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I concede - yours is bigger than mine! Very sad though that you no longer have that - it sounds amazing.

Once I log into my RentMasseur profile (after having previously logged out) it will show the green light as "now" indicating I am online now, even without setting the "available now" indicator, and it will set the last log in time as the current moment when I log in. If I close the browser without logging off, it will change my green light to grey, and will show the last time online as the time I closed my browser, and will retain the date/time when I logged in earlier. If I come back later and reopen the site in my browser after having not logged out the previously time, I get back into my account without having to log in, and the green light will reignite showing my new time online, but it will not reset the last log in time, as I didn't log out the last time. As JamesB pointed out, that makes the last log in time not very useful. If I log in and set the "available now" indicator for 6 hours, it will retain my green light and my "available now" status for the 6-hour duration, even if I log out and/or close the browser. If someone sends me a message through the app, even if I have logged out and/or closed the browser, I will get a notification to my phone and I can reopen the browser to respond to the client message. I had to be a "real" message typed by a client though for the notification to come through. If someone merely checked out my profile and the system sent me an automated notification of the profile view, it will not ping me, but I will see that notification when I open the app again and check out my profile. At the end of the six hour duration, or whatever amount of time I set for the "available now" - the green light will go back to grey and will again pick up my new last online time.

When I remodeled the main bathroom at my house on Cape Cod, I put in a 4'x6' shower with two shower heads, specifically to be able to share it with clients. Many enjoy that part of our time together. I always offer a shower to guys at the end of our sessions. If they wish to have one, I then ask if they would like me to join them "to help" or if they want the time to themself. Sometimes guys will wish to start the session in the shower and then move to either the massage table or bed.

Thanks PK - I would be delighted to attend Peter

I have done worksops on consent and desire, and talk about this subject with clients, providers, and also guys in relationships. When looking at an agreement between two guys to participate in any given activity, there is a spectrum of consent that can be given. This applies to both a cliaent-provider relationship and an unpaid connection between two partners. Ranges of Consent -Enduring, allowing,tolerating --- willing, wanting, enjoying The person proposing the activity is presumably proposing something that he is going to enjoy and wants (like playing with the provider's nipples.) The recipeint of the action can give consent, but can have varying degrees of enthusiasm about the activity. In a relationship between two guys where it is not a client-provider situation, it is always great if both guys are on the willing, wanting, and enjoying side of consent. There may be times in a non-paid partner relationship where a partner tolerates or allows something because he knows his partner wants do to, but he is not really getting a lot of enjoyment out of it. "Enduring" something implies that it does not cross into non-consent, but gets to the bottom of the partner's level of alllowability and will create tension or worse in the relationship. Now, in a client-provider situation, the provider is not in this for his own enjoyment, but for the pleasure of the client. A good provider should be willing to slip down into the tolerating, allowing, and even sometimes enduring levels to do something that pleases a client. This is where our job of turning on our acting skills comes into play to appear that we are really enjoying what we are doing Now even the best of client-actors can't pull off a situation if we are in the "enduring" stage for too long. So in summary, if an activity is not hurting me as a provider, is inside of my spectrum of consent, and even though it may not be on the top of my list for enjoyment, I think it is my job to allow it. Now many times, a client also gets pleasure from knowing (or believing) that the provider is also enjoying the activity together. That is an entirely different angle on the wheel of consent for another day.

All these positions are much more enjoyable when we are both naked.

I do love it when guys flip the baseball cap backwards to suck so as to not let it get in the way. Such a "bro" look

I can set my status to "available" "not-available" or "not set". "Not set" is the default setting if I am offline. Once I log on, the setting changes to green and shows as "available" I can also manually set myself as "available" so even if I am not right at the computer but cooking or doing laundry or something, I can keep the "available" light on for up to 6 hours. If I know that I have a client booked in the afternoon, or if I am not available at all for a day because I have some other plans, I can change the setting to show as "not available" - either for a number of hours, for a day, or a week - in order to not waste your time if you are looking for something right now. So I would say that if you see a "not available" - it means the person is not available right now, or probably not for the next few hours, but may be available later or the next day. Peter

Whenever I see a new client for the first time, I always share that I am open to however he would like to spend our time together, and that I respect both his limits and desires. I ask him to be sure to speak up and let me know if I am moving in a direction that he does not want. I then also share that I am open to pretty much however he would like to touch and connect with me in return. If I have a client who is a little timid and starting to slightly touch my leg or get near my cock but not sure if he should or not, I gently embrace his hand connecting it to my body and/or my cock to let him know it is more than fine and welcome. I love the exchange of energy and sexuality that mutual touch creates. It enhances my connection with a client far more that a uni-directional massage from me to him.

I always prep and pre-lube for each client....just in case....then when he feels my pre-lubed hole, he knows I am ready for him if that is what he would like

I enjoy going there when I am in NYC, and have met some guys there who have become clients. I have also tried the Monster, but generally have better luck at Townhouse. I love the "old school" nature of meeting guys in person. Sometimes I have given my business card to guys for future reference, and sometimes have left with a guy and gone back to his hotel with him.

I never wear deodorant when meeting a client. Though I don't ask clients not to wear deodorant, I find that most clients are not wearing it. As someone pointed out, not wearing it facilitates tongue exploration. Pete

Mike - you are so right! I corrected my spelling. All holes are bared, and no holes are barred! Cum visit the fair if you have not been there before.

He actually rented a booth at Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco this past September, set up his massage table, and was offering massage samples right there in the street. If you are familiar with the fair, it is a pretty no holes barred event. I got naked with him and was a very willing demo model with him to show off some massage techniques for the spectators walking by. Fair to say we both love to be exhibitionists. I did not know him before the event, but enjoyed spending some time with him and shared some nice conversation about our shared love of this business. He is really good at what he does.

I find it hard to believe very many guys posting on RentMasseur are offering therapeutic only. But there probably are a few. I would suggest checking reviews to see what box clients check off for therapeutic vs sensual vs other in their reviews. That will be a good indicator.

We all (providers and clients alike) are human. I too would rather under promise and over deliver than the reverse.

I have been thinking of going on the April Atlantis cruise, and the thought has crossed my mind....

Clients asking to be my "last appointment of the night" often know that is the secret code...

I am now 61 and appreciate the affirmation here about age and from my clients who enjoy what I bring to the table. Thank you!

I did some gay porn filming in my 30s (starting on VHS then DVD). I did a body electric workshop in my 40s, which got me excited about bringing together massage and sex work. I attended a certified massage school to learn massage tecnique, and then completed added training in erotic/sensual work though Body Electric and other similar groups. I still enroll in erotic training programs whenever I can. I have been offering services now for the past 15 years. I love the beautiful variation of men of all type, sizes, shapes, and backgrounds who come to see me. I love that at its core, my job is to just pay attention to them and show them some affection - whatever that turns out to be.

I never expect a tip, but always appreciate one if offered. I list on Rentmasseur and believe I am asking reasonable rates in the first place. I often get a $20-$40 tip, but if someone offers me only what I have asked for in the first place, I don't think any less of him. What I find really heart-warming is the guy who didn't think about a tip in the first place, and brought just the agreed rate, but then enjoyed spending time with me and goes through his walllet for any spare bills that he has.....like a $5 and a couple of ones. That always makes me smile! Occasionally guys have also offered things like gift cards, a bottle of wine, or other added gifts.

Greetings- Though I am a masseur myself, I love going to check out other masseurs and spas in different cities. I just moved back to San Francisco, and wondering if anyone has any experience visiting "Always Tan and Skin and Body" in San Francisco. Does anyone have any recommendations of the different masseurs who work there? Thanks, Peter

What an amazing beginning of the weekend. Thank you David for throwing such a great party I loved meeting everyone and had some great conversations. The memorial was very moving - reaffirming why we do what we do. I am looking forward to the dinner tomorrow and party on Sunday. Much Love to all, Peter

[ Greetings David and everyone - I arrived in PS for the events this weekend and would be delighted to pre-come to your pre-party! I'll message you directly. I am excited to meet many of the members of this prestigious group. Regards Peter

When I was really young, we had a milkman who delivered milk in glass bottles into a metal box on our front porch. That ended also in my early years, and remember walks to the dairy to buy the same milk in glass bottles. You could see and smell the cows in the barn right behind the dairy store. Today, I drink sperm. I know you were looking for that answer. I'm always happy to swallow right from the tap