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CuriousByNature

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  1. Yakuza beads? Geesh, they implant tiny Japanese gangsters under the skin? What a way to go...
  2. I was on a ship that was moving from the Caribbean to the Med for summer, and another time on one that was going from the Med to the Caribbean for the winter season. You can get good deals on these cruises, and the transatlantic ones are usually 12-15 days long because you normally stop for a day in either the Azores or Madeira, sometimes the Canary Islands, and then a few ports in Europe. As for my position at the end of the cruise, I was clinging to the balcony rail because I didn't want to leave the ship and have the trip come to an end.
  3. I imagine the northern route could be like that, weather wise. I've done crossings from Florida to the Med on other lines, and surprisingly, the oceans have always been pretty smooth and the weather has been warm enough to sit out on the balcony in shorts. These were repositioning cruises in the mid spring and mid fall.
  4. Wondering why ghee would not be appropriate in this recipe? Is it a taste issue?
  5. I know this probably seems weird, but instead of thinking "why is this happening to me?", I TRY to approach it as, "why not me?" Why am I so special that I would expect this challenge to pass me by, when others have also had to deal with it?
  6. You know what it's like to be a caregiver - you know the fatigue, the worry, the loneliness of it. In your kindness it's clear that you do not want to be a 'burden' on anyone, but in a sense, you're generosity of heart may inadvertently stand in the way of allowing others to extend graciousness towards you. I mean this in the best possible way and I apologize in advance if anything comes across as judgemental. It can be easy for caregivers, especially those who may not have an avenue for venting their own pain and frustrations, to want to protect others from a similar caregiving situation when it comes to needing care yourself. It isn' easy. But I would only hope that your spouse's family loves you, and would want to see you safe and secure in your later years. If that isn't practical for whatever reason, I would suggest speaking with a social worker sooner than later. Let them know your situation and your concerns - they have seen it all. It's invaluable having an advocate who knows the ins and outs of the system and has the resources and time to be of assistance. In Canada we have tiered senior's care at some residences, with sections for those who essentially live independently, and other sections for those who need to transition into supportive living (often with a bug bump in monthly fees, of course). More and more jurisdictions are coming to realize the importance of aging in place, and the 'continuum of care' approach to elder care. There may also be other resources available through local churches or senior centres. In any case, I know you are not seeking praise, but as a dedicated care giver, you are an unsung hero, and I sincerely hope everything works out well for you and your spouse.
  7. One of the best photos you've posted, IMHO.
  8. I thought in the context of this forum it was "in my horny opinion"
  9. I do not really enjoy my work... but at least I have a job that supports me, while many people do not. I sometimes struggle with being 50 years old... but I know there are many people who don't live to see this age. I see others who have much nicer clothes... but at least I've never had to go without shoes, pants or a warm winter coat. I'd like to live in a nice house like other people I know... but at least my modest apartment provides a safe, secure roof over my head, while many others face living in shelters, or on the streets. I do not possess a face that makes hearts flutter... but I am blessed with eyes that work, ears that hear, a nose that can smell, and a tongue that can speak. I often see people driving in cars worth more than $100K... but at least I have a vehicle that gets me safely from point A to point B, while many others must rely on public transit. I don't have a body that would make anyone horny... but at least my body functions properly, while many people struggle to live with illnesses and disability. I would love to eat lobster or filet mignon regularly... but at least I always get three square meals a day, while many others have to rely on food banks and soup kitchens. There is always something we can be thankful for. Always.
  10. I'm surprised by the assertion that she was black. I understand that Nubia had ruled Egypt for around a century, and about 600 years before Cleopatra. But I thought she was a Ptolemy, and descended from a Macedonian companion of Alexander the Great? Contemporary representations of her and her immediate ancestors give no indication of a sub-Saharan genetic connection. That said, I think it is ridiculous for a country to sue a production company over how an ancient figure is portrayed.
  11. Not sure what the obvious would be, but regardless, what's written in an advertisement cannot be guaranteed to be 100% truthful. Ultimately a client needs to protect themselves according to the level of risk they are willing to assume, and not based on what a stranger says about their health status or medications.
  12. I suppose it could be helpful to those who may have an addiction to pornography, though therapy is likely more effective than guilt.
  13. 100% And if the style is attractive to you, that's the icing on the cake.
  14. I visited her house where she hid Jewish refugees in WWII, before she and her family were taken to the concentration camps as well. A real hero.
  15. How terribly sad that he felt suicide was the only alternative. RIP
  16. And because the Mayflower was a month late arriving at Plymouth Rock, having spent October in Nova Scotia eating lobster suppers.
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