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I have sometimes had clients get off the table and ask me to get on, though they don't always offer to massage me. I am absolutely open to a client who would like to offer me a massage for part of our time together.

Greetings guys - I am wondering if anyone can share their recommendations for strong massage tables. I have had a couple of tables that have served me well, but last week I did have my table crack down the center. I was on top of a guy on the table, but we together did not exceed the maximum table weight limit (500lb). I don't want to assume that the more expensive the better. If anyone has good or bad experiences with particular brands or models, please share Thanks much!

This is so interesting how everyone is so interested in this. Each state in the US is broken down into local and regional municipalities in a variety of different ways. The nomenclature (city, town, village, parish county, etc) has different meanings in different states. In some cases, the divisions may be purely geographic wihout any type of governing. County tends to be a good collective for a way of dividing a state into units that often are used for a variety of measurments - such now as voting, census, and even covid data reporting. As city and town size can be hugely varied, you see that sometimes a county can be equal to a collection of cities/towns/other smaller divisions; Sometimes a county and contain only one city; sometimes a city can contain multiple counties within it.

First, Happy Birthday to everyone about who mentioned he is having a bithday. I know it is a pretty unusual period of time right now. Doing someting nice for yourself though is always important, especially for a birthday, and especially now. I would of course say to treat yourself to a massage/escort appointment if you're comfortable doing that now. But even something like a walk to a beautiful place, treating yourself to a nice dinner (even if it is takeout) or buying yourself someting special. You always deserve a moment to celebrate yourself. Please feel free to message me as well to chat Peter

Yes - more so masseurs, but escorts too. For two reasons: * sometimes I just want to be the one to be on the table and relax and have someone take care of me * I also want to see what other guys are doing and get new ideas for techniques. Sometimes I'll tell the provider that I also am a masseur but sometimes I don't.

So true confession time - I have not offered any overnight appointments mainly because I have a sleep apnea issue and use a cpap. That would sure be awkard to use with a client. But without it, i'd probably make lots of noise and keep him awake. I have had a few long appointments (5-6 hours) but always leave before the witching hour! Though I have good stamina, most guys don't want to keep going for 6 hours straight. But what I find most beautiful and tender about these appointments is just spending time holding my client. I find that may guys want/crave/need just being held and touched. As others have posted here, you should feel comfortable to share with your provider what you're looking for. And also important is to ask if that is something that he can offer. I had a guy the other day saying that he wanted lots of kink and bondage work. I respoctelly said that I am not that experienced with that kind of play and that I didn''t think we'd be a good match. I don't want to accept a client who wants what I can't give and then disappoint him. A great provider will be honest with you and not try to take your money for something that he can't deliver.

Several years ago I went to a great massage spa in Bangkok that had a very public first floor offering chair massage for both women and men by mostly women - with big windows looking into the street. But I had read in a gay guide that they offered more than just that. I went in to the desk ask asked about male massage. They say - "oh, you want boys?" and asked me to wait one moment. The manager came down from upstairs, and led me up to a waiting area on the second floor. He sat down on the sofa with me, and then a door opened where a line up of young (though leagal age) guys came out. It literally looked like a police line-up. He then took a picture of the line up with his phone, and then started pointing to the different guys on his phone (to avoid pointing to them live) and told me about each. He asked me what I was looking for - to which I replied that I was really looking for a guy who could give me a great massage. He pointed to a taller more muscular guy who was probably around 35. (Many of the others were probably closer to low 20s.) The line up then went back to whereever they went, and my chosen guy appeared and led me first to the shower room, gave me a robe, and then to the massage room. He did give me an amazing massage on a typical low wide Thai massage platform. At one point he got on his back and used his legs and feet to work my inner legs. Amazing. As some point in the session I did tell him that I was a masseur in the US - and a few times turned around to see what techniques he was using. He spoke good English too - and was a good conversationalist. He told me about his wife and kids, and that massage is a great line of work - allowing him to make a good living for his family. He then asked me if I wanted any additional services. A few extra Thai Baht on top of the initial small fee was certainly not going to break my budget. Sadly this place has closed, but it was a truely great experience. I'm sure you will be able to find other massage venues and have a great experience too.

I do have venmo and also square to accept credit cards for those who come without cash, but I prefer cash. Venmo also has an option where users can publically display everyone they pay money to - I don't really know why people choose to do that. But I had a client the other night who paid me with Venmo, and afterward I noticed that he displays his payments. Most of his Venmo payments were listed for "massage" and I could see all the guys he has goine to over the last few months. ANd now others are going to know that he came to me.

Perhaps we can get together some time for an appointment and you can let me know!

Yes, I can definately tell the difference between a raw cock and a covered one inside of me. Having said that, It is about personal choice and responsibility, and comfort level with the risks and a harm reduction strategy. PrEP/TasP may eliminate HIV risk, but also frequent testing for the other things is important when barebacking.

I can go in both directions. Sometimes when bottoming, my erection will diminish as my sexual energy is focused on my butt and on the cock of the guy I am with - working to get him to cum. But occasionally I will cum while getting fucked. Usually it will be while the guy I am with is on his back and I am riding his cock and then shoot my load all over his chest.

"It always seems impossible until its done" (Nelson Mandela)

I generally don't cum during the day if planning or hoping to see more clients, as I want to keep my energy level and arrousal high for each client. I sense that some clients who specifically ask for my latest appointment time do so implying that they want me to cum with them or for them. (Other clients - please confirm if you believe that type inquiriy implies what I think it does!) But even if I don't cum with a client, I generally will by myself before I go to sleeep, especially if I made some great connections with clients. Though it never fails (murphy's law) that if I cum earlier in the evening with a client, I always will get a call from someone else later!!

I just had a client who screamed louder than any client I have ever had, or any boyfriend or date I have ever had when he came. I looked out the windows after, and was glad that both of my neighbors were not at home - otherwise I fear they might have called the police worried someone was being attacked. My client said he was glad to have booked the 90 minutes rather than only an hour. I'm glad he enjoyed the massage.

Check the dates of when both the provider and client made their profiles - and the date that the client posted the review. That might be very telling Peter

Do any providers have recommendations on nice higher quality disposable towels for clients to use for end of appointments that you have found? At home I have a supply of small cloth hand towels for times when clients don't wish to shower after, but was thinking that some of the high-quality folded disposable towels that you sometimes see in washrooms at high end hotels might actually be nicer. And these might be great to use too when on the road. I certialy don't want to offer plain basic paper towels. Any recommendations welcome Thanks!

I love getting feedback from clients. Moans, groans, using words! Occasionally though i am not sure if it is a good moan or a bad moan, and will ask to make sure I'm not hurting him.

I lived in SF for a while and have since moved to Provincetown, but still love SF and get back there often. I also get to NYC often, and love the 9th Avenue area of HK. If you like the type of mix between residental/commercial and also a mix between new industrial look mixed with old architecture, I agree that SOMA or South Beach areas (Ballpark area) have that. I still feel that vibe in the Castro and also Mission areas too. SF is small enough that you find lots of interesting pockets of gay life throughout the city. Checking out the different neighborhoods is a great idea. I have friends who recently bought a house in the Portola area - San Bruno Ave/Bayshore/Third Avenue area. It is a section that I never previously spent much time in, and now I love that neighborhood. So you may find that some neighborhoods that you might not think about could be very enchanting to you.

Yes, both Chlamydia and Gonorrhea are localized. Therefore, I suspect that his disclosure was to say that you should not top him, particularly not bareback. But if he really only had it rectally, then he could top you and would not transmit to you, or you could have oral sex with each other and not be at risk. It is a good point to make regarding going for testing. If your doctor does not know you well or know your types of sexual contact, many doctors would generally only test a guy by a urine test, and not a throat swab or rectal swab. If you are not comfortable asking for those tests from your own doctor, consider going to public/annonymous testing sites.

I never expect a tip, nor fell slighted by a client who does not tip, but always apprecaite when someone does. I also don't make any up-charges, and so my hope is that guys who like what I offer will offer something extra in return, particularly if they think I went above and beyond what they were expecting.

practice, practice, practice

Aaron - Nice to see you on here. I hope you don't mind that I post the cute story of how we met a couple of weeks ago! I was in Los Angeles, going for lunch at my favorite burger joint - In-N-Out. With the distancing, the line forms outside the resturant. So as I am getting in line, I see this hot muscle stud in line behind me. I cruise him, and he returns the cruise and smile. We start chatting, and he somehow mentions that he is from Palm Springs and was in LA to see a "client." I initially took the high road, seeing all his muscles, said - "oh, you do personal training? or...." He filled in the dots and came right out to say that he is an escort. I smiled and said "me too!" It turns out we had both just seen morning clients and were ready for a well-deserved lunch after we had both skipped breakfast to be ready for our clients. We enjoyed our burgers and fries together, while sharing fun stories about work and clients! I will also vouch for him - he is a sweet guy and even better looking in person than the pictures here! If you're in the PS area, you should definately schedule some time with him.

Well, I certainly welcome guys who like hairy men! I think that even back hair is starting to make a comeback.

I find that I have more healthy things when I am cooking at home than eating out. I also have set up a work out bench at my house and get out bicycling as much as I can

Be who you are and say what you feel. Because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. (Dr Seuss)