The_Impeccable_G

It sounds like you have gotten to know him pretty well. Perhaps you can persuade him to see a doctor for a full medical checkup. With some blood work and answering some pointed questions, they may be able to find out what can be done to help him. It may be a simple as a few dietary adjustments. If you are willing to pay for his doctors visit, he may be more than willing to go - he must be kinda worried too.
 

Agree. But I hope we are no longer a minority, in the sense that nobody cares now.

I will probably go against the forum consensus, but I find reasonable for escorts to ask for a photo. At the same time I understand clients concerns. What I do, is send a first message with my WhatsApp that has my face photo. And I always have a quick video call before we meet.

I also assumed the DNR was for someone who was terminally ill and in a medical setting, not for EMRs who had been summoned to a home in an emergency. That seems to me to put an unfair burden on the EMRs, who would not have expected to have to make that kind of decision.

Sex was much more exciting--to me--in the days before the Internet. Now it is a commercial interaction much like buying anything on Amazon. I enjoyed the activity of cruising for sex and sometimes finding it in unlikely places. I liked the excitement of not knowing what someone's body looked like until he took his clothes off; faces were more important than cocks, which were usually the last thing you saw. Other than checking for herpes, crabs, or "the drip," one didn't think much about the health consequences of having sex with a stranger. Bars were social venues as well as places to find sex partners, so one could combine socializing with friends with the possibility of ending the evening in bed with a stranger, and if the latter didn't happen, the evening was not a waste. If you were more determined just to have sex, then a bath house was a more logical choice, and you could relax afterwards in the sauna or pool. Belonging to a kind of secret society was fun--as long as you didn't get outed to the police or an unsympathetic employer. As I aged, that all got to be less fun, so I think I got the best of both worlds: being "gay" when I was under 40, and becoming a respectable member of a legal minority when I was older.

I remember... Fond memories, but at the same time is it not great that we no longer have to go to a gay bar? That we can have fun and flirt anywhere?

Ok II ll watch it tomorrow. But social media campaigns is part of what I do professionally so I doubt there is anything I don't already know.

Why is the number of followers so important to you? Less followers makes the guy less attractive? Say you are after an insta model with 100K followers and turns out only 10K are real. What does it matter to you?

Large number of followers and nice content has nothing to do with what happens at the end, if it ever happens. Insta is not an escort agency.

I just realised my post is in bold. Apologies. Don't know how it happened. I am typing on my small iPhone trying to fight jetlag and get some sleep.

Large number of followers and nice content has nothing to do with what happens at the end, if it ever happens. Insta is not an escort agency.

Large number of followers and nice content has nothing to do with what happens at the end, if it ever happens. Insta is not an escort agency.

Why is the number of followers so important to you? Less followers makes the guy less attractive? Say you are after an insta model with 100K followers and turns out only 10K are real. What does it matter to you?

Released for streaming instead of in-theater, this is a fun dark comedy/heist/gangster flick.
 
Highly implausible and the writing gets a little lazy towards the end, but it's an easy watch.
 
Sidenote: I've liked Rosamund Pike since Gone Girl. While the film was entertaining, if you can read the book, it's really superb storytelling.

Why is the number of followers so important to you? Less followers makes the guy less attractive? Say you are after an insta model with 100K followers and turns out only 10K are real. What does it matter to you?

Yes, because being in a relationship can mean much higher costs overall.

I wonder if you are deliberately missing the point here @marylander1940 ?
 
I agree with @The_Impeccable_G that Seeking is not a site to use to find an instant hookup or hire.
 
I feel that many young men on Seeking are enthusiastic amateurs. They are sexually fluid or versatile, and they see an older man as interesting because he can look after them. They are interested in a classic “mutually beneficial arrangement”. I feel they would regard as crass and vulgar any older man saying I will pay you for sex.
 
I do understand that some posters will regard any unconventional relationship as entailing “paying for sex”. Of course, an attractive young man wanting an expensive gift may please his partner in bed either to provide an incentive for purchase or to say Thank you…just as a wife may please her older husband in bed, hoping for a similar outcome. I don’t feel you can reduce the complexities of a relationship to a simple transaction.
 
I always had a clear photo and true stats on my online profiles. Over the years, I met a few young men who genuinely prefer an older man, but on Seeking I found there were many who responded well to me. The ones I liked were nice young men with nice fit bodies; they were generally well-educated and well-mannered. Building friendships with them took time, but it was an enjoyable experience.

Mostly fashion models on short stay in my city.

Start slowly. No overnights. I rarely hire escorts. I prefer the less transactional amateurish SA and Instagram guys.

What is this about? 5,10 or 20 dollars, like a tip to the waiter? I find it an insult to escorts and customers.
 
And you thought it would be good for your mental health and to help the poor guy, to "maintain a bit of connection" until you meet next year, or the year after next, but certainly before the end of the decade...
 
One thing I get from your post is that you need to take care of your mental health.

He offered you nothing, which could also mean he's not interested in this kind of monetization.
 
Perhaps the way you lowballed it, you offended him and he's written you off. I know I would have.
 
 
... And for the record, calling us 'scorts' sounds silly.

I drove from Germany to Switzerland in the Winter of 1973. But before I read Thomas Mann's "The Magic Mountain," about a luxury hotel for those with tuberculosis, or thought they had tuberculosis (before The First World War). Great fiction based on real life.

I am in my fifties. The last 10 years with a now 30yo bf/partner/soul mate. He is the oldest guy I have ever been. My taste has slightly changed. The older I get the younger I like.

I am in my fifties. The last 10 years with a now 30yo bf/partner/soul mate. He is the oldest guy I have ever been. My taste has slightly changed. The older I get the younger I like.

I will probably go against the forum consensus, but I find reasonable for escorts to ask for a photo. At the same time I understand clients concerns. What I do, is send a first message with my WhatsApp that has my face photo. And I always have a quick video call before we meet.