MysticMenace

Outside escorts and hookups  I don't really have a lot of experience. The closest I've ever had to a boyfriend experience was an intense fbud relationship that lasted close to a year. But that was 9 years ago. 
 
So now I've met a guy. I wouldn't say I'm in love. But I like him a lot. It's not just sex as I've never been a sexual dynamo. I find that I also enjoy just us sitting next to each other watching TV with his head in my lap or my arm around his shoulders. 
 
But I find conversation difficult. 
 
1) We're both retired. So there's no work to talk about. 
2). He's into sports big time. I'm not. 
3). If we were young, we'd probably be talking about our classes at school. But neither of us is young or talking classes. 
 
I have to admit that it's not only with this guy that I have trouble with conversation. I'm often at a loss when I'm with family. But there I feel the reason is that my life is so different from my family. I'm the only gay one. I'm the only adult in the family who's never been married or has a significant other. I'm the only adult without children. And now I'm the only adult of my generation without grandchildren.  
 
So what do I do with my new guy friend? I don't think the physical part is enough to sustain a relationship over a longterm  

There's a video that came out today about the A-BALL. The A-BALL, developed by Polari Labs, is a product made from seaweed and hydrated collagen designed to replace traditional douching by acting as a barrier against feces during anal sex (1:53-2:06, 2:32-2:47). It is inserted before intimacy and designed to soften and be naturally expelled within 30 minutes to an hour (7:41-8:05, 12:01-12:25). The founders' future goals include conducting human trials next year and making the product widely available in pharmacies and supermarkets to eliminate shame and improve sexual health (6:15, 27:26-27:52).
 
Would you try this?

There's a video that came out today about the A-BALL. The A-BALL, developed by Polari Labs, is a product made from seaweed and hydrated collagen designed to replace traditional douching by acting as a barrier against feces during anal sex (1:53-2:06, 2:32-2:47). It is inserted before intimacy and designed to soften and be naturally expelled within 30 minutes to an hour (7:41-8:05, 12:01-12:25). The founders' future goals include conducting human trials next year and making the product widely available in pharmacies and supermarkets to eliminate shame and improve sexual health (6:15, 27:26-27:52).
 
Would you try this?

There's a video that came out today about the A-BALL. The A-BALL, developed by Polari Labs, is a product made from seaweed and hydrated collagen designed to replace traditional douching by acting as a barrier against feces during anal sex (1:53-2:06, 2:32-2:47). It is inserted before intimacy and designed to soften and be naturally expelled within 30 minutes to an hour (7:41-8:05, 12:01-12:25). The founders' future goals include conducting human trials next year and making the product widely available in pharmacies and supermarkets to eliminate shame and improve sexual health (6:15, 27:26-27:52).
 
Would you try this?

There's a video that came out today about the A-BALL. The A-BALL, developed by Polari Labs, is a product made from seaweed and hydrated collagen designed to replace traditional douching by acting as a barrier against feces during anal sex (1:53-2:06, 2:32-2:47). It is inserted before intimacy and designed to soften and be naturally expelled within 30 minutes to an hour (7:41-8:05, 12:01-12:25). The founders' future goals include conducting human trials next year and making the product widely available in pharmacies and supermarkets to eliminate shame and improve sexual health (6:15, 27:26-27:52).
 
Would you try this?

There's a video that came out today about the A-BALL. The A-BALL, developed by Polari Labs, is a product made from seaweed and hydrated collagen designed to replace traditional douching by acting as a barrier against feces during anal sex (1:53-2:06, 2:32-2:47). It is inserted before intimacy and designed to soften and be naturally expelled within 30 minutes to an hour (7:41-8:05, 12:01-12:25). The founders' future goals include conducting human trials next year and making the product widely available in pharmacies and supermarkets to eliminate shame and improve sexual health (6:15, 27:26-27:52).
 
Would you try this?

There's a video that came out today about the A-BALL. The A-BALL, developed by Polari Labs, is a product made from seaweed and hydrated collagen designed to replace traditional douching by acting as a barrier against feces during anal sex (1:53-2:06, 2:32-2:47). It is inserted before intimacy and designed to soften and be naturally expelled within 30 minutes to an hour (7:41-8:05, 12:01-12:25). The founders' future goals include conducting human trials next year and making the product widely available in pharmacies and supermarkets to eliminate shame and improve sexual health (6:15, 27:26-27:52).
 
Would you try this?

There's a video that came out today about the A-BALL. The A-BALL, developed by Polari Labs, is a product made from seaweed and hydrated collagen designed to replace traditional douching by acting as a barrier against feces during anal sex (1:53-2:06, 2:32-2:47). It is inserted before intimacy and designed to soften and be naturally expelled within 30 minutes to an hour (7:41-8:05, 12:01-12:25). The founders' future goals include conducting human trials next year and making the product widely available in pharmacies and supermarkets to eliminate shame and improve sexual health (6:15, 27:26-27:52).
 
Would you try this?

Actually was too horny to re-confirm the rate on RentMasseur, so I just confirmed whether the same rate we had discussed back in January for a 90-minute erotic massage ($250) was still accurate. He actually asked me how I knew about the rate in the end - I guess he never saved or have deleted my number back then, or maybe I overpaid and just passed it off that $250 was the 90-min rate for an erotic massage. Who knows? I liked the experience and it was worth my money.

I highly recommend. 

Some of you have noticed that my activity on the site has been more limited than usual for a while. Over the last six months, I’ve been pouring most of my time, energy, and sanity into a major project. The moderators have known at a high level what has been going on, but I’m finally at the point where I can share it openly with everyone here.
Eagle Medellín is my newest project. It is the first Eagle bar in Colombia and only the second in all of South America (the other being São Paulo, Brazil). It's located in Medellín’s El Poblado neighborhood... literally across the street from Club Oráculo and one street over from Bar Chiquita for those who know the area.
We’re building a space rooted in energy, masculinity, music, and freedom.  Think leather. Think connection. Think a night that belongs fully to the men who step inside.
Our goal is simple: deliver the experience people expect from an Eagle.  Leather. Fetish. Kink. Presence. Attitude. A place where men can show up exactly as they are.
Eagle Medellín is split into multiple zones, each with its own vibe:
Front mezzanine: an open-air second floor level overlooking the main street that is more chill and social.
Main floor: the main dance floor, the main bar, and a dedicated VIP zone.
Second floor play area: our full cruising space with its own bar. Yes, we’ll have tires, chains, structure pieces, and all the atmosphere you expect.
Back upstairs patio: an outdoor smoking and hangout area.
The entire concept blends sexuality and music into one continuous experience.
Alongside local and international DJs, we’ll feature:
Hombres del Águila (Men of the Eagle): dancers who embody the look, attitude, and energy of the Eagle brand
Guest porn stars
Rotating performers and themed nights
We want Eagle Medellín to become a must-visit spot not just for locals, but for travelers, working guys, and anyone who values a space that’s kink-positive and judgment-free.
Our grand opening is next Friday evening. There is still a long list of things we’re racing to finish, but at this point I’m confident we’re opening. Some details/features may evolve as we settle in, but the doors will be open, the music will be loud, the drinks will be strong, and the energy will be exactly what an Eagle should feel like.
I’m incredibly excited about this project and what it means for the community. I know some of you pass through Medellín and Colombia. If you do, I hope you’ll check out what we’re building.  This is something I’ve put a lot of blood, sweat, and tears into, and I hope it will live up to the high expectations of the iconic Eagle legacy.
For transparency...  I'm one of four owners who share an equal stake in the venture.  When I talk about "my" club, it's a venture with some of my closest friends.  We're all committed to making this an area that will be a destination for those who enjoy what an Eagle is all about.  
I'll toss out the social media links in case anyone is interested.  And before anyone asks... yes, I checked with the site owners here to make sure he was cool with this spamvertising! 🤪.  I also checked to make sure it was OK with me posting this in the Lounge instead of The Americas for South America travel!  🙃
Eagle Medellín (@eaglemedellin) • Instagram photos and videos
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WWW.FACEBOOK.COM Eagle Medellin, Medellín. 47 likes · 55 talking about this. 🇨🇴 Donde cuero, música y libertad se encuentran. Eagle Medellín — crudo, real, inolvidable. 🇺🇸 Where...  
 

Bette Davis's "Witch Way" with spectacular views:
Bette Davis’s Former Maine Estate in Photos
ROBBREPORT.COM The eight-acre oceanfront property where the "All About Eve" star lived for a decade is now on the market in Cape Elizabeth for $15 million.

Since this post, I had an interesting experience with Max Adonis (maybe it was for the best) in Jun 2021 and a great experience with Drew Dixon in Oct 2021.

As someone who just relatively got into male pageantry, here is how ChatGPT differentiates among the international male pageants:
Mister World: Organized by the Miss World Organization since 1996, Mister World is unique for its multi-event format that tests fitness, talent, and social skills, emphasizing athleticism and all-around ability. Strong focus on sports challenges and "world’s most desirable man" branding Winner serves as a global ambassador for charitable causes Most recent winner: Daniel Mejia (November 23, 2024) Manhunt International: Launched in 1993, Manhunt International is the oldest and most established male modeling competition, centering on discovering new faces for the international modeling industry. Emphasis on runway skills, photogenic qualities, and commercial appeal Primarily a professional modeling platform, with less focus on advocacy Most recent winner: Adonis Renaud (June 10, 2025) Mister International: Founded in 2006, Mister International seeks to find "modern gentlemen" who embody good looks, intelligence, and social responsibility, with a diverse contestant pool and segments like interviews and national costumes. Focuses on cultural exchange and advocacy (education, health) Highlights articulate, socially aware role models Most recent winner: Kirk Bondad (September 25, 2025) Mister Supranational: Started in 2016 in Poland, this pageant is known for high production values and a focus on stage presence and charisma, aiming to find men who can excel in media and entertainment. Entertainment-driven, "superstar" appeal Less about traditional advocacy, more about marketability and media presence Most recent winner: Swann Lavigne (June 28, 2025) Mister Global: Established in Thailand in 2014, Mister Global is distinguished by its environmental advocacy and celebration of cultural diversity, especially through its elaborate national costume segment. Focus on environmental awareness and global citizenship Winner promotes eco-friendly causes Most recent winner: Alejandro Ortega (October 5, 2025) Man of the World: Founded in 2017 in the Philippines, Man of the World centers on education, youth empowerment, and community service, with the motto "Masculinity with Responsibility." Judging emphasizes advocacy, community projects, and social impact Winner is expected to inspire positive change, especially among youth Most recent winner: Juul Missiaen (May 31, 2025)
 

Did they let you try it out in the store?

Jonathan Bailey
https://people.com/jonathan-bailey-is-sexiest-man-alive-2025-11842000

 
 

As someone who just relatively got into male pageantry, here is how ChatGPT differentiates among the international male pageants:
Mister World: Organized by the Miss World Organization since 1996, Mister World is unique for its multi-event format that tests fitness, talent, and social skills, emphasizing athleticism and all-around ability. Strong focus on sports challenges and "world’s most desirable man" branding Winner serves as a global ambassador for charitable causes Most recent winner: Daniel Mejia (November 23, 2024) Manhunt International: Launched in 1993, Manhunt International is the oldest and most established male modeling competition, centering on discovering new faces for the international modeling industry. Emphasis on runway skills, photogenic qualities, and commercial appeal Primarily a professional modeling platform, with less focus on advocacy Most recent winner: Adonis Renaud (June 10, 2025) Mister International: Founded in 2006, Mister International seeks to find "modern gentlemen" who embody good looks, intelligence, and social responsibility, with a diverse contestant pool and segments like interviews and national costumes. Focuses on cultural exchange and advocacy (education, health) Highlights articulate, socially aware role models Most recent winner: Kirk Bondad (September 25, 2025) Mister Supranational: Started in 2016 in Poland, this pageant is known for high production values and a focus on stage presence and charisma, aiming to find men who can excel in media and entertainment. Entertainment-driven, "superstar" appeal Less about traditional advocacy, more about marketability and media presence Most recent winner: Swann Lavigne (June 28, 2025) Mister Global: Established in Thailand in 2014, Mister Global is distinguished by its environmental advocacy and celebration of cultural diversity, especially through its elaborate national costume segment. Focus on environmental awareness and global citizenship Winner promotes eco-friendly causes Most recent winner: Alejandro Ortega (October 5, 2025) Man of the World: Founded in 2017 in the Philippines, Man of the World centers on education, youth empowerment, and community service, with the motto "Masculinity with Responsibility." Judging emphasizes advocacy, community projects, and social impact Winner is expected to inspire positive change, especially among youth Most recent winner: Juul Missiaen (May 31, 2025)
 

Congratulations, Spain, winner of Mister Global 2025

Mister International 2025 has kicked off... am rooting for France, Italy, Lebanon, Philippines, and Spain!

I noticed some Mister Global contestants just finished competing in the Mister International event.