Jamie21

It’s not quite as simple as that though. I’m up for clients filming their session with me, but only if they sign a consent and release form (online) for me to publish it on OnlyFans. You can’t simply publish a film on Onlyfans without all the participants agreement provided on the Onlyfans platform. Most clients, when confronted with putting their real name and ID into OnlyFans decide they’d rather not do it! So no filming happens. I’m ok if they want a few pics or a short clip but that’s just for them to keep, it doesn’t get published. Filming the whole session for them to keep is not happening, it’s too intrusive and distracting. Yesterday I had a client want a couple of pics of me and him during the session so he could show his wife. Happy to oblige with that.

It’s the worst part. But you can learn to spot the signs of a flake. They all have them. Long chats for over an hour on the plans is a definite red flag for flakiness. If the chat goes on for ages about what they want to happen then basically I discount the booking as being unlike happen and I won’t do anything to prepare or commit to it. When the time comes to commit (last minute to douche or travel or whatever) I send a message asking him to confirm and if I get no response then I take it as a cancellation. Nothing lost on my side except the time chatting. What happens is like @PhileasFoggsays. They book when horny. When the time comes they’re no longer horny and the prospect of a real situation freaks them out. It’s usually guys on the down low. They watch porn, think it will be fun, build up a fantasy while booking and then come the day it’s all too much so they go quiet and ignore you like you’re just some loser who doesn’t deserve the respect of a message saying ‘sorry I changed my mind’. I keep their number, because sure enough in a years time they’ve forgotten, it all happens again and this time when they message me I can say ‘last time you no showed so I’m not dealing with you, goodbye’.

I never do sessions where I don’t know the other guy. I need to be comfortable with who I’m working with. If I was a client booking multiple providers my advice would be to book your favourite guy and then ask him for suggestions of additional guys. He’ll go to those guys he knows are good. You can then choose which of these you like and the chances of getting someone who will derail the session will be zero. Get your main guy to do all the arrangements over fees etc and you just settle up with him.

This happens the other way around too. I ran into a client at a naked beach in Mykonos. He was with his husband. He saw me walking along at the edge of the sea. Told me he recognised my cock first 😂.

I agree the rates with the guys I’m working with and simply quote the client the total rate. Almost every time the split is equal between us but occasionally a guy has a higher rate. That’s fine, everyone needs to be comfortable doing the job for a rate they’re happy with.

I’ve filmed a porn film with him. Great guy, big cock. Even bigger than mine 🤪

They might outwardly present or describe themselves as straight, many are married (I see a ring on their finger), some tell me they are exploring, occasionally they say I’m their first experience with a guy but if they’re contacting me they aren’t 100% straight. I don’t think it matters. I just want to know what they are looking for not what label they give themselves.

I’m always surprised when the client wants to top me bare and he asks if I’m on prep. I am of course, and I’m fine to get fucked bare, but me being on prep should be of no interest to the client. I tell him, it’s protecting me, the important question is are you on prep. Amazingly some aren’t on prep yet they’re happy to bareback. What they should ask is how frequently I get tested.

I’ve been hired for this kind of thing. Sex isn’t the point of the hire, nor is massage. It could happen but the purpose of the session is connection, companionship and closeness (physically and emotionally). If those things are achieved then sex sometimes happens just because you’re intimate with someone. There’s no pressure or expectation to have sex. We have done things like have a meal, bathe together, watch TV, go for a walk, visit a sauna, swim, gym session, lay in bed cuddling. The important thing is you do what the client wants, focus on them.

It’s happened with me a couple of times where my client has asked if they can swap roles for a little bit of the session. They were ok at it but it makes me anxious and I can’t relax, maybe because I think they’ll do something wrong and injure me. I much prefer to be giving the massage.

Lube up your hole before you travel.

That’s not a barrier for me to be able to release. I can get there (you just play a scene in your head that gets you there) but what is a barrier is how many times I’ve cum already that day. If you’re a client and you definitely want him to cum then tell him when you book so he can save it for you.

Yes, book in advance. I’ve someone booked for next May! That’s extreme. If you leave it to ‘hey are you available today?’ I probably reply with ‘sorry I’m busy’ because I plan things ahead. I’ll probably have someone booked, or another commitment. Last minute rarely works. Last minute clients are usually flaky anyway; they haven’t mentally committed to it, it’s a whim. ‘Hey, free now / next hour or so’ is a big red flag.

Yes there is a look that content creators will go for. I film with some extremely sexy guys, they look fabulous but let me say that that doesn’t mean they’re easy collabs. What you see in the final edit belies the fact that there may not have been much chemistry. The action is performative. We get a decent looking film but there’s not really any 🔥. Whereas sometimes with ‘average’ looking guys who might think they couldn’t be in porn there’s absolute fireworks and insane chemistry so the film works great and you can see we are really into each other and it’s hot. That’s why I like to mix it up and film with all sorts of guys. If you live somewhere with lots of OF creators try asking a few if you can be in a film. You’ll need to do release forms and provide ID etc for it to be published but that’s reasonably straightforward.

I’m not familiar with Tinder, but I do know Grindr although I’ve not used it in ages because I got banned from it (it’s now on my spare phone lol). Does it now have a matching feature? I thought it was just pages of nearby hookup opportunities? I have found guys to film content with me for my JustforFans from hookup apps or other similar sites. It’s more difficult to find random guys for my Onlyfans though because Onlyfans have more stringent processes to ensure release forms etc have been completed. Many guys make a lot more money from filming Onlyfans films than they do from seeing clients. This is why I think they prefer to just do Onlyfans. The content grows subscriptions, so that it’s possible to earn tens or even hundreds of thousands a month without actually doing anything. If you have a strong catalog of films and have months worth of content yet to be published you can take a few months off work yet still earn from subscriptions. It’s much easier and more flexible than seeing clients in person.