BuffaloKyle

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An Idaho man was sentenced last week to 30 years in prison for trying to spread HIV to dozens of victims. 
Alexander Louie, 34, admitted to having sex with 30 to 50 different men and boys, including a 16-year-old, and didn't tell his partners he was HIV positive so he could infect them with the disease, the Ada County Prosecutor's office said in a news statement.
I just don't get why people want to do this. He's either mad at the world for getting HIV and wants revenge basically and/or finds it sexually exciting to infect people with HIV which is more likely I think the case when it comes to this guy.

I met up with Paul Codi for two hours when he was here in Buffalo at his place. He spends most of his time in Toronto with his BF Travis Connor. He is incredibly sexy and a super nice guy. I've never met Travis so I have no info on him or how they are when hired as a duo.
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It's cheaper to see her live in concert than to go see her in a movie! 🤣

Just curious what the makeup of the forum is when it comes to sexual position. I'm guessing the majority are bottoms as we have a good amount of older guys on here. I'm pretty much a top although I like to be rimmed and fingered. Just no cock in my hole. Only been fucked a couple times and wasn't a fan.

It's cheaper to see her live in concert than to go see her in a movie! 🤣

I couldn't imagine hiring a provider and then sucking their dick through a condom. Seems like a waste of money! I want the real thing in my mouth. 🥰

I'm a top and I love to rim a nice hole. Get it all wet, relaxed and opened up for my cock! 😁

It's early A.M. in California, and since I am in my study and unable to sleep I chose to come to this site and spend a few minutes.  Well, since it's been a while that I scrolled through "The Forum," I thought I'd respond to this question.
In my assessing the question, I decided to state that when I am engaged in sexual pleasure with a man, I have concluded that I am versatile.  But in my versatility, I prefer to bottom for a man who excels in making his partner feel ever so good.  
During the past few years, there have been two providers who definitely knew how to take me over the top, and in their fulfilling their as well as my need, I prefer taking a big dick while I'm lying on my back.  That way the top provider can hit all of my "rings."
 

I couldn't imagine hiring a provider and then sucking their dick through a condom. Seems like a waste of money! I want the real thing in my mouth. 🥰

The big takeaway from reading everything so far is don't just let the provider know you are looking for a BFE and leave it at that. Be specific with what you want. You are paying after all so you wanna make sure you are going to get exactly what you have in mind.

Hammie needs to do the Craig Kimbrel:

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/other/idaho-man-gets-30-years-for-trying-to-spread-hiv-through-sex-to-male-victims/ar-BB1lZqzx?ocid=BingNewsSerp

An Idaho man was sentenced last week to 30 years in prison for trying to spread HIV to dozens of victims. 
Alexander Louie, 34, admitted to having sex with 30 to 50 different men and boys, including a 16-year-old, and didn't tell his partners he was HIV positive so he could infect them with the disease, the Ada County Prosecutor's office said in a news statement.
I just don't get why people want to do this. He's either mad at the world for getting HIV and wants revenge basically and/or finds it sexually exciting to infect people with HIV which is more likely I think the case when it comes to this guy.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/other/idaho-man-gets-30-years-for-trying-to-spread-hiv-through-sex-to-male-victims/ar-BB1lZqzx?ocid=BingNewsSerp

An Idaho man was sentenced last week to 30 years in prison for trying to spread HIV to dozens of victims. 
Alexander Louie, 34, admitted to having sex with 30 to 50 different men and boys, including a 16-year-old, and didn't tell his partners he was HIV positive so he could infect them with the disease, the Ada County Prosecutor's office said in a news statement.
I just don't get why people want to do this. He's either mad at the world for getting HIV and wants revenge basically and/or finds it sexually exciting to infect people with HIV which is more likely I think the case when it comes to this guy.

The best advice I have heard on lending money is only lend an amount of money you would not be upset to never get back. It's crazy how many people lend money and put themselves into debt to do it or financial difficulty. Obviously that wasn't you @Rick M but just my input.

@Simon Suraci has a body scrub option available in his service offerings. Wrong coast though, he's in Cali.

My advice even on guys with non AI generated pics is to ask for a facetime chat first. I do it with the majority of my hires so I can get a good look and feel for them so there is no surprises. I let them know right away when I ask I'm not looking to see them nude or to have it be an overly long call just a few minutes at most. I've never had a single provider shoot down my request when I explain it's just to confirm they are for real.

Hammie needs to do the Craig Kimbrel:

My 80yo mother and I watched a new show on Netflix - A MAN IN FULL.  Terrible.  It was just BAD.  It's a shame.  Diane Lane and Jeff Daniels.  Google it.  Reviews are mixed.
...BUT....
In the closing minutes of the show, one man fucking another man's ex-wife, argument starts, man flashes fully erect penis.... and it's a beaut', fight scene.....  Video below. When did fully erect, rather large penises on Netflix shows become a thing?  It was quite a shock.... Mom was like... Damn, that's a beautiful penis!  I know where I got my taste from.
 
The actor is Tom Pelphrey
 
 
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There was another show - Sex/Life - where some guy was going to the same gym as his wife's ex-bf.... who apparently was rather.... shall we say large.....husband intentionally showers with ex-bf to see just how big... pic below. 
 

Thanks for the mention, @BuffaloKyle. Yup, sorry west coast here. I’ll make it to NY state on the road again, possibly NYC. I have a growing interest list for NYC. Anyone here with an interest, PM me to get on that list, if you have not already.
Yes, I offer body scrub services. It takes about 25-30 mins and I am very thorough. No part of you goes untouched. I reach around your back like a big firm hug to scrub and wash your torso. My clients really enjoy the full body-to-body contact. More close and intimate than your typical Turkish, Thai, or Korean scrubs. It depends on the client and what they seem comfortable with, but sometimes I will kiss his neck or nuzzle his shoulders. I can’t imagine someone like@pubic_assistance being into that, but to each his own. Maybe no body to body touch at all. I read your body language and go from there.
Mutual touch and play is very much welcome, although it’s not the focus of a body scrub. Remember I am using an exfoliant, so you don’t want that getting directly in or around your sensitive bits with any friction. There’s plenty of opportunity for touch before the scrubbing and after the rinse and body wash cycles. Many a client member becomes erect, perhaps again after climaxing during the massage. Some do not at all and that’s fine.
It’s great for your skin and very relaxing - well worth the cost apart from anything erotic or sensual going on. Most clients are so zenned out and extremely relaxed at this point after a massage that it’s not really the vibe to make a hardcore shower play session happen. Keep in mind you’re not paying an appropriate fee for that either, unless you work something out ahead of time. Typically it’s more sensual and relaxing. It’s comforting having a naked man with no inhibitions take care of you from head to toe. You don’t even need to towel yourself off. All you do is stand there in total bliss.
@Wolfer@soloyo215There is space in my shower in San Diego for a body length teak table to give Vichy showers. I am considering offering those in the future. I vacillate between the perks of either a) greater contact standing up, or b) a more relaxing horizontal position for the client. I suppose I could offer both.
@streetfan14 I’ve been wanting to try Marc Dylan for a while now. Even more reason to see him! Sounds great.
@KensingtonHomo your experience is more realistic. There usually isn’t enough time to have a long (free) shower session with a client after a massage. A 5 min or so shower to lather up and rinse off with a short bit of (optional) sensual touching is sufficient. I do this upon request. If a mutual shower is important to anyone here, be sure to request it but please don’t outstay your welcome. Your masseur may have someone booked after you and he can’t spend 30 mins in the shower with you when he really needs to spend that time changing the linens for the next client, responding to inquiries, grabbing a quick bite, or what have you.
Unfortunately clients try to extract more time without paying, basically trying to get the scrub for free, and/or some sex for free. @TravelingLibra has a reasonable attitude by booking the time to include the shower. Not everyone explicitly offers the shower service like I do, but I am sure many would be willing. A few clients hire me just for the scrub! Best to communicate your desires and expectations so your masseur can meet your needs. 
@Thelatin good for you if you’re paying for a massage and getting shower sex for free. Maybe that’s not what you meant, but I just want to bring up the point anyhow. It’s a different story when you’re paying for escort service. I often shower with my clients after sexual play, or as part of the main event. I at least offer a shower. We can continue play in the shower or simply have a relaxing unrushed time together getting cleaned up and continuing our touch, conversation, and connection. I like these. It’s generally built into the time the client is hiring, but not always. If I have time to go over, I do. I offer combo spa/escort sessions as well, so our time together can be more fluid, and go with the flow between all the activities.

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@Simon Suraci has a body scrub option available in his service offerings. Wrong coast though, he's in Cali.

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The big takeaway from reading everything so far is don't just let the provider know you are looking for a BFE and leave it at that. Be specific with what you want. You are paying after all so you wanna make sure you are going to get exactly what you have in mind.