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In a big blue city (say NYC) the last thing the cops have time for is the hobby. They have a lot of other things to deal with.  So as long as things stay private, calm and friendly there is almost no risk. A small city where folks have nothing better to do? Probably risk goes up a little bit, but not much. 

Rats! I was hoping for Sbarro. Can't beat that spaghetti that's been sitting for 9 hours. 😁

I'd probably do drugs too if someone took me to a food court

Royal Oak police: Two men arrested for prostitution at hotel; man arrested for aggravated assault on Fifth Street – Daily Tribune
WWW.DAILYTRIBUNE.COM Two men are facing misdemeanor prostitution charges after one of them rented a hotel room and called police... Bad things happen. Always keep your wits about you. A situation can go from making out to handcuffs quick if the hire is off in the head. 
That being said, I have hired for a long time. Only twice have things gone sideways. Neither of which resulted in charges but they did involve drugs.
The long and the short of it is this: you both have a lot to lose but if one's lot is much bigger, then the other will want a part of it. 
This is why I hire guys who are quality. If they have as much to lose as you, then you'll likely have minor issues. 

Some of us have a lot to lose but we also have our own risk/reward tolerances and vet the escort as much as they're vetting us as clients. 
I had one bad experience where an escort I hired to my house for the first time saw my full name on a credit card laying on my table in the hallway. He found me on LinkedIn and started a small extortion scheme because I own a couple companies and he was able to find me in the news, etc.  Upon researching him more on here, I wasn't the first person he tried that with apparently. It was easily nipped in the bud by "my people" (LOL) but it could have gotten out of hand. I'm much more apprehensive these days based on that experience. 
I always look for reviews.  If you have over a dozen good reviews, that is typically a solid way to vet people. Yes, some reviews can be fake or whatever, but the entire rating (Uber, Amazon, etc.) thing really works. That's why it has proliferated into almost every aspect of our lives. So honestly, if you have 50+ 4.9 reviews, you're fucking awesome.  I even know one escort who has 120+ reviews and every single one is 5.0.  Maintaining a 5.0 is extremely hard as you can't please everyone, but there are a handful out there who manage to do just that.  Those are the experts at their craft and worth every single dollar. 

This is very unusual in Michigan and especially in Royal Oak which has a large gay community.   This hotel is used by a lot of escorts so I'm sure the cops were already aware of what often goes on there.  Sounds to me like this was a hire gone bad and the cops were called.  

I use a Burner app that is not in my name, and I can delete it from my phone. I recently spoke to a provider who travels internationally. He backs his "work" phone up to the cloud and then hard resets it before customs. 
I don't know your demography but it is extremely unlikely that you would even be of interest to law enforcement. The reality is that the police target poor Johns and massage parlors and other places where it's easy to do mass arrests. They also target sex workers who are poor and marginalized. Given the breadth of this group, if people were running into issues, I suspect we'd all know. 

The common refrain on this site is don't do this if you have a lot to lose, which seems smart, but personally I'd like to get a better sense of quantified risk.
Has anyone actually experienced legal issues with hiring/meeting established providers on RM? Especially in blue state large cities (SF, LA, Vegas, NYC, Chicago)?
There's really no true way to stay completely anonymous. Currently I'm not hiring because other than people saying the risk is very low, I really don't have a good sense of how low.  I feel safer hiring compared to random hookups but the risk of my life being nearly ruined is impossible to ignore. I'm interested in hearing about any actual real life experiences on this point -- thanks in advance.

Forget being so fucking dumb to realize that he's using pics of a famous pornstar. but just the weight/ height ratio alone

It’s an amazing business idea!  As a client, it’s a lot easier to justify getting a haircut (“maintenance”) than a massage (“luxury”)!

Opening an erotic barber shop has been a fantasy of mine for years. 
Any daddies want to fund my new business venture? 😘🤪

uhm....a "dadd" at 28 yo?  He needs to re brand that. 

Update: I met with him tonight.
OMFG! It was transcendent. Most pretty boys have no idea how to do a decent massage but he knows the human body very well. 
I sprung for a few extras which he is open too. The prudish nature I experienced at Adonis was not present during our session. One of the best experiences I have had with a masseur. FYI his nether region is completely hairless. 😘

Sounds like he must have been a little cloudy when he made that ad because it makes no sense.

Update: I met with him tonight.
OMFG! It was transcendent. Most pretty boys have no idea how to do a decent massage but he knows the human body very well. 
I sprung for a few extras which he is open too. The prudish nature I experienced at Adonis was not present during our session. One of the best experiences I have had with a masseur. FYI his nether region is completely hairless. 😘

He dances at Adonis lounge in LA. In my opinion he's hotter in person than in his photos. The few dances I got with him he seemed a bit prudish but I could have just turned him off.
 

You should check it out but you should also know that the spa is being renovated. It's still open but not all facilities are operational. The last time I went, the steam room was working but very few guys were there. I still had fun though. 😘

Isn't 24 hours a bit too soon! Give people more time and they'll come out of the woodwork. 😘

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