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I love to rim but I definitely understand why some (many?) don't like it. There's a huge difference between putting your cock in someone's ass (especially with a condom) and putting your lips/tongue in someone's shithole.

I love to rim but I definitely understand why some (many?) don't like it. There's a huge difference between putting your cock in someone's ass (especially with a condom) and putting your lips/tongue in someone's shithole.

I love to rim but I definitely understand why some (many?) don't like it. There's a huge difference between putting your cock in someone's ass (especially with a condom) and putting your lips/tongue in someone's shithole.

I love to rim but I definitely understand why some (many?) don't like it. There's a huge difference between putting your cock in someone's ass (especially with a condom) and putting your lips/tongue in someone's shithole.

I love to rim but I definitely understand why some (many?) don't like it. There's a huge difference between putting your cock in someone's ass (especially with a condom) and putting your lips/tongue in someone's shithole.

I sent inquiries to three different guys about two weeks ago. Only heard back from one. I had used it in August without any issue. The escort and I did all of our communication via the app and it was fine. This time, I'm not so sure. I'll probably stick to texting directly. Seems a bit hit or miss.

If you are sticking to strictly therapeutic massages, 25% is probably fine. It depends on how cheap the massage is for me though. There's a chain spa here in NYC that charges about $70 for 90 minutes. (I think? It's been awhile since I've visited them thanks to Covid.) 25% of $70 is only $17.50, but I tip $30 if they are good, or maybe $25 if they are average. Massaging for 90 minutes is a lot of work and they don't make much money. I feel like a total of $100 for a 90 min massage is a great deal.

Were you looking on the site after midnight? They hide them at that time, then they come back at some point in the morning.

I am with you. I dated a guy one time who smoke ? like crazy. He had very bad smokers breath.

If you are sticking to strictly therapeutic massages, 25% is probably fine. It depends on how cheap the massage is for me though. There's a chain spa here in NYC that charges about $70 for 90 minutes. (I think? It's been awhile since I've visited them thanks to Covid.) 25% of $70 is only $17.50, but I tip $30 if they are good, or maybe $25 if they are average. Massaging for 90 minutes is a lot of work and they don't make much money. I feel like a total of $100 for a 90 min massage is a great deal.

I paid just paid him the $100 as stated on RM seeing as I would have spent the same plus tip at Spa27

Well. I think 100% for a "certain massages" is pretty good. I usually tip about $50 for an hour and $70 for 90 min and only go to 100% for special occasions. lol I've been going to TSMS for a couple of years now, not quite since they opened, but almost, and no one has ever questioned my tipping there except for Philip, who asked for a "good tip" in the middle of the massage. He needs to ask because, well, I just wouldn't recommend him (no reviews here...).

Did you pay more than the regular 27 Men Spa rate for his massage? I wonder how that deal works out for him?

How much are you tipping? (If you don’t mind me asking? lol)
The only one there who’s ever asked me about tips there is Philip and he’s not worth a good tip.

There's definitely a difference for the top, at least for me. I love the feeling of raw sex, but sex with a condom is usually less "stimulating". It takes me a lot longer to cum, if I can cum at all using a condom. I think bottoms can definitely feel the more powerful ejaculations. I have had a few myself and every time the bottom would comment on how he could feel me cumming. And I'm talking about hook-ups, not escorts looking for a bigger tip with fake a "oooh baby, that was so hawt! I could feel you cumming." ?

There's definitely a difference for the top, at least for me. I love the feeling of raw sex, but sex with a condom is usually less "stimulating". It takes me a lot longer to cum, if I can cum at all using a condom. I think bottoms can definitely feel the more powerful ejaculations. I have had a few myself and every time the bottom would comment on how he could feel me cumming. And I'm talking about hook-ups, not escorts looking for a bigger tip with fake a "oooh baby, that was so hawt! I could feel you cumming." ?

There's definitely a difference for the top, at least for me. I love the feeling of raw sex, but sex with a condom is usually less "stimulating". It takes me a lot longer to cum, if I can cum at all using a condom. I think bottoms can definitely feel the more powerful ejaculations. I have had a few myself and every time the bottom would comment on how he could feel me cumming. And I'm talking about hook-ups, not escorts looking for a bigger tip with fake a "oooh baby, that was so hawt! I could feel you cumming." ?

There's definitely a difference for the top, at least for me. I love the feeling of raw sex, but sex with a condom is usually less "stimulating". It takes me a lot longer to cum, if I can cum at all using a condom. I think bottoms can definitely feel the more powerful ejaculations. I have had a few myself and every time the bottom would comment on how he could feel me cumming. And I'm talking about hook-ups, not escorts looking for a bigger tip with fake a "oooh baby, that was so hawt! I could feel you cumming." ?

I haven't hired him but I plan to one of these days. Turns out that he works at Energy Spa. I saw him there when I met TerrenceZZ. Seemed nice in general and we chatted via RentMen messenger that night. I had to check if that was the same guy I thought it was. lol Obviously, rates will vary from a spa/massage encounter to a RentMen encounter but I am interested in trying him myself.

My point was that by going prep-no condom you're knowingly exposing yourself to other STIs besides HIV. It's pretty jarring to say that you're fine with STIs as long as there's a cure.

This is why I'll never understand the prep bareback crowd.

Is it a downside? Surely you jest because saying so, imho, is demeaning to Asians. You artificially set a barrier they can't overcome until they turn 40.
What you might have said, or I would say, is that the question is how attracted are you to men who look very young despite being of age and more. If you are not attracted to the same, then it's on you, not the Asian.
I don't think that the Asian in question looks so young as to be mistaken for being underage. But I have seen several Asians in my time...it gives me a frame of reference.

I would never send my pic to an escort in advance of meeting. First of all, what if THEY are the ones who are law enforcement? Second, I'm hiring so it shouldn't matter what I look like exactly. I don't mind sending my stats/general description but no, they are not getting my pic.
As mentioned above, I did send my pic to an escort I had met a year or so prior. I said we had met before but he wanted me to jog his memory. No problem.

Not if you are in his neighborhood with your bf and you don't want the two to meet! lol
I hire because usually it means less complications than hook ups. I tried Craigslist/Grindr hook ups but more often than not the other guys wanted more than just a FWB situation.

Yeah, 'cause we're all alike on such issues.