Jamie21

I agree. I’m talking about the guys who object to rates without trying the service.

Reading this thread makes me wonder what is the expectation of some guys 🙄. Escorts can charge whatever they like. Whatever they feel they’re worth. Everyone has their own rate they will require to do the job and I have no problem with them doing that. No one is being forced to pay it. I say to those who don’t like the rates: ‘don’t shop there then, he’s clearly out of your price range’. You’ll find guys at your price point and you can see what they’re like. If a guy wants to charge $500 or more that’s entirely his call. He will probably have set it to manage the amount of business he wants to do. Entirely up to him. Of course you can have an opinion about what you’re prepared to pay but don’t complain about the quality of services you get at that price. Alternatively if you think you can do a better job at the rate you’re prepared to pay go ahead and set yourself up. Then you might be able to comment with some justification.

What’s 2026 like @mike carey? Shall we join you?

Yep, the ! is a clue

I was being light hearted with the ‘I couldn’t get hard for all of them’ comment.

It’s normal. It doesn’t just happen to you @JB_Studio38. If all my enquiries came off I’d be richer too. <50% of my enquiries result in a booking, usually because the client just goes quiet (I never chase them, if they really want to book they will do so, I’m not interested in indifferent clients), or the timing doesn’t work or I’m too expensive or in the wrong place, or they just get scared of booking. Plus there’s timewasters who are only interested in the chat. It’s all just part of the industry, and my modus operandi caters for all of that. And to keep it on theme, if they all booked I wouldn’t be able to get hard for all of them anyway!

Try RentMen. Ask for what you want, don’t be coy. Usually you pay afterwards. The duration depends on your budget, but beware, if you book 3 or 4 hours and for some reason you find you don’t find him compatible after half an hour and want to curtail it he will expect full payment. Best to book someone for an hour, see what he’s like and then book a longer session next time. It’s highly likely that you’re going to have some trial and error with this. There’s no such thing as a ‘sure thing’. Don’t go into it with that expectation.

I agree that natural light looks great but you need to be careful of the light changing if you’re filming for any decent length of time. The sun might be providing great light through windows at the start but it can get cloudy or the light changing can make the edit difficult. I always make sure if using natural light that it won’t change during the shoot. It’s simpler to use lighting and adjust the tone with a colour light.

Merry Christmas to all. I was a naughty boy this year and Santa is delivering me what naughty boys get…so that plan worked out well.

It’s a lot of work!! My films are edited by a professional editor who uses Adobe PremierePro for editing. The best camera for filming is a i phone tbh, especially the latest ones. Most of the guys I collab with use i phones. I also use a go pro for getting unusual angles. You’ll need tripods, lights (ring light) and plenty of memory storage to keep all the content.

My preference is weekday mornings. But I’m available most times if someone can give decent notice. I’ll rarely accept bookings for ‘now or the next couple of hours’ because it’s just not practical for me. Nor will I take last minute late night bookings, those guys tend to be bad clients.

21 at heart @PhileasFogg…

If they’re paying they can call me whatever they like. Lots of young guys like to hire older experienced guys who know what they’re doing. I work that market: ‘Let daddy massage you boy’. 🤪

Subscribe to his sites then 🙂! I know Nick, he’s a great guy. When he visits London he borrows my massage table for his films. I filmed a nice 4 hands with him which you can see on my OF and JFF -link in my bio😉 (and it’s on Nick’s one too!).

I think people do, because whilst there’s lower risk of catching HIV from oral sex than anal sex the risk isn’t zero, so if you want reassurance then it makes sense to be on prep if you’re having sex with different partners where you don’t know their HIV status. If I were you I’d ask questions at the sexual health clinic. They’ll advise you on the risks and choices.