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Just wanted to point out that we raised $10,000.
 
Congratulations!

And the world breathes a collective yawn. Entitled, wealthy white dude seeking attention and validation comes out. Wow. Groundbreaking.

He is actually a very nice person. He has had his share of troubles and seems to always bounce back. He looks better than he ever did. I wish I looked like that at his age. Lets be more compassionate. I always wish the best for him. Remember this is a live human person we are talking about, not an object.

I sometimes follow a month or two on onlyfans to support gay dancer / escorts. I find straight guys have full content (for me).

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This is an oddly complex topic. People who have obesity deserve to be happy, live their lives, and not receive unrequested health advice or critiques from strangers or friends. They are beautiful the way they are, and deserve to feel joy as much as everyone else.
 
But a toxic part of the BP & HAES community also claims dieting & weightloss as fatphobic. I would never give diet or fitness advice to someone who is living in a larger frame unless they specifically asked for it, but they need to accept concerns from their medical team. Not all of their ailments are caused by their obesity, but some either are or will be. They need to accept that they are worthy of happiness, and their weight doesn’t deprive them of that, but also go in accepting that statistically it isn’t the healthiest option. Much like smokers have to accept their life and habits will likely have a negative consequence on their overall long term health.

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This is an oddly complex topic. People who have obesity deserve to be happy, live their lives, and not receive unrequested health advice or critiques from strangers or friends. They are beautiful the way they are, and deserve to feel joy as much as everyone else.
 
But a toxic part of the BP & HAES community also claims dieting & weightloss as fatphobic. I would never give diet or fitness advice to someone who is living in a larger frame unless they specifically asked for it, but they need to accept concerns from their medical team. Not all of their ailments are caused by their obesity, but some either are or will be. They need to accept that they are worthy of happiness, and their weight doesn’t deprive them of that, but also go in accepting that statistically it isn’t the healthiest option. Much like smokers have to accept their life and habits will likely have a negative consequence on their overall long term health.

I’m a bit younger than the standard group here. I was taught never make a negative comment on something physical that someone can’t change in 20 minutes (eg-hair, makeup, something in teeth, shower). That goes for both clients and escorts. They might be the cream in your coffee, but they are someone else’s.
 
Being attracted to someone or not should have no affect on how you treat someone outside the bedroom. Someone else’s weight doesn’t matter to you unless they’re asking for a piggie back ride

I wait for my "little-friend" to guide me.... When my COCK gets hard, I've found the RIGHT guy for me (at THAT moment) ?

You give great highlights. Def want to hear what happened after!

There are over 170 types of HPV, many of which are entirely asymptomatic, relatively harmless, or the body can fight off. So rather than trying to fit 170 different types of HPV into a needle and hoping the immune system adapts defenes against all of them, the researchers focused on the HPV types that are most likely to lead to cervical cancer, genital warts, and cancers of the mouth, anus, etc. So the HPV vaccine isn’t perfect, but it literally is a vaccine for many types of cancer.
 
And people who firmly believe in the scientific reasoning behind vaccines push for more people to take vaccines in order to maximize their societal benefits. The more people immune to whatever disease reduces its spread, and saves lives or reduces suffering.
 
The more people get the HPV vaccine, the lower chance that people who can’t receive it (immunocompromised, whatever) come in contact with HPV and later on develop cancers.

There is a problem that millennials and younger are more likely lately to catch Covid-19.
 
It’s partly partying, it’s partly that they’re more likely to be financially required to be out working, it’s partly a failure of the scientific communications and even the elected officials. We’re told constantly that for our ages we’re only at a .2-.02% risk, a number so small it’s easy to overlook. The media never talks about the risks to young people aside from deaths.
 
We grossly under-estimate the size of our social bubble, thinking they’re safe as they only see 6-10 people. They don’t factor in how many people those 6-10 people see.
 
But I’ve seen many boomers / gen x /older as millennials not wearing a mask, wearing it incorrectly, or denying the risks. We all could do better.

There is a problem that millennials and younger are more likely lately to catch Covid-19.
 
It’s partly partying, it’s partly that they’re more likely to be financially required to be out working, it’s partly a failure of the scientific communications and even the elected officials. We’re told constantly that for our ages we’re only at a .2-.02% risk, a number so small it’s easy to overlook. The media never talks about the risks to young people aside from deaths.
 
We grossly under-estimate the size of our social bubble, thinking they’re safe as they only see 6-10 people. They don’t factor in how many people those 6-10 people see.
 
But I’ve seen many boomers / gen x /older as millennials not wearing a mask, wearing it incorrectly, or denying the risks. We all could do better.

There is a problem that millennials and younger are more likely lately to catch Covid-19.
 
It’s partly partying, it’s partly that they’re more likely to be financially required to be out working, it’s partly a failure of the scientific communications and even the elected officials. We’re told constantly that for our ages we’re only at a .2-.02% risk, a number so small it’s easy to overlook. The media never talks about the risks to young people aside from deaths.
 
We grossly under-estimate the size of our social bubble, thinking they’re safe as they only see 6-10 people. They don’t factor in how many people those 6-10 people see.
 
But I’ve seen many boomers / gen x /older as millennials not wearing a mask, wearing it incorrectly, or denying the risks. We all could do better.

There are over 170 types of HPV, many of which are entirely asymptomatic, relatively harmless, or the body can fight off. So rather than trying to fit 170 different types of HPV into a needle and hoping the immune system adapts defenes against all of them, the researchers focused on the HPV types that are most likely to lead to cervical cancer, genital warts, and cancers of the mouth, anus, etc. So the HPV vaccine isn’t perfect, but it literally is a vaccine for many types of cancer.
 
And people who firmly believe in the scientific reasoning behind vaccines push for more people to take vaccines in order to maximize their societal benefits. The more people immune to whatever disease reduces its spread, and saves lives or reduces suffering.
 
The more people get the HPV vaccine, the lower chance that people who can’t receive it (immunocompromised, whatever) come in contact with HPV and later on develop cancers.

There are over 170 types of HPV, many of which are entirely asymptomatic, relatively harmless, or the body can fight off. So rather than trying to fit 170 different types of HPV into a needle and hoping the immune system adapts defenes against all of them, the researchers focused on the HPV types that are most likely to lead to cervical cancer, genital warts, and cancers of the mouth, anus, etc. So the HPV vaccine isn’t perfect, but it literally is a vaccine for many types of cancer.
 
And people who firmly believe in the scientific reasoning behind vaccines push for more people to take vaccines in order to maximize their societal benefits. The more people immune to whatever disease reduces its spread, and saves lives or reduces suffering.
 
The more people get the HPV vaccine, the lower chance that people who can’t receive it (immunocompromised, whatever) come in contact with HPV and later on develop cancers.

There are over 170 types of HPV, many of which are entirely asymptomatic, relatively harmless, or the body can fight off. So rather than trying to fit 170 different types of HPV into a needle and hoping the immune system adapts defenes against all of them, the researchers focused on the HPV types that are most likely to lead to cervical cancer, genital warts, and cancers of the mouth, anus, etc. So the HPV vaccine isn’t perfect, but it literally is a vaccine for many types of cancer.
 
And people who firmly believe in the scientific reasoning behind vaccines push for more people to take vaccines in order to maximize their societal benefits. The more people immune to whatever disease reduces its spread, and saves lives or reduces suffering.
 
The more people get the HPV vaccine, the lower chance that people who can’t receive it (immunocompromised, whatever) come in contact with HPV and later on develop cancers.

Usually CoolWave gives great updates, but he said he’d be busy today up earlier in the thread... I bet he’ll have quite the stories to tell tomorrow.

This week’s AVN lineup already looks better than the last one.

I have a regular weekend buddy who I see about one weekend per month. Not sure we will be able to continue this cadence in the new COVID world because he is in NYC and I have an apartment in Philly that I will be vacating in early September.
 
My 'relationship' with him is more akin to Friends w/ Benefits - we enjoy watching movies/binge series together, playing video games, ordering great food in, getting stoned together, and just really good sexual chemistry. He's not very affectionate, we don't cuddle.... we've both had some rough patches in life for the last 4 years we have been seeing each other and we are good listeners for one another.
 
I started seeing another guy who was more like a BFE....affection, cuddling, great sex.....who I started seeing more and more.... and suddenly it was.... buy me a new phone, buy me a new computer, buy me new clothes..... Long term BFE providers may expect something more akin to being 'kept situation' and sometimes as much as I do wish I could afford that, I can't. I had a serious crush on the guy and he just was fucking me and acting like my BF for the money.... and mentally, I just couldn't handle it. I would not entertain another 'weekender' at this point and will make any other provider 'all about the sex' and position it to them as such.
 
Per everyone else's thoughts - I share in the belief, you need to mentally frame any 'on-going relationship' with a provider with some boundaries in your own head ideally so that you won't end up down or depressed. For me, I get a little sad because what I want is more 'good sex' and the companionship. If I can't find the companionship from a lover/partner, then I will get that from friends and keep my 'chemistry FwB guy' for the sexual needs. I don't want to give up what great sex I am having!
 
I'm currently quarantining in the VERY rural south with family..... there are ZERO provider prospects here..... heading back to Philly in August and already have a 4 day/3 night weekend planned with the FwB guy!
 
Hang in there and feel free to reach out if you want to chat with someone about how you are feeling.

Usually prefer smooth... hair just sheds everywhere and can interrupt moments trying to fish it out of your mouth. But some guys look better hairy, so exceptions can be made.

Usually prefer smooth... hair just sheds everywhere and can interrupt moments trying to fish it out of your mouth. But some guys look better hairy, so exceptions can be made.

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