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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from + ButchAtl in Threatening situation and consequences
He blocked your exit and insisted you stay against your will and then harassed you after the appointment with texts/emails~? 😳😳😳 No~! No~! …and NO~!
You never want to be a baby sitter, feel unsafe, be unsafe, feel threatened or bullied/harassed/stalked…
Generally a good idea to stay in somewhat constant communication with your potential hire or Client before meeting and up to day of… if you start getting texts that are incoherent, unintelligible, feel threatening, text back explaining your confusion and discomfort and then use the block feature when appropriate~
Glad to hear that you were able to negotiate your way out but, so sad, (on so many levels), to hear stories like this~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from + E.T.Bass in NEIGHBOURS SON !!
Timing is everything~ This image is one of those perfect moment pictures~
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+ Tygerscent reacted to Danny-Darko in NEIGHBOURS SON !!
The things straight boys do while at college!
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+ Tygerscent reacted to + nycman in How soon do you reveal that you're a "provider"
Oh, what a tangled web we weave,
when first we practise to deceive!
- Sir Walter Scott, Marmion
Not being as judgmental as that sounds.
I understand life is complicated.
It is a lesson for all of us.
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+ Tygerscent reacted to Monarchy79 in How soon do you reveal that you're a "provider"
Guys in general are just idiots… The same guys who will shame a sex worker for running a professional/lucrative operation, will be in an open relationship, sitting on every random dick they can find…. For FREE…
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+ Tygerscent reacted to jeezifonly in How soon do you reveal that you're a "provider"
Oh, Jarrod. Someday your prince will come.
Maybe don’t wait until after he licks it off your tits to tell him about your work.
Be friends first. If he knows about your work and you enjoy hanging together, he’s either going to want to ask about more involvement or not. Don’t go to hookup apps, go to a place, not virtually but a place on a map. Where would your “boyfriend material” hang out? Start there.
You’ve chosen a line of work that takes a special partner to support. He’s out there - quit shopping online.
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+ Tygerscent reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in How soon do you reveal that you're a "provider"
It's shocking that so many would be uptight about getting paid for it when they keep whoring themselves out for free.
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+ Tygerscent reacted to Monarchy79 in How soon do you reveal that you're a "provider"
One more note about revealing what you do for a living…and this goes for everyone in any profession:
When someone asks you the “what do you do”, questions in the initial phase of social interaction, examine WHY they are asking you these questions, and try to remember how judgmental, elitist, vapid and opportunistic people can be.
When people starting asking such superficial questions, they are trying to build an image of you, to make a determination as if you’re “good enough” for them to socially interact with. A lot of people confuse professions, degrees, and other resume-building accomplishments, with CHARACTER. Don’t fall into that trap.
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+ Tygerscent reacted to nefarious in How soon do you reveal that you're a "provider"
@Jarrod_Uncut As you know, there's both never a good time and always a good time. Some people will be okay with it, others won't, regardless of when it's revealed. I dated someone who was an escort and I was never truly comfortable with it, but I loved him and he genuinely loved me back. The simple answer is, it's always going to be an issue, all relationships have issues, no-one is perfect, it's just whether it's a deal breaker for that person.
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from SteveAgain in PROVIDERS: Your Thoughts on Hemorrhoids and Skin Tags
So… Hemorrhoids and skin tags occur with relative frequency and they’re neither contagious nor infectious for the most part if they are truly hemorrhoids and skin tags. I do feel that Service Providers have both an obligation and opportunities to learn about what is infectious and what is not, what is a sexually transmitted infection and what is not. I understand where a service provider might be off put/confused/concerneded when they come in to a meeting completely unaware and have to make an instant assessment to something that may or may not have an impact on their health or ability to work if they are exposed to something unexpectedly. Having to take off of work for two weeks or more when your only income or necessary income is being a Service Provider a dilemma~ A Client who is married or partnered may have their own concerns~ Compassionate communication is the key~
I have had a number of Clients with these conditions as well as other things like: eczema, psoriasis, arthritis, pigmentation issues, scars from radiation treatments when they had cancer, C-pap machines, you name it… Sometimes they may have had their prostate biopsied or they may be recovering from a stroke, heart attack or any number of things~
While these are things to be aware of, they are not detrimental or necessarily a deal breaker to fun play and really happy session together.
I realize that this is not a perfect world, (and to its benefit not a perfect world for other reasons), but, it also may be beneficial for people who are playing frequently to go and get tested for STI’s quarterly, (or more depending on their play styles)~ That way… you can communicate with a person that you are going to play with that your STI‘s have come back clean, but, that you have this other thing going on that isn’t infectious or contagious.
That type of communication may better establish the necessary trust to work through a situation together in a way that enables you to have a wonderful time together~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from Brock O in PROVIDERS: Your Thoughts on Hemorrhoids and Skin Tags
So… Hemorrhoids and skin tags occur with relative frequency and they’re neither contagious nor infectious for the most part if they are truly hemorrhoids and skin tags. I do feel that Service Providers have both an obligation and opportunities to learn about what is infectious and what is not, what is a sexually transmitted infection and what is not. I understand where a service provider might be off put/confused/concerneded when they come in to a meeting completely unaware and have to make an instant assessment to something that may or may not have an impact on their health or ability to work if they are exposed to something unexpectedly. Having to take off of work for two weeks or more when your only income or necessary income is being a Service Provider a dilemma~ A Client who is married or partnered may have their own concerns~ Compassionate communication is the key~
I have had a number of Clients with these conditions as well as other things like: eczema, psoriasis, arthritis, pigmentation issues, scars from radiation treatments when they had cancer, C-pap machines, you name it… Sometimes they may have had their prostate biopsied or they may be recovering from a stroke, heart attack or any number of things~
While these are things to be aware of, they are not detrimental or necessarily a deal breaker to fun play and really happy session together.
I realize that this is not a perfect world, (and to its benefit not a perfect world for other reasons), but, it also may be beneficial for people who are playing frequently to go and get tested for STI’s quarterly, (or more depending on their play styles)~ That way… you can communicate with a person that you are going to play with that your STI‘s have come back clean, but, that you have this other thing going on that isn’t infectious or contagious.
That type of communication may better establish the necessary trust to work through a situation together in a way that enables you to have a wonderful time together~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from + ButchAtl in PROVIDERS: Your Thoughts on Hemorrhoids and Skin Tags
So… Hemorrhoids and skin tags occur with relative frequency and they’re neither contagious nor infectious for the most part if they are truly hemorrhoids and skin tags. I do feel that Service Providers have both an obligation and opportunities to learn about what is infectious and what is not, what is a sexually transmitted infection and what is not. I understand where a service provider might be off put/confused/concerneded when they come in to a meeting completely unaware and have to make an instant assessment to something that may or may not have an impact on their health or ability to work if they are exposed to something unexpectedly. Having to take off of work for two weeks or more when your only income or necessary income is being a Service Provider a dilemma~ A Client who is married or partnered may have their own concerns~ Compassionate communication is the key~
I have had a number of Clients with these conditions as well as other things like: eczema, psoriasis, arthritis, pigmentation issues, scars from radiation treatments when they had cancer, C-pap machines, you name it… Sometimes they may have had their prostate biopsied or they may be recovering from a stroke, heart attack or any number of things~
While these are things to be aware of, they are not detrimental or necessarily a deal breaker to fun play and really happy session together.
I realize that this is not a perfect world, (and to its benefit not a perfect world for other reasons), but, it also may be beneficial for people who are playing frequently to go and get tested for STI’s quarterly, (or more depending on their play styles)~ That way… you can communicate with a person that you are going to play with that your STI‘s have come back clean, but, that you have this other thing going on that isn’t infectious or contagious.
That type of communication may better establish the necessary trust to work through a situation together in a way that enables you to have a wonderful time together~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from Athlonelad in PROVIDERS: Your Thoughts on Hemorrhoids and Skin Tags
So… Hemorrhoids and skin tags occur with relative frequency and they’re neither contagious nor infectious for the most part if they are truly hemorrhoids and skin tags. I do feel that Service Providers have both an obligation and opportunities to learn about what is infectious and what is not, what is a sexually transmitted infection and what is not. I understand where a service provider might be off put/confused/concerneded when they come in to a meeting completely unaware and have to make an instant assessment to something that may or may not have an impact on their health or ability to work if they are exposed to something unexpectedly. Having to take off of work for two weeks or more when your only income or necessary income is being a Service Provider a dilemma~ A Client who is married or partnered may have their own concerns~ Compassionate communication is the key~
I have had a number of Clients with these conditions as well as other things like: eczema, psoriasis, arthritis, pigmentation issues, scars from radiation treatments when they had cancer, C-pap machines, you name it… Sometimes they may have had their prostate biopsied or they may be recovering from a stroke, heart attack or any number of things~
While these are things to be aware of, they are not detrimental or necessarily a deal breaker to fun play and really happy session together.
I realize that this is not a perfect world, (and to its benefit not a perfect world for other reasons), but, it also may be beneficial for people who are playing frequently to go and get tested for STI’s quarterly, (or more depending on their play styles)~ That way… you can communicate with a person that you are going to play with that your STI‘s have come back clean, but, that you have this other thing going on that isn’t infectious or contagious.
That type of communication may better establish the necessary trust to work through a situation together in a way that enables you to have a wonderful time together~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Manspreading appreciation thread!
The real reason people are flying again…
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Manspreading appreciation thread!
Hoping his ride never shows up….
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from + ButchAtl in Key card required to enter into some hotels? Does it bother you?
It’s all good to swipe the card… my underwear say: Please swipe to enter~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from Sensualsmooth in Brother natures son…
I have a nature fetish… It’s amazing to have somebody on the other end of you engaged in the most intimate of acts while you’re gazing into a beautiful sunset, azure blue waters, basking in a river, looking over a vast greenscape, swimming with colorful fish… the air entangling itself into your heated moments like a third partner… The heat of the sun or soft tickle of rain on your skin as another… an orgy of elements that peak together at climax~ Thunder, Lightening, Rainbows… Sunrise~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from + MysticMenace in Fantasy / Roleplay
Love fantasy and role play~ So much fun~!!!
Some of the scenarios:
doctor/patient, sports med/coach/athlete, Dad n lad, drunk straight guy, wounded warrior, sleeping with my brother or cousin, fake abduction, wrestler/coach and team initiation, puppy play, Mentor teacher and student, chef and apprentice, mechanic and apprentice, stalled car and Good Samaritan, priest and alter boy, two best friends share a private moment, military inspection including hole inspection, navy seal trainer, prison camp captor, war camp captor, hotel room service, lost tourist, plantation owner, cowboy and Indian or just cowboys, best friend’s share special moment before one gets married, caught by wife or husband, house arrest, strip search, construction workers, age play, gender play, porn star audition, swapping roles as Client and Escort, thief in house, ranch hand, gardener… more~
I’ve got lots of sports gear, medical equipment, clothing, play gear etc to give most things an authentic feel~
With a number of individuals, we’ve created ongoing stories and live action scenarios that we carry out into public places~ Some of these scenarios last thru a weekend or an entire week~ Some are ongoing and evolve over the years~
Some of the role play has been reliving some real life event but, rewriting the ending as a sort of healing therapy~ ie. Instead of coming out to unreceptive, hateful parent, something happens during the coming out where the parent instead, expresses compassion.
Things can take on aspects of healing, learning/teaching, sharing, discipline, leading/guidance, initiation… it can take on the form of respecting limits in some part of life where others have not in the part or testing limits that were limiting in the past~ Sometimes it’s purely sexual… other times it’s more emotional or psychological~ It can really be a confidence booster~
The possibilities are endless really~ It’s a great l creative process and good way to discover some things about oneself that would otherwise have been locked away in daily living real life roles~
I love when it gets so adventurous that it moves into the public realm… Where we take on the role-play as we’re moving about in the world and then continue it in a private setting to go a little bit deeper… The private setting can also be semi-public.
It’s pretty phenomenal when you can explorer things in a safe and sane way with somebody and just go as wild as you like without judgment, discrimination, disrespect~
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+ Tygerscent got a reaction from Luv2play in Happy Half Blood Beaver Micromoon lunar Eclipse~!!!
It’s rainy right now… so, I just follow the link and go to the nasa/space video~ Well… and go for a nice three hour midnight stroll in the woods~ Dark and quiet~ The coyote packs and great horned owls I’m familiar with here that normally are very vocal are completely silent this evening~