Tygerscent

English is such a confusing language. 
Booty Call and Butt Dialing have zero to do with each other. 

why do an online care provider's advisors wear sethoscopes?

Well… okay then~ Back to the basics for me~   
Im a traditionalist anyways~ Totally down with the flying monkeys and a broom 

Well… okay then~ Back to the basics for me~   
Im a traditionalist anyways~ Totally down with the flying monkeys and a broom 

Well… okay then~ Back to the basics for me~   
Im a traditionalist anyways~ Totally down with the flying monkeys and a broom 

Well… okay then~ Back to the basics for me~   
Im a traditionalist anyways~ Totally down with the flying monkeys and a broom 

Well… okay then~ Back to the basics for me~   
Im a traditionalist anyways~ Totally down with the flying monkeys and a broom 

I am shocked, shocked I tell you. Who would have thought?

Someone around 2017 I was traveling through Croatia and my ad was running there. As usual, upon my return to the states, I tried to move my profile back but, was unable. That was right about the time the original owners transitioned  to the current. They explained that due to restrictions and new legislation in the states, I wasn’t able to move my ad to the states from abroad. I explained that I actually reside in the states, but move my ad between countries because I frequently. After nearly a month of dialogue between the new owners and myself, (my profile being locked in Zagreb the entire time), they decided the only remedy would be for me to have one ad placed in the states and a second ad placed outside of the states. So, I’ve been running two ads for a number of years but, recently there was a complication on the site where I think somebody was trying to gift me a platinum boost and using their own card. The webmasters were asking me to verify the card but, of course I could not since it was not my card and I didn’t initiate the boost. So, their remedy to that situation was to delete my entire European profile.   
 In collective observation and discussion with others, the current site is run very similar to the old Rent boy, except that the owners operate from the Netherlands or Germany or someplace and not in the states.
 If you view profiles abroad, meaning if you are traveling outside of the states and look at profiles, you will see more than star ratings. There’s actually written things about people and rates can be included. Those things are censored on the states side due to various laws put in place somewhere around 2016 on forward to 2020 by the administration in the states at the time. This is how it was explained to me. 
  It might be suggested to actually address concerns and questions to the webmasters and owners of the site but, I’m not really sure that you can contact them easily or safely.  
  There used to be a phone number associated with the site but, I think when ownership changed hands to the current owners, that was done away with~     
   Apparently there’s been some sort of hacking on the site itself and I’m not really sure but, the hackers may be sending messages from and representing themselves as the webmasters? 
 

I saw it as manipulation…

I saw an experienced older individual taking intentional and premeditated undue advantage of a younger, vulnerable, inexperienced individual who was sorting thru feelings and emotions he was unfamiliar with. 

I saw an experienced older individual taking intentional and premeditated undue advantage of a younger, vulnerable, inexperienced individual who was sorting thru feelings and emotions he was unfamiliar with. 

What’s going on in that GIF could be viewed and interpreted any number of ways by a viewer… what’s important is what it meant to the two people involved as well, those around watching: perhaps most importantly, (but not exclusively), what it was to the guy in the red shirt. 

Right… there is some bit of “processing” time that comes into play~ 

Just a Thank You song~ Always appreciative and in awe of life~ 

Well… the father shifted the focus from the boy’s circumstances to his own~ Sort of a distraction point from the reality of the situation~
 ie. He justifies what happened by basically outing himself and saying, if things had been different in his life maybe he would’ve been a poofter instead of a breeder~ Suggesting that it’s OK because the guy was a hottie just seems too minimize the reality of the circumstances. None of the messages in that story seem particularly healthy simply because there was so little emotional and psychological accountability among and between the characters. There was some justification, but, perhaps tainted by distractions like hyper-eroticism and “shock value” themes~    
 My POV comes from having known and dated both men and women who in their youth were physically, emotionally, psychologically raped/abused~ Those situations can leave very real scars~ 
 You who have been in those circumstances, have their own two contend with in terms of self acceptance, and admission or confession/sharing with others outside of their situation… Older adults who are subjected to that have different obstacles, including a sense that being adult means dealing with problems on your own, gender expectations from your peers and adults around you, cultural aspects, religious foundations, and or political foundations…   Seniors, disabled individuals contend with not only vulnerability, but, actual ability to confront the authorities that manage and navigate their lives. 

This is a three hour movie. It is also in Tamil, which is a fast, concise and expressive language. Regardless, the storyline is as powerful as it is multifaceted~ you can enjoy this fast paced hot action movie on the surface level but, if you have some knowledge of Indian history and culture, it’ll take you a lot further in the overall journey~  (Arjuna)~ 
 Master can be enjoyed solo as an action film but, it packs numerous viable and profound lessons~ It marks highly in both context and content~ 
 Vijay is a tremendous asset and powerhouse in this movie~   He is the ultimate Dad and hero here~  There is so much to love about him and this movie~ 
 Though this movie is also presented in Hindi, my personal experience is that a translates better watching it in Tamil and there’s no distraction of dubbing~    
This trailer tries to draw you in with some of the action but, there is so much more to this movie. The trailer really doesn’t give anything away.~  
 

Not downplaying the very real sexual harassment/abuse situations that can happen to males but, there’s also a pretty strong sense of males being sexual and wanting/seeking/imitiating sex… One might imagine that if the “MeToo” movement was a guy movement, it would look like these gifs below…  
 There’s a lot of cultural and biological pressure to be sexual~ There is a lot of stigma if one is not or expresses their sexuality in a nonconformist/nonconventional way~  Abuse takes on many different faces with many different expressions~ Power exchange may or may not be a common theme but, I postulate~ 
 Objectively look at how many people loved the movie “Call me by your name”, which, if you look is really about this older guy taking completed advantage of a very inexperienced, younger male unsure about his personal and sexual identity… The older male initiates this lad into something he really doesn’t have the social, cultural or personal sophistication to understand. At the end of the movie, this kid is left in an empty nest on the receiving end of a tele, broken hearted while the initiator goes off and marries some other interest he has cultivated in his sexual garden elsewhere and without a second thought~
  it’s amazing to me how many people loved this movie but, the reality of that movie is it’s based on an abusive scenario navigated by manipulation and opportunity and using age and inexperience as a means to an end, (literally an end): Emotional and psychological manipulation for the manipulator’s personal gratification takes a front seat. The adult is so successful at it, there almost seems to be consensual agreement but, this kid really doesn’t have the experience to navigate through that decision and understand what he is being mutual about. In the end he’s left bewildered and lost. How is that hot and healthy? (For many: it was viewed as both~).  
 It’s just a question I have in my own mind. I know many people view this movie very differently and many loved it… To me, it seems to be more of a “taking of age” than a “coming of age” message/movie/experience~ …but, it also raises a point… What is acceptable “abuse” and what is “unacceptable abuse”?   How does one clearly define abuse and advocate against it~?
 I have dated/known/Love(d) victims of sexual, emotional, physical, psychological, spiritual and/or gender abuse: both males and females~ I don’t condone the abuses at all.  
 
 
 

Also, it’s not really cheating when partners discussed, their extra marital activities with each other. My observation is that when couples, regardless of how the gender pairing falls within them, maintain a greater level of trust when the communication is open between all partners. It’s “agreements” arrangements are modified without committal, communication or broken in a way that touches on personal insecurities that can bring about lack of trust~   
Then it seems to fall more into the category of cheating. Variable definitions for each individual and in each partnered relationship even when it’s a triad quad or a communal family type situation.  
I have also found that the structure and agreements between partners in a relationship when there are more than two people involved are not always the same for everybody in the group. Each person provides their unique contribution to the group of a whole and then to each other. So, Physical monogamy might be more important to one individual but emotional monogamy may be important to what are more of the other individuals and financial or psychological monogamy might be a concern of somebody else… What is important, also changes over time and across circumstances, as people grow evolve. 
 So, what is felt or defined as cheating between two people or a group of people isn’t necessarily the same across individuals. What’s important to them at any given time is a fluctuating variable. So, Being in touch with oneself, exercising self honesty and honesty with each other can be helpful, navigating through extramarital, emotional, psychological, financial, physical  and spiritual Situations/circumstances