Pd1_jap

Being 6’1” and having empirical evidence, twice, with my throat, which is not inexperienced …
Id guess he’s 6.5-7 and thicker than average nearing a true girthy.  

What everyone should be able to agree on is that his dick is not 12 inches.  Otherwise it would be a foot.

He’s a sweetie. Charismatic, hot, very smart, and totally sexy….. Pricey but deserves it.

blocked here, too......I did post his link here in the thread nearly two years ago to help him and the forum members out....no good deed goes unpunished! 

He's been advertising as a massuer in Las Vegas for as long as I can remember.  I had one bad experience with him 15 years ago... He didn't look like his pictures and barely rubbed much less tugged, took the money and left.  Even back then he looked 15-20 years older than his pictures.  Back in the Craig's List days for massage he would reach out to me with different names but always the same chest photograph and same telephone number.  I hadn't seen him on RentMen in a while because he blocked me several years back after I declined his services after he reached out to me.

What is with people on this forum trying to devalue Intel. This isn't the CIA. If you don't believe me IDC. 

What is with people on this forum trying to devalue Intel. This isn't the CIA. If you don't believe me IDC. 

My favorite is the Nicky knot.

Dude, I've had his cock in my throat. I know from a lot of experience that a cock has to be at least 7" to fit all the way in my throat. He's at least 7.5 or 8. Stop confusing your delusions for reality. 
Maybe he wasn't into you and couldn't get fully hard?

What is with people on this forum trying to devalue Intel. This isn't the CIA. If you don't believe me IDC. 

Dude, I've had his cock in my throat. I know from a lot of experience that a cock has to be at least 7" to fit all the way in my throat. He's at least 7.5 or 8. Stop confusing your delusions for reality. 
Maybe he wasn't into you and couldn't get fully hard?

Everyone no fighting lol. His dick size seems controversial (mainly due to my experience with him and the lack of commentary from others who only had a clothed therapeutic experience with him) lol but lets not argue. I'm willing to concede it might be a tad longer than 6 to 6.5 inches, he was semihard with me (not totally flaccid). I mean I have seen a lot of dick in my past, quite a few flaccid 8 to 8+ inchers and his just wasn't comparable in my eyes but if it's bigger just add your experience here. I'm willing to give @Pd1_japthe benefit of the doubt since he gave me a rec to another masseur out there who truly did have a big schlong (AristonPlato). 

What is with people on this forum trying to devalue Intel. This isn't the CIA. If you don't believe me IDC. 

You cared enough to name drop your height as if that somehow confirms your mouth size and thus this guys dick size.

I'm 6'. So yeah I've got a big oral cavity.

You may be right and I may be wrong or...I may be right and you may be wrong lol doesn't matter much to me, I don't come here to trash masseurs with malicious intent I'm just here to share my experience without a filter to let people know what's what. Whoever decides to hire him please go ahead and do so, Ralph is truly a nice guy and his massage skills were good like I've said above. If you hire please list what you think his cock size is.  

I Googled it, for fun. The average human's oral cavity from lips to throat is about 4-5 inches. So unless you have a really huge oral cavity, he's not as big as you thought he was.

My favorite is the Nicky knot.

My favorite is the Nicky knot.

It's role-play, in a way, isn't it? The provider has agreed to treat the beginning of the massage as a spa-like service, then gradually removing the fabric boundaries between the two of you -the sheet first, then his shorts? 
I'm fully aware of the concentration it takes to do real bodywork, so I think I would only ask for this scene as part of escort sesh, where the massage is only a part of the path to full engagement as the main goal. 

So you want to build the sensation….and anticipate for the next move….so it’s the build up to the satisfying end….

Does anyone else love being draped by sheets at the start of the massage? I like when it feels like a massage from a pricey spa, even if it’s been fully established ahead of time that there are going to be extras. I especially like when masseur shifts sheet over my back so he can work on my legs, then that moment when he lifts the sheet up to expose my ass and start working on the glutes. I wish more guys would incorporate sheets/draping into their massage. Anyone else?

I think you should definitely get the engagement ring back from him. lol
But joking aside, it sounds like he needs space.  Could it be that his feelings for you went deeper than a provider-client relationship?  You've offered to increase his massage fee, and I don't think there's anything more that you can do.   It's good to let him know that you didn't realize you were getting a discount, and how much you appreciate that, but that you are also more than happy to be paying his regular fee because you appreciate him and his service so much.  I wouldn't ask what more you can do, but rather, let him know you are sorry for disappointing him, that you never realized he would be disappointed, and that you would like him to contact you when he knows he'd like to move forward with future visits.  Just a thought, for what it's worth.

Seems like a job for couples therapy. Hah 
Jokes aside. I cant really speak for him but, It does seem like he is hurt by one of the two, the money or that you were seeing someone else.
 

If you were paying him what he asked for, why would he be disappointed?
If you were to pay a lower fee to another provider, will he then lower his fee?
Tell him to grow up or find another client.