Why do you reply to these texts?

It could work out well for both of you, however, even though you may both enter into this situation with good intentions, there’s always the possibility/probability of pesky, unforeseen emotions coming into play.
Good luck.

6 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

and here's the notorious video!.....

https://www.xvideos.com/video14927617/rope_rituals

Thanks for the video link. I’d seen it several years ago, but didn’t remember how hot it was. I don’t think he should have been fired from the police force or removed from Design Star, but I do find it hard to believe that he didn’t remember doing a porn scene (since this doesn’t seem to be something he routinely did) when he completed his applications.

Remember Mike Verdugo, a contestant on HGTV Design Star? He was a police officer for Hollywood, FL when his participation in a bondage video became public.
https://southfloridagaynews.com/Local/what-happened-to-that-gay-cop-fired-for-doing-porn.html

He used to advertise earlier this year on Rentmasseur in Miami using screen name Muhammed.

5 hours ago, rn901 said:

At a deeper level it really shows an unwillingness to hear providers' point of view on things and drown it out with their own point of view on what they think is fair and how they think a provider is supposed to act....

Do you mean when clients think a provider is supposed to act like a professional?

9 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I do simply state that in my ad. Most recently I had to make it a little clearer. Though I never implied I couldn’t host.

Many times especially on RentMasseur where it doesn’t layout the profile with profile text first: few ever reads my ad. That’s why on occasion I’ll hide my number because, they just look at pictures, click my number, yet have no idea about what my limitations and preferences are to the most essential details. I even say in my ad what my hosting hours are, to correspond with hotels (anytime after 11 a.m.  or before 3 p.m. is not a good time to schedule unless I’m there consecutive nights). people still contact me asking to meet outside those times.

I will admit part of the confusion lies with the layout of RMass. There’s lots of info but nothing that directly points to directions before contacting. I should ask when people click our number, we need to be able to have a message in there of our own. 

I can understand your frustrations, but you seem to be addressing them by making things more difficult for clients to hire you. It may be working for you, but if most other escorts make the hiring process easier than you, that’s going to be the client’s expectation.

If you're unable to host, wouldn't you simply state that in your ad?

Leonardo DiCaprio

10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

More and more I am finding it difficult to crack a joke without some triggered member claiming some horrible injustice of racism, sexism or some other "-ism". 

Humor is subjective. Some people can find it in a fatal car crash; others, not so much. Are you able to post a link to one of your humorous posts that triggered another member?

10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I remember when I was younger and I had some older gay friends. They were always good for a laugh, poking fun at life and the various predictable behaviors of various people and social groups.

I know exactly what you mean. I know a couple of really fat guys. I was shocked to learn they're not jolly. Fat people are supposed to be jolly. What's up with that?

39 minutes ago, 7829V said:

Candid pics > Professional shots

 

Maybe because they paid for them, it seems like many escorts are reluctant to stop posting outdated professional pics. I don’t have any interest in knowing what an escort looked like ten years ago.

On 8/10/2022 at 6:39 PM, Luv2play said:

Unless I learn of extenuating circumstances, I have little sympathy for the situation she finds herself in. She could have killed anyone who had stepped into that street at the speed she was driving. Totally heedless of others safety.

Anne Heche's car crash reveals our conflicting attitudes toward mental health and substance abuse
https://www.salon.com/2022/08/08/anne-heche-car-crash-mental-health-drinking-substance-abuse/

Is he a muscular Cuban guy, about 30 years old, studying nursing? Did he stop posting his face pics in his ads about a year ago? Does he have a tattoo on the front of one leg above his knee? If so, I believe he's running a clinic in Miami area offering Brazilian butt lifts, non-surgical nose jobs, penis enlargement, etc...

On 7/16/2022 at 3:24 PM, RadioRob said:

I've also resubmitted an application for the same program we used on the original m4m-forum domain.  To help with approval, I have made the public gallery and everything inside of Daddy's Den not available to guests.  In order to view these, you need to be logged into the site with your username/password.  

How do guests (prospective members) know that there are additional forum topics they're not seeing?

1 hour ago, BtmBearDad said:

@MiamiLooker I’ll see your “Sonny who?” and go one better! 

And you did! I had to look up the reference “he had an arm like the Kaiser!” For me, though, funnier than how your alumni relations administrator reacted, was thinking how difficult it can sometimes be to describe someone with a distinguishing negative feature and be PC.

Would I meet an escort with a face tattoo? No, I'd cover my teardrop tat with a band-aid just before the escort arrived.

1 hour ago, Charlie said:

It isn't so surprising that your masseur didn't know "Sonny & Cher": their career together only lasted about ten years, and was over before he was born. Cher's entertainment career has lasted much longer as a solo performer, but Sonny went into local politics instead, and would be remembered primarily by those of us in SoCal, where he became mayor of Palm Springs and then a Congressman; he has been dead for almost a quarter century. There has been controversy recently in Palm Springs about statues honoring former mayors, and some have pointed out that Sonny was a Republican who was opposed to gay marriage.

LOL It didn't surprise me either that he didn't know Sonny. He barely knew who Cher is. My masseur is Cuban-American and has only been in the US for about 16 years. But I'd bet most Americans under 40 wouldn't know who Sonny was. I wonder how much of Cher's success can be attributed to Sonny. As a side note, I saw Sonny & Cher in Las Vegas (I think it was at the Sahara) about a year or two before they launched their tv show.  

On 7/6/2022 at 9:14 AM, Charlie said:

At the gas station:

Driving in, cranking down the window, and saying "Fill 'er up!" (with leaded gas, of course) to the attendant.

Watching the attendant automatically wash the windshield and check the oil stick (and possibly saying, "It's down; do you want me to add some?").

Paying for the full tank with dollar bills and coins.

And the gas station bell that alerted the attendant that a car had just driven up.

Sonny Bono...my 33 year old masseur sort of knew who Cher is but had no clue about "Sonny & Cher".

On 7/4/2022 at 4:22 PM, Charlie said:

Today is the coldest July 4th in Palm Springs in a decade. At my house right now I am shivering, because it is only 97 F.

I imagine swimming pools in PS have to be continually filled due to evaporation from high temps and low humidity.

Was there something in your profile that prompted him to DM you?

4 minutes ago, ButchAtl said:

In a city that is over a large geographical area, its very helpful to know at least the "general" area of the city an escort is in.  Some areas are either not desirable or just to far to drive at any given time/day or due to distance involved. 

THIS

On 6/23/2022 at 1:59 PM, samhexum said:

When you watch old porn films and get turned on by men you know have been dead for 30+ years?

Sometimes I do (but not enough to stop watching).  Sometimes I feel sad, and sometimes I say "hey, they left a legacy where they are eternally young & beautiful and continue to entertain men."

Says the man whose avatar died 40 years ago...

So many gay porn performers have died much too young from unnatural causes. It can make me a bit uneasy to watch porn while wondering if their participation in porn contributed to their early death.

Wasabi Ranch Harvest Snaps

9 hours ago, EZEtoGRU said:

Avalon was a PITA on here.  After being banned here he moved to the other site. 

Was Avalon banned or just given time out? If banned, do you know why? I don’t believe Guy Fawkes banned members for a simple “misdemeanor.”