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Definitely YMMV because my first visits with Shawn, Louis, Jay, Fabio, and Marc were some of the most erotic experiences I’ve ever had.

I ask at the beginning “are you happy for me to go anywhere? Head, feet and everything in between?”. The answer is usually “yes”. I’m aware some people specifically don’t like feet massage, or head massage so it’s good to check those. Occasionally clients say nothing internal but mostly they just say “it’s all fine”. So then I’ve the ok to go anywhere, including balls, hole, perineum etc.
You can read cues from how they react if you go somewhere they don’t like. It might be obvious as in touch their hole and their ass cheeks squeeze together implies they don’t want a finger inside! It might be you try something and the reaction is dynamite. I saw a client recently and during the foot massage I kissed his toe…he responded positively so I sucked it…and he went wild (in a nice way!). Great! Now I know what gets him going. 
I think if you pick a good masseur they’ll ask you the right questions and they’ll read your reactions to give you what you want. You shouldn’t need to give him a ‘shopping list’ because that removes any element of surprise. He should just know where you definitely don’t want to be touched because that’s important to respect. I’m guessing you just chose the wrong masseur, he doesn’t sound very professional. 
 
 

I PM'd you with some very thorough, explicit deets on my sessions with Fabio. 😇 There's a few things I left out, but you get the idea.

So sad to hear of his passing.  Was always so nice when chatting, although we never met up.  Feel bad for Jose.  We need to have a serious conversation around why all of these seemingly healthy young guys are dropping dead.  Tyler Robert’s too a couple weeks ago.  Is it fentanyl in the drugs?

OMG How horrible.
Terrible when a young healthy person is lost, so soon.

A lot of you have PM'd me asking for a physical description of the "Fabio" I've had multiple sessions with @ Hush. Here's what he looks like, and if you need details on our sessions or anything else, just PM me.

I have had Pavlik work on me at least 4-6 times (early last year) before the pandemic. Super nice guy and allowed MT and HE. His massage is on the lighter side but he was very thorough. At one point I needed some attention on my lower back (because of an injury) and he gladly focused on that for me. He's on the quiet side but would speak once I initiated a conversation. Now that I've seen his pics again, I may have to give him a call! I found him to be very cute. :-)

I have some guys who PM me about SS. I don't mind responding if they seem serious. But I always try to search the forum before I reach out. 

Agree. Absolutely an amazing experience from beginning to end!!

Just wanted hop in and thank everyone for the info. This site is an awesome resource for newbie clients like me. 😁

Thumbs on Chad, Sergey and Shane.  All good experiences, decent massages with great interaction.  PM for more.

He's actually 6'7"!

Post rentboy prosecutions, masseurfinder has become extremely chaste. It's very difficult to gauge what the masseurs on that site are up for.  I usually cross reference both sites - one to confirm they're "real" masseurs (not upselling fakes) and the other to see how "thorough" the massage will be. 

Text yeah man spa , as I know 
347 249 1630 
you are welcome 🤗 

I find that most spas open around 11 AM.  Pre-pandemic you would find that some advertised as 24-hour but I haven't seen that since then.  You may have to take a long lunch hour or plan to go after work.  

Dixon or Rico (both in Hell’s Kitchen). Hands down.

I can continuously add on to this.  If any of you have PM'd me about this specific masseur in Hell's Kitchen who provides nuru style erotic massages then you've probably gotten all these details already, BUT..
I showed up at this place for my erotic massage (although I had no idea it included nuru as well) and he answered the door in his wife beater and sweats. He smiled and introduced himself as we shook hands and he asked how I was doing. He was happy as hell that I'm black too since his exact words were "I'm always happiest when I get clients who look like me." .. He asked if I wanted to shower or if I needed water or anything, so I said I'd take some water. He told me to make myself comfortable and then hop up on the massage table when I'm ready, so I undressed while he went to get the water. As I hopped up on the massage table, he walked back into the room (butt ass naked, dick already semi hard) while holding the water. He smiled as he handed it to me, and then he smacked my ass playfully and said "Nice!". After I finished my water, he turns on the relaxing massage music and starts to oil up his hands and my body. He started with my neck and back of course, working his way down to my lower back and ass, spreading my ass cheeks and blowing on my hole a bit. He asked if I was okay and comfortable to which I replied "I'm absolutely amazing, do your thing." He laughed and continued playing with my ass and hole before moving down to my legs. Once I turned over, I was rock hard and precumming, as was he although he was precumming a lot more, so I asked him if I could taste it, and he said "Yup!" so I squeeze some precut out of the head of his dick, and tasted it. He asked me how he tastes and I said "good as fuck". We both laughed and he continued massaging my while I laid on my back. From my neck to my stomach down to my dick, which he grabbed and started stroking it. He once again asked if I was comfortable to which I replied "Even if I wasn't, my dick seems to be." and we both laughed. I came all over his hand, and then he cleaned his hand off, and I started to get up, assuming the massage was over. He told me it's not over yet, and to turn back over onto my stomach. He then oiled up his body and my back area again before climbing onto the massage table and rubbing his body against mine. While he's on top of me, he's moaning loudly as am I, while he's holding both of my hands. I felt his dick precumming against my ass, and then I felt him kinda squirm for a sec. I asked him what's wrong and he replied "I don't wanna cum yet!", so then I turned over and he's now rubbing the front of his body against the front of mine. My hand are on his ass, pulling him further onto my body, and then he starts to kiss me, which I didn't mind at all. After a little while of that, he turns me over, and climbs onto the back of me again. Now for the unexpected part, I feel him rubbing my hole which was fine, but then he leans into me with his precumming dick against my ass, and he grabs my hands while slowly pressing into my hole. I literally feel the head of his dick sliding into me, so I flinched and pushed it out of me and he goes "I'm sorry, I was just going with the flow, I hope I didn't hurt you or make you uncomfortable." I was like nah, I'm good, just wasn't expecting THAT part, LOL. But we both laughed it off, he made me cum again, I stroked him and gave him some head and let him cum all over my face, he had me looking like a damn chocolate glazed donut, but it was a good time all in all. I haven't booked with him since then since a few other forum members have said he's become very unreliable, but yeah..
 
 
 

Same thing happened to me recently at a specific spa I mention a lot. It was my first session with this specific masseur and the minute I laid down on the table, he started eating me out and playing with my hole. Then I turned over and he gave me all the head I never knew I needed.
 
At the same spa, my first session with another masseur ended with him climbing up on the massage table and sliding down on my dick. Completely unexpected, but still a good time nonetheless.

Massage Parlors get raided.
Individuals who who work from home do not .
In general....sexual services are not to be sold in 99% of the United States...so no one should be compromising anyone, by gossiping about who may indulge in some private time with a client after he pays for a massage.

This is why YOU are on PrEP.  Only you can guarantee your own health.
It's Russian Roulette relying on someone else to be responsible for your sexual health.

I couldn't agree with you more. Unfortunately several members cheered him up in his wise decision. 

That's borderline sexual assault. Consent to blow someone is not consent to swallow. 

Can I also point out that as many clients hate piecemeal and a la carte rates, requests like this are largely where they come from.
 
You want a massage with a side of oral and the masseur cumming on you, and so forth, but don’t want to pay an escort rate, and the provider doesn’t want to lose business. 
 
all I’m saying is that requests like this are largely where those come from. 

I advertise as offering sensual massage, so as a minimum that’s a happy ending. However frequently it will go further to include full penetration if my client is wanting that and if I’m up for it, so it’s mutual. No extra charge. I find it works fine, they get a great massage and at least a handjob but if they want more it’s possible. I don’t put any limits on interaction with me during the massage.
If it’s clear when booking that they want a more escort type service (including me bottoming) then that’s a different rate and there’s no massage, just escort service.

Definitely agree dude.. I always look for massage first if the guys a good masseur he gets my vote, it’s nice if it leads to more but certainly not mandatory.