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Absolutely no offense intended, but if we ever agree to a dinner together, I'll meet you there.

Back in his day, I "googled" Dean Cain a lot, but without the "g". Hot, handsome man at the time, so I'm sure a lot of people "oogled" him. I remember a scene from Lois and Clark where Clark's mother had just finished making his new Superman suit, complete with a set of skimpy Speedo-style red overpants. She looked at the finished product as he tried on the costume, then said "Well, for sure no one will be looking at your face." He replied. "Mo-o-o-m!" Kinda cute and funny then, and maybe a little risqué for the time. Too bad for the ways he's changed.

I don't think having a partner that works as an escort would necessarily be a dealbreaker for me; I might even count myself lucky to have someone so presumably good looking that they can pull it off - so to speak. But doing it clandestinely behind my back would almost definitely bring about a quick end of things. This (January marriage) means he was escorting for several months before the marriage, told you nothing about it beforehand, and went ahead with the vows anyway. That level of withholding (or more technically, deceit) is off the charts. This was not a lie of commission but of omission, but there is little if any difference in the consequences. The problem with any discovered lie is never knowing when the next one comes. As a lawyer says to impeach a dishonest witness, "Were you lying then or are you lying now?" We now know the "then" in this case but will not know the next "now" unless and until we uncover another lie. But you already know all this. The solution comes down to the answers to two questions: (1) Do you still love him? and (2) Can you live with a life filled with uncertainty? I wish you best.

If you get the right kind of priest, you might hear, "Could you elaborate on those thoughts, please?"

Happy to see you here and wishing you many hours of enjoyment as you continue to stroll through the fora and contribute when you see fit. This place is filled with clever, friendly, interesting people. And now you're one, too!

Maybe just a tad. It'll be an hour or so before I can again open my mind's eye.

And now we're showered with blessings! And sudsy studs!

I'd pay good money to just sit in a chair for an hour with this view and do nothing but watch him put it on and take it off, over and over and over, while I lick my lips.

Dantheman, escort located on Long Island (I think) and sometimes Florida. Not sure if he's still active (couldn't find him on RentMen) but had a huge crush on him. Not sure why, though, except for the face, arms, muscle, chest, butt, feet, big package, and a dominant persona; otherwise, so-so.

I have no words except for the doggie: Move over, Bitch! He's mine! Lord, I could fetch for this boy all day long, and wag my tail while doing it!

You seem a good and compassionate man, and I both thank and admire you for it. As for JesTwink, two things: We reap what we sow [brought it on himself] Confession is good for the soul [a sincere apology statement might go a long way]

Looks like a man who has his afternoon plans all in place.

According to the late and great Robin Williams, God gave man both a brain and a penis but only enough blood to run one at a time.

Although I have some reluctance to subscribe to the whole theory, there are evolutionist who claim the woman driver stereotype, like most stereotypes, actually has a basis in fact. Early humans were divided into either hunters or gatherers, with men being the hunters and women the gatherers. Men developed greater focus, concentration, and teamwork to assist them in tracking and attacking large game animals. The gatherer women, looking for plants, herbs, and berries had more finely developed senses for colors and patterns as well as an enhanced ability to multi-task, which also necessarily and lamentably gave them shorter attention spans and a less focused and more diffused view of things around them. The overall success of the species down through generations served to reinforce these traits and make them typical of the species all the way down to the present day when men are typically better at complex tasks requiring greater concentration and women still excel at colors and patterns. Driving? Not so much.

Half Street SE still exists in a truncated form, its flow having been broken up by the new Nationals Stadium. In its heyday, the section from L Street SE to O Street SE was active, although I don't remember much street trade there. There were, however, several very active bars. 56 L Street SE (just east of Half Street) was the home of Lost & Found, a disco dance club with flashing lights above and under the dance floor. Upstairs was a quieter space with a huge bar, pool tables, and a more leatheresque air to it. Lost & Found was where I spent Bicentennial night (July 4, 1976 - talk about old!). This space later became a great stripper bar called Wet; really gorgeous naked men fresh from a shower show! To the right after exiting L&F and halfway down the next block and on the other side of L Street was the original Follies Theater which showed full length all-male porn flicks and had a dark and very cruisy back room. They also had occasional porn stars for a stripper show on stage. I spent that bicentennial night on their roof, watching fireworks going off on the Mall at the Washington Monument. Moving south down Half Street you came to O Street SE. From that corner and stretching west over to the side road for South Capitol Street you found -in order- Zeigfields/Secrets (drag shows/male strippers), The Glory Hole (peep shows and mag & video sales; use your imagination for the rest), a larger relocated Follies Theater, The Club Baths DC, then La Cage Aux Follies (owned by the theater and featuring more naked boys working the bar tops and a small stage.) A little research revealed that The Other Side occupied the same space as Zeigfields/Secrets. It was apparently a Lesbian bar before transitioning to drag and go-go boys. God, but I do miss all of that. It was as close to Gay Heaven as I've ever found!