AJDalton

Yes!  Gay wellness is promising.  I’ve signed up.  

Thank you!

When I advertised on Mintboys all I got was scammers pretending to be sugar daddies. 

I just now noticed it’s down as well.  A newer site they recently started called massagindr is also down.  I hope nothing happens with RM or Rentmasseur!?  The timing is sus.  
Clients might wanna start keeping the numbers or personal websites (if they have them) of providers you like in case everything gets shut down!?  

My Venmo debit card which is a MC won’t work.  I guess they don’t allow international charges.  I ordered a capital one 360 check acct debit card that I think will allow international charges.  Means I can’t work till it arrives tho. 

I turns out that RM accepts Visa cards from Australia, another point of weirdness in what they are doing. I had the card on file with them, hit send on the transaction, my phone pinged with a message from my bank that the charge had been made, my RM account reflected the payment and I received an e-mail confirmation (not in RM).

Well, it is Australia, mate! 😆

Someone just gifted me a month for RM.  thank you so much!!  One site down just need to deal with rent masseur now.  
Just a heads up for anyone affected RM And Rentmasseur are no longer taking visa.  And just learned that my Venmo debit card doesn’t work internationally.  If you don’t have a credit card I recommend getting a capital one 360.  The site claims it does international charges and doesn’t charge a fee.  Thanks again Mike for taking care of my RM ad for me so I can least have one ad till I get my new card.  (I didn’t put your last name didn’t know if you want me to put you on blast 😆) 
Update: if you add money to your Apple Pay and pay directly from There it works on rent masseur.  Probably works on RM too.   Hours of research just to make a payment.  Lol

Someone just gifted me a month for RM.  thank you so much!!  One site down just need to deal with rent masseur now.  
Just a heads up for anyone affected RM And Rentmasseur are no longer taking visa.  And just learned that my Venmo debit card doesn’t work internationally.  If you don’t have a credit card I recommend getting a capital one 360.  The site claims it does international charges and doesn’t charge a fee.  Thanks again Mike for taking care of my RM ad for me so I can least have one ad till I get my new card.  (I didn’t put your last name didn’t know if you want me to put you on blast 😆) 
Update: if you add money to your Apple Pay and pay directly from There it works on rent masseur.  Probably works on RM too.   Hours of research just to make a payment.  Lol

I honestly don’t know.  I think someone hit me up asking to meet up.  I let him know my rates.  And referred him to my website and next day my account was canceled.  Now when guys message on IG I am too scared to reply so I just ignore the messages unless they ask something specific and in that case I message my number for them to text.  It was literally me just saying my rates I think tho.  The dude was prob just mad I didn’t wanna do a freebie.  And reported me.  

I honestly don’t know.  I think someone hit me up asking to meet up.  I let him know my rates.  And referred him to my website and next day my account was canceled.  Now when guys message on IG I am too scared to reply so I just ignore the messages unless they ask something specific and in that case I message my number for them to text.  It was literally me just saying my rates I think tho.  The dude was prob just mad I didn’t wanna do a freebie.  And reported me.  

Agreed.
I've successfully contacted a lot of people through Twitter DM's after discovering them elsewhere.
YRMV ..but as they say... doesn't hurt to ask.

You are correct. OF will shut down anyone that tries to hire someone on the site.  Best way to contact is via Twitter.  Also wouldn’t contact via IG.  I’ve had an IG acct shut down cause someone tried to book me thru the messenger.  Snapchat is also safe way to contact.  In my case I have my twitter linked to my OF and when they get there my website is listed where I have all my contact info.  

OF is pretty strict about not allowing meet ups so I would not recommend trying to arrange through that platform.

I don't find it puzzling.  There are all sorts of reasons why someone would be willing to bareback when making porn:  It sells better.  They can, if they desire, make sure everyone does a rapid test before filming.  They have an opportunity to know their partners better.  There are all sorts of reasons why someone might not choose to bareback with a client: No economic benefit to it. Don't know the other person's health/sexual history.  Don't want to have bareback sex with 100 men per year, just a chosen few other performers.
Besides that, just because someone claims he uses condoms with clients doesn't mean that he always uses condoms with clients.  I've had escorts who selected "Safe Sex Only" in their ad try to bareback me.  I've seen ads where that selection is changed frequently between "Safe Sex Only" and the other two options, "Ask Me" or "Anything Goes."  I'm not sure what that's about.  Testing the market to see if one response leads to more inquiries?  Knowing that they currently have something so they want to use condoms temporarily?  Fluidity with respect to their adherence to wearing condoms for anal sex? 

Hey there.  I mostly do massages these days.  And my Rentmasseur site has a few reviews on there.  I also have some clips on my twitter of me giving erotic massages (with other actors for our mutual JFF & OF).  Link to my twitter is below.  My massages though are different depending on the individual and what they seek.  

Hey there.  I mostly do massages these days.  And my Rentmasseur site has a few reviews on there.  I also have some clips on my twitter of me giving erotic massages (with other actors for our mutual JFF & OF).  Link to my twitter is below.  My massages though are different depending on the individual and what they seek.  

I know you said you figured it out but just wanted to say for others that might not be premium users this is the RM change.  They created premium photo gallery that premium users can unlock 🔓 or open without asking for our permission first.  Then there are the regular private photos that non premium members request us to get unlocked.  I logged out of my account to see what one can do when not logged in.  You should be able to see the profile and main pics without logging in.  And can click the phone tab to get our contact info.  If you want to chat in the RM message app then you would need to log in.  Again know you said you figured it out but figured I’d add some more details in case this came up for anyone else.   

Hey there.  I mostly do massages these days.  And my Rentmasseur site has a few reviews on there.  I also have some clips on my twitter of me giving erotic massages (with other actors for our mutual JFF & OF).  Link to my twitter is below.  My massages though are different depending on the individual and what they seek.  

I know you said you figured it out but just wanted to say for others that might not be premium users this is the RM change.  They created premium photo gallery that premium users can unlock 🔓 or open without asking for our permission first.  Then there are the regular private photos that non premium members request us to get unlocked.  I logged out of my account to see what one can do when not logged in.  You should be able to see the profile and main pics without logging in.  And can click the phone tab to get our contact info.  If you want to chat in the RM message app then you would need to log in.  Again know you said you figured it out but figured I’d add some more details in case this came up for anyone else.   

Thanks!  I’m gonna save the website on my phone so I remember to come back more often.  Love the changes btw on the website here.  

Nice to see you here again, @AJDalton!

I have hired AJ Dalton as an escort, and would definitely hire again when I’m next in OC. He also does massage, but I can’t offer an opinion of his massage skills though. Not sure if you’re looking for something more therapeutic but you might like to check him out. https://rentmasseur.com/AJDaltonMasseur

Personally I would never cancel on someone cause I got a "better offer".  I grew up in Oklahoma though and was raised to have better manners than to mess with a client's time like that.  Also I believe in Karma.  
We as provider's probably get canceled on alot more than clients do though...  

Personally I would never cancel on someone cause I got a "better offer".  I grew up in Oklahoma though and was raised to have better manners than to mess with a client's time like that.  Also I believe in Karma.  
We as provider's probably get canceled on alot more than clients do though...