizing. You're comparing these man to inanimate objects. But people are not restaurants or statues. And you are not discussing a service he provided, like massage, or saying a restaurant's food wasn't to your taste. You are criticizing his body and his appearance on a semi-public forum, which he could see. Again, if I posted pictures of you and went through all the ways I perceive your appearance to be flawed how would you feel?

I have to agree with @BtmBearDad. All of this reads as an assumption that some of you have a right to these men's bodies. Or that you have a stake in how their bodies look. There's very little difference between this kind of toxic masculine entitlement and anti-abortion zealots. These escorts are people who deserve bodily autonomy. How would any of you feel if I posted pictures of you and slammed your looks? Or maybe I should start a thread on how I think tanning is gross. "Why do these beautiful young men scar and age themselves with tanning?" Maybe I should start a lengthy thread on my dislike of facial hair and how it obscures handsome faces? If you do not care for an escorts looks, DO NOT BOOK him. But creating threads picking apart people's looks is presumptuous and dehumanizing. Tattoos are a frequent topic but there's lots of dehumanizing conversations about escorts that really should be removed by the moderators.

Strong Strokes is in the LES, not far from Chinatown. https://rentmasseur.com/StrongStrokes

I texted him yesterday morning but no response thus far.

I feel like if they're not positioning themselves as bottoms, that's fine. You could always reach out and ask if they're willing to bottom for you. I'd be more concerned with a provider saying they're a specific role and not being to perform.

I agree with this. I'm not opening any further accounts. Also, the deposit should be no more than 25 percent of the rate. So, if it's $200/hour then $50. The point of the deposit is to hold the time and lock people in.

I've noticed a few of these too. I think it's odd when they claim a preference and show the opposite assets.

I haven't met him but he's cute and definitely my type.

We got vaccinated about three weeks ago. So we're not that concerned but are checking with providers if they're also been vaccinated.

I'm confused. Is this post about @BenjaminNicholas? Is there a long-running feud?

I'm in my 40s and, yes, lot of twinks approach me and my husband; want us to be their daddies. But we're not into that. I'm a bottom and generally go for guys who are anywhere from late 20s to early 60s. I expect as I age that will go late 30s to early 70s, etc. I'm not into young twinks but I like skinny lanky men. And there are many - though probably still a minority - of younger tops who are into bottoms older than them. We've met both professionals and just guys from apps. I also find that millenials and Gen Z tend to be vers regardless of if they're butch, femme or somewhere in between.

I rarely tip for the reasons @robear pointed out. The provider has set the price, and I've agreed to it. With a massage or other service in a spa I always tip but I don't go to spas for erotic massages. I have at times tipped providers who took me last minute or otherwise went above and beyond. We also tend to be return clients.

I texted him twice and he never responded. I suspect this is a side hustle to whatever he actually does for money.

I'm not opposed to making a deposit when I see someone for the first time. I'm generally willing to do 25% of the overall fee. More than that seems excessive.

I agree that being clear about what you want is key. Some providers are more or less willing to discuss extras over text. Based on your description, I think Nick Halden would be a good option. He does erotic massage and escorting so he's comfortable with extras. https://rentmasseur.com/Nickhalden

He's really hot. Curious to hear how it goes.

We went yesterday and our experience was very similar.

There are very few masseurs that live in P Town. You generally get people who are there at the same time you are. Hard to plan in advance. The spas do not have any sensual twists.

OMG. Did he watch Pretty Woman?

Interesting. I texted him the other day and never got a response. I'm not into the upcharges and I don't like the space on 14 & 6th. I prefer a private location, so I'll pass.

More than 1 million Americans are dead, the pandemic disrupted our economy and supply chains, most people received virtually no help, pushed us into rapid inflation as multinational corporations price gouge, and now we're dealing with Monkeypox. If you're not alarmed, you're in denial.

It's not an "either extreme." There's science which shows that when worn properly KN95 and N95 masks reduced transmission, particularly indoors. When it comes to infection control for respiratory viruses best practice is layered protection (vaccine + air filtration + masking).

This is based on blood samples, not actual infections, and we've had three new variants since this study was performed. Stop googling shit to try and make points based on science you do not understand.