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I met up with him once and he was just like his pictures and with a sexy French accent. He didn't flake on me but of course YMMV

Atlantis will throw you out really fast if they find out you’re actively soliciting onboard btw. I’d put on your ad that you’ll be available in the locations the cruise will stop at on the dates it does and without saying “Atlantis” directly you can say “On a cruise ship from X date to Y date”.

Some of them might frequent the forum and get enraged if you make it that public. Flooding with DMs and threatening to release personal info.

Yikes @Simon Suraci that sucks. Fortunately this year while I did have some providers show up on substances none of them were too terrible other than not being able to perform. Glad to hear you're OK

I had a couple of worst. One of them traveling to the USA and we started messaging here, then we started texting and set up time. We kept in touch. Messaged him the day before and he started hyping our meet "we're gonna have a fun time" "it's gonna be hot" etc. The day of in the morning I messaged "Hey did you make it?" aaaaaaand he ghosted me after all the hype. When I reached out again later in the evening past our appointment time wondering what happened.... they replied said they had been sick all day and couldn't text. They were so sick they didn't have their phone all day. Yet when I checked their very public Twitter he had been posting all day. Unprofessional liars. Another one gave me a rate. Then when I showed up he started doing upselling "Kissing is extra" "bb is extra" "rimming is extra" "sucking you is extra". That was just awful.

I did a while back, nice guy but he had some performance issues and was clearly on what I think was G.

You could reach out, apologize again and offer to put a deposit for a meet.

Any info on this stud? I've seen him around the gyms Golds/Equinox in Hollywood and I think he had a masseur profile but this is the first time I see him on RM. Anyone has any info? Edit: I readded the link MuscleR - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Los Angeles, CA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Los Angeles, CA - MuscleR: PabloVersXXX

We don’t know when was the last time you updated that and want a clear and direct proof from you of the rate. There are providers pulling bait and switch and will tell you they “increased” their rate after the service and the posted rate isn’t that anymore The other reason: I have a saved text template inquiring about rate/availability/location that I copy paste.

Well, this is also a business based on trust. If you want to become a regular and get repeated bookings (especially multi hour bookings like overnights) then I need to be able to have some rapport with you that comes with building trust, yes, even outside the bedroom. Oh and those accountants and lawyers and what not you mention? They still go out and play golf with their best clients, and those who refuse and never go golfing get less and less business. Is not "forcing" a friendship, is building trust and network. So save your “petty” and “manipulative” comments to yourself.

I'm on the fence on the off-the-clock moments in the sense of I wouldn't expect that from someone I've seen a handful of times. However I usually offer something like a meal or drinks/coffee before/after when booking more than 3hrs with someone I've seen 5+ times and if they never accept I totally understand but would book them less.

People who crave that kind of intimacy which I understand.

Three of the guys I've done overnights with want in at 9pm and want out at 7am. They say it's 10hrs. Hence why I'm saying this, rather do 4hrs 9pm-1am for more than half the rate of 10hrs

I've been blocked too and it's fine lol. One time I was going somewhere about 3 weeks before so I did a first pass and looked at 6 or so profiles. A week before I went to check them to see if they were still in the location and short listed 3. The week of I went to pull their numbers so I could reach out aaaaaand one of them had already block me. 🤷‍♂️ It happens. The other type have blocked me after we either had a bad session, or they were fully MIA and never showed up and blocked me to avoid a bad rating. So yeah, it happens and is fine. Unless we've booked you don't owe me any time or attention.

I've kinda started moving away from overnights. We meet at 9pm, have dinner, play until about 12:30, go to sleep then wake up at 7 and bye? IDK It seems that TO ME, I would have a much better time booking 3-4hrs from 8pm-12 then bounce. The difference in rate can be half or more.