CuriousByNature

Thanks everyone. He popped into my mind the other day and I wasn't sure if he was a figment of my imagination or not... nor did I realize it had been sooooo many years!

Just wondering about someone who, if I remember correctly, advertised years ago under the name Dredd Scott. He was bald and muscled with tatoos on the flanks of his torso. I assume he is out of the business, but was wondering if anyone here ever met him. I think he was based in either Seattle or Portland....

Sorry for the late update. I wasn't being a tease. I was collecting my facts and thoughts for a full report of what happened last night:

 

When I arrived, the door was open but the studio was dark and completely empty so I thought there was nobody in there.

I picked up my phone to call and confirm it was the case so I could just leave.

Then he popped up and asked me to follow him to his room. We were, indeed, completely alone in the studio.

 

When we walked into his area there was this amazing smell in the air. When I walked into his room I noticed he lighted up some candles.

He asked me to get undressed and get on to the table. He said "take your time" before closing the door.

While I was undressing I noticed a small monitor showing in CCTV the entrance of the studio. I didn't remember it from the 1st time I was there.

 

I got undressed just leaving my nicest dark grey boxers so he'd notice the color contrast under the drapes when coming back. Sorry, @Daverwr I don't own or use jockstraps. I also slightly opened my legs as per @azdr0710 recommendation and put my arms above the drapes so they could be more at reach from the edge of the table. It's not a wide table, that's how it was easy for him to rub his c*ck against my elbow the first time even though I had my arms closer to my body on that occasion. Btw, I know what I felt the 1st time @coriolis888 I'm old enough to realize when someone is rubbing his c*ck against me and not another body part. I also lowered the drape below the middle of my back, closer to my butt. Before I had it a bit above my middle back because we had only discussed the upper back. He did massage my middle back this time.

 

When he came in, there was maybe 1 min of silence while he was preparing. I was thinking "maybe he noticed my boxers under the drape".

I believe he noticed that this time my arms were on top of the drape so right before starting he said: "I'm going to put my thighs so I can start the massage", and he did, so he started massaging and I could feel his thigh rubbing against my elbow.

 

He then started making some conversation about working from home and people wearing suits and underwear during zoom calls. I thought he was trying to introduce the topic of underwear in our conversation so I told him that I normally wear shorts or underwear while I work from home. Not sure if that was the right or wrong answer. As I said before I'm a zero when it comes to the "one thing led to another" game. In any case, I was just letting him lead the session as everyone suggested.

 

When he turned around to look for some more oil I took that as a chance to send a subtle sign so I moved my right arm a bit more towards the edge of the table. I think he noticed when he turned back because right before continuing with the massage on that side of the table, he tapped my elbow in a light but assertive way without saying a word. I reacted instantaneously, slightly moving my elbow closer to my body. And this time he didn't even put his thigh by the side of the table. He instead took 1 to 2 steps away from the table and extended his arms to keep massaging my back's right side.

 

I believe from that point everything went downwards. He became less chatty, most of the rest of the session was in complete silence except for me trying to reestablish some sort of conversation which of course I failed at. And different from the previous session, no moaning at all. I actually followed your advice, not to the point of saying "yes, that feels good" or moaning myself, but I took some deep inspirations and exhalations that were easily interpreted as signs of relaxation and that he was doing a good job at relaxing my muscles, which he did not react to, at all.

 

From that moment, the rest of the session felt like an eternity. I believe at some point he got closer to the table on the right side but I could only feel something like a paper or envelope in his pocket, that was it. Just a few minutes before finishing the session he asked about my plans for the long weekend which I replied to that I was just going stay home and relax (after all, those are pretty much the government guidelines since we are in the 2nd wave of Covid).

 

I decided to just keep silent and let him do his job. When he finished he softly grabbed my arms and put them below the drapes and brought the drapes to the level of my neck and pressed with his hands on the area he was just massaging while saying with a soft voice "I'm doing this to remove the oil off your back". Then he left the room, said again "take your time", and closed the door.

 

When it was time to leave I just went to his desk to pay. Since he decided to step back and keep the flirting off I also decided to step back and keep my generous tip, I just tipped 10%. He didn't even ask "if/when will I book the next session", or "I hope to see you soon", or "you still need more work on your back, let's schedule the next session on ... ". He just said: "I'll see you when I see you."

 

These are some confirming/conflicting signs that have kept me thinking since last night:

• He didn't ask/mention if I have a wife, or girlfriend, not even in the 1st session. Neither did he mention his girlfriend in this one.
  
• He didn't talk about sports or other "straight" topics, neither he mentioned his girlfriend as a way to dissuade me from any advances.
  
• I checked his reviews and I discovered there are at least 5 5-star reviews of young handsome gay men.
  
• Perhaps there were cameras inside his massage room and that was the reason he was "behaving" so much? I don't care anymore.
  
• Perhaps underwear after the prior session I had my pants on was too much too soon? I don't care anymore.
  

 

Conclusion:

• I'm not looking forward to anything more to happen but I will complete the other 2 sessions (doctor's orders) just because he's good at what he does (I have a lot less pain than during the first session). I will provide little to no tip though. And after the last session, it's over.
  
• The fantasy was good while it lasted but I do have well-certified masseurs among my go-to guys here in Toronto and 1 of them is actually straight and provides me with amazing full service (massage + all extras) with no false hopes or fuzzle. We're just waiting for Covid to be over as he's also taking some time off from work. Ontario seems to enter in a 2nd lockdown due to a steep increase in Covid numbers and we need to be careful.
  

Thank you for sharing your experiences... and Happy Thanksgiving!

As I may have mentioned at some point in a previous post, I think it could be cool to get a tatoo of Herve Villechaize from Fantasy Island.

And here I thought he died in 1955

I just clicked the link and it said 'profile inaccessible', which I guess means his ghost has blocked me.

I'm not a provider, but for the "moralists:"

 

Matt. 7. [1] Judge not, that ye be not judged. [2] For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

This.

And I also like the verse telling us to take the plank from our own eye before pointing out the tiny speck in someone else's.

How long do I have to keep my real face? I’d strongly prefer to go back to my princess portrait.

I think you should keep it. But whatever you are most comfortable with.

After social distancing is conquered, you owe it to yourself to experience an active/power bottom. It will make you the power top you never realized you are.

Lol... though I have zero interest in topping anyone, assuming I ever do get together with someone. I think I would be an enthusiastic participant, so maybe that is the same thing as 'power'. Though I doubt I'll ever find out!

My understanding of a power bottom is that he is the one initiating the action, he is the “active” partner in the anal sex. By contrast, the regular bottom is receiving the action.

I think Im just confused how a bottom would be active.... but I am very ignorant about this stuff. Obviously!

What exactly is a 'power bottom', and what distinguishes one from a regular bottom, if there is such a thing?

Years ago I was giving a massage to a client and we were talking about Minnesota, his current home. I said I lived in my own apartment in the best house on the best street in the best neighborhood in Minneapolis. He said he lived in his own apartment on the best street in the best neighborhood in Minneapolis. Turns out 15 years before we were living in the same house at the same time, and we knew each other. An adorable older couple owned and lived in the gorgeous giant multi-floor house. I rented the servants quarters, a beautiful studio apartment, in the back of the house and he rented the top floor.

 

23 years later I still think of that apartment at least once a week. I loved it. Anyway, we knew each other from another city long ago.

His name wasn't Rhoda Morganstern by any chance, was it?

I'm a bit concerned about the purple rash...

Dutchal - I would just like to compliment you for your excellent English grammar. Most people today would ask "Is this him?" which is wrong. When I say things like "It is I" or "with whom did you go?" ..... well, I am accused of speaking antiquated English

Thou shouldst not give heed to any of thine folk who dost think thou usest antiquated English. But that is mine own opinion ?

He’s back.

Have never met him, but in messaging with him through this site he strikes me as a super nice guy and a solid human being.

Mabel Normand. We graduated together in 1910. Well, it sometimes feels like I could have graduated back then. Old soul and all that.

A friend of a friend was diagnosed with a terminal illness at the beginning of the pandemic and given 9 -12 months to live. Its now been 7 months since her diagnosis and she hasnt been able to do any of the things she would have wanted to do during her final months. It breaks my heart to know that there are many others in similar circumstances.

I remember a discussion in an "Ethics" class in college, if someone derives pleasure from what most would call a selfless act, is it truly selfless? That's a rabbit hole of discussion.

I suppose there is a difference though from deriving pleasure and deriving attention from an act of kindness, and also, whether or not someone is being kind for the primary purpose of getting pleasure themselves, or if that pleasure just happens to be a happy consequence of their actions.

Some of us didn’t start having m4m fun until our mid-20s or later, and don’t we deserve to make up for what we missed?

Sadly, there's not enough time for me to make up for what I continue to miss! Lol.

I would guess that the person who did the act of kindness was not a glory seeker, but that the person who called him that may be the actual glory seeker. I dont think most people who would hear about an act of kindness would assume it was for personal glory, unless they themselves have sought attention by doing nice things for others.

I’ve hired a number of black escorts over the years, both in Canada and the USA. I realize that the two countries have a different social history and this comes through in meeting these guys one on one (Or one on two as the case may be). In the USA blacks have lived there in considerable numbers since the founding of the country and for the first 250 years were mostly slaves. Down to this time there has been a lot of racial discrimination and we are seeing it playing out today even as other forms of discrimination such as based on gender, religion and sexual identity have been addressed in major ways. In Canada most blacks are either first or second generation and have come from former British colonies (as Canada is) like Jamaica, Barbados and certain African countries. Discrimination is prevalent here too and has existed even predating the arrival of these more recent immigrants. The colour bar was practised in Canada just as in the States with blacks being excluded from hotels, restaurants and clubs well before WWII. I hire escorts based on my personal preferences as to type which includes not just physical attributes but personality as well. I don’t make distinctions between colour of skin. I’m looking for the person under the skin. Since most of my hires are for extended sessions, these will include dinner out at restaurants. I like an escort, whether, white, black or brown, who can be as much fun out of the bedroom as between the sheets. The last black escort I hired was for an overnight in Toronto and he met the bill in every respect for me, a well educated, professional guy with a regular job and escorting on the side. He had lots of interesting stuff to talk about when we weren’t kissing or my mouth was otherwise filled. LOL

A lot of people are surprised that Canada also has a history of slavery. Until slavery was abolished by the British Empire in the early 1800s, there were British in what became Canada who owned black slaves. And the French owned a number of Indigenous slaves too. The climate here was not conducive to large plantation-style operations, which may be why slavery in Canada did not grow like it did in the southern USA. We may think Canada's history is one of greater acceptance and social equality, but sadly, our lack of widespread slavery was probably connected more to climate and economic realities. Canadians have a lot to be sorry for with respect to our history - though I know you were not suggesting otherwise is any way

So there seems to be a hairiness factor that's been mentioned, and possibly a height factor too in determining who might be a 'daddy'. Is there also an assuption that the daddy would take the more 'active' role, and that those looking for a daddy would tend to be small and thin? Or do built guys who are tops also seek out daddies who bottom and may be shorter than they are. I know that there's likely a lid for every pot, but generally speaking, who is the type of guy that is looking for a daddy? Sorry for my ignorance... as someone who may be a daddy but not know it! Lol.

here's video of another gender-reveal with explosives that also started a huge fire a couple years ago in southern Arizona......the El Dorado Fire may've been started in a similar fashion.....

 

Wow... thats dangerous. Just tell people the gender by text or by phone - lol. It seems everything these days has to be a party. What's next, throwing a party to tell people your colonoscopy results?

This is a tragic story all around. The expectant parents are probably in shock and grieving at their own negligence at a time when they would otherwise be celebrating. There likely will be prosecution, but I don't know how severe the punishment would or should be unless it can be proven that intent to cause harm was involved. This may even be a horrible accident, though I dont know all the details of the story and I'm not sure how those machines are supposed to work. So very sad for all involved.

Getting upset from the words that are put into Jesus' mouth will render a lifetime of unrest.

I agree that Jesus doesn't like 'homos'.

He loves 'homos'. Just as he loves 'heteros', 'bisexuals', 'assexuals' etc. There is a verse somewhere that says something to the effect that, in Christ there is no male or female, slave or free, Jew or Gentile. I have little doubt this also could rightly be extended to any characteristics that make us different from one another... no black or white, no tall or short, no straight or gay....

What is the longest musical hit played on Broadway, named after a US city?

Poughkeepsie?