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I just had a session with Arthur. Very nice guy. His skills were okay. He didn't watch the clock at all. We went over by 20mins because he was so thorough and he didn't try to upsell me. He just really seemed to enjoy his work. I will definitely repeat (probably next week!). MT and HE. Because of his hair and beard he will definitely give you Wolverine vibes. 

I just had a session with Arthur. Very nice guy. His skills were okay. He didn't watch the clock at all. We went over by 20mins because he was so thorough and he didn't try to upsell me. He just really seemed to enjoy his work. I will definitely repeat (probably next week!). MT and HE. Because of his hair and beard he will definitely give you Wolverine vibes. 

I have had Pavlik work on me at least 4-6 times (early last year) before the pandemic. Super nice guy and allowed MT and HE. His massage is on the lighter side but he was very thorough. At one point I needed some attention on my lower back (because of an injury) and he gladly focused on that for me. He's on the quiet side but would speak once I initiated a conversation. Now that I've seen his pics again, I may have to give him a call! I found him to be very cute. :-)

I saw George before and after the pandemic. He's super sweet and looks like his photos. He has great massage skills and always provided me with a HE. Great price for the service he provides.

I always get a good laugh when someone in the service industry makes it clear they have no time for me.
 
Makes it very easy to move on the next provider.

Here's my latest NYC masseur collection post. It's been a while since my last POST. I received my vaccination in Dec. Note that these are my massage experiences and may likely be different for you. My photo in my avatar is me since I get asked that question a lot in my DMs. I also don't ask anything prior to any session, no expectations except for a massage, then the magic happens... Feel free to DM me if you need any more info.
 
JESSY
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38800/
This masseur looks so young and barely legal <GASP>. He was very accommodating with his session because I ran late. He was using a Manhattan place for his massage, same as another masseur I’ve been to. He is nice and started the massage in his underwear. He has really smooth skin - totally shaven - and I mean totally <GRIN>. It’s like touching a dolphin LOL. He used a table and in his massage he used long slow but deliberate strokes. I assumed he’s self-taught since although deliberate, there was a randomness throughout the session I don’t speak Spanish so our conversation basically boiled down to hi/hello; you OK/I’m good; thanks/bye. The session also was sensual throughout. It was good overall but I’ll probably not return. However if you like “barely legal-lookin” types then he’s for you. MT and HE.
 
MATTHEW
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40935/
Matthew’s ad really didn’t appeal to me but he was quite close so I said what the heck. He is house sitting in quite a large apartment in Manhattan. As you can see from his photos, he is quite slim (very twinky) and cute. The feel when you get to his place is that this was more of an escort session than a massage one. He also asked permission if he could remove his mask after informing you of his last COVID test. Not sure There was a table in the middle of the living room. The massage was good with Swedish long strokes and a bit of kneading and stretching. He started the massage with his shirt and shorts. It was not really memorable except for the fact that this guy has a big D. Talk about your tall lanky guy stereotypes. He was also on he pricey side. It was good overall but I’ll probably not return. Again if you like twinky types with big D then he’s the guy for you. MT and HE.
 
GREG
https://rentmasseur.com/gregbig
To me, Greg is hot! There’s something about his photos - smoldering face shots, sexy hairy chest and defined body. Just the quiet manly type. He’s all the way in Brooklyn. He greeted me at the door with his shirt off so I got to see his hairy chest right away. His place is cozy and nice with a table set-up in his living room. Again my sense is that he self-taught and his techniques were more deep tissue work than long Swedish strokes. There was also a lot of soft blowing in the ears, nibbling and light kisses which again not sure it was his standard practice but I did enjoy those parts . So overall I left happy and definitely would come back. MT and HE.
 
JESU
https://rentmasseur.com/Jesu_Tantra
Jesu is quite a nice and pleasant guy. He has a table in a barely decorated space. However it was freakin’ cold despite the heater. I just couldn’t relax since my hands and feet were freezing. He was apologetic but unfortunately there was not much he could do since it was a cold afternoon, his place was big and he only had a small area heater. The session was therapeutic throughout and his touch in your nether region were deliberate for therapeutic purposes He’s a bit far up in Manhattan so I may not repeat. He seems to have added tantra now to his name so I’ll wait what other forum members would say with this change.
 
ALEX
https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_bull
Alex was very nice. He shares the same apartment with the other AlexV https://rentmasseur.com/AlexV whom I’ve been to before (see my session experience with him in my other NYC post). He even uses the same room as the other Alex so not sure who owns what. He has a table set-up and starts his massage in his underwear and shirt. You’ll notice that he loves Moschino and Gucci if you scan the room. I would say that the massage was just OK - relaxing with sensual elements. Nothing to tell Mom about but he was very nice and always checks on you. He also asks for feedback on how to make things better. I actually expected someone more masculine and gruff based on his photo poses though. I’ll probably won’t return but may for the other Alex MT and HE.
 
ANTONIO
https://rentmasseur.com/Antoniomassage
Antonio is my main man if I need to be stretched like a dough and twisted like a pretzel. He is just so good and you feel great afterwards. I saw him at his place in Brooklyn since he need those cross bars in the ceiling to do his footwork on your back. Be aware that i’s a shared railroad ground floor unit. He does long Swedish massage strokes, stretching and of course those bone cracking footwork. His hair is a bit manageable and his beard a bit trimmer than what is in his photos. His techniques, although therapeutic, can also veer towards the sensual just because its Thai! If you need a good Thai technique on a table, he’s your man! I’ve been to him several times. The experience is always different. MT and HE.
 
DANIEL
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40954/
Daniel is situated around West Harlem in a very nice apartment unit. Very clean and set up for massage. He is easy to connect via text and looks younger than his photos. He is tall, trim and fit. He does relaxing Swedish strokes on your back with some stretching. He appears to be trained. I really enjoyed his techniques. He started without his shirt, wore shorts and worked on a massage table. It was relaxing with sensual elements. I’ve seen Daniel three times. MT and HE.
 
DANNY
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4644/
Danny is fantastic. He is a member of this forum. It was so easy to book with him via text. He was still in his place in midtown west but I think he has or int he process of moving. He’s very easy to chat with and we had common interests so we were chatting almost throughout the massage session. We were both naked at the start. He uses long Swedish strokes with some stretching. Thoroughly relaxing and I would definitely repeat. MT and HE.
 
PAUL
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41286/
I’ve went to Paul’s place in Astoria. He has a unique approach to the sessions with Tarot card reading to start to “center the session.” Since I always like anything new or unexpected, it was enjoyable. I believe he identifies as queer and is very comfortable with his sexuality as he said so himself (assumed pronouns: he/him/his). He is nice, caring and since the session was done on the bed, there were a lot of opportunities for holding and cuddling and you’re both naked. A unique session that was part massage, part guided meditation. It’s probably going to be a one and done for me though. HE and MT
 
CARLOS
https://rentmasseur.com/Puertoricanstudd
I saw him at his massage studio in Union Sq East. He has a nice set-up with a table, candles, mood lighting and ambience music. When I walked in, he was only wearing an orange thong-like underwear which came off before the session started. He still is defined and have not lost much muscle despite what another forum member said. I was never skimped on time. He gave me a hug and also checked my temperature (skin not rectal ) The massage though was just OK. Not trained and felt more like “strategically placed body parts on top of your body” most of the time. I do agree that what can happen depends more on connection and chemistry. I can guarantee though that MT and HE will happen.
 
STEBAN
https://rentmasseur.com/Steban
I’ve been to Steban several times. He’s the other Thai practitioner I frequent. He is very nice, a dancer but since COVID, has filled up really nicely and more definition. He works in the USQ massage place and on a floor mattress. He does traditional Thai but with his bikini underwear (then naked) and I do love it. Really trained and works your body like a pretzel. Therapeutic but definitely sensual. I’m sure things do escalate since you’re practically on top of each other most of the time ;D I’ve been to him three times now. MT and HE.
 
MOSES
https://rentmasseur.com/MosesM
I went to his place in Chelsea. Nice small apartment with massage table in the living room area. He is quite sexy with a well defined body. He’s nice and soft spoken. He is trained and massaged and stretched me well It’s relaxing and sensual and he’s naked by the end. I would probably not repeat but ry him though since he’s quite nice. MT and HE.
 
DREW
https://rentmasseur.com/drewsparkles
Gentlemen, I’d like to present to you my boyfriend! I’m quite smitten so I would rather keep him to myself but then again… He’s a nice Brazilian bi guy with his own massage technique and flow. He clearly knows what his clients want and he builds up the session from relaxing to sensual. There’s a lot of ear blowing and kissing that happened in my session. Not that I’m complaining. He works in a nice UES apartment but it’s a multi room and he has roommates. His place is the section from the edge of the living room and balcony so he has a great view of the east River. It’s small but he manages. However if you are afraid that you are living a double identity, it may be best to have him as an outcall although not sure whether he brings his table. You may also have seen him in one of the NYC spas since he works there 3 times a week. He is absolutely adorable with a kind heart. MT and HE.

You’re not alone. I easily have crushes on my masseurs too, and play in my head scenarios of ways i could subtly flirt or connect with them more.
 
Everyone has shared good info here already, but I just like to add that while it’s important that you make sure you enjoy the feeling, but know when it’s time to stop or hold back.

I can not believe that no one asked for a link to his masseur crush.
 
You can crush on anyone you want and your money is yours to do with whatever makes you happy. It just sounds like he has boundaries and to him, a client is client and not a romantic partner. In the end, being a masseur is a means by which people make money and from my experiences Every One has a set of boundaries and even though sometimes they get awfully close to that Line.. few will cross it. Hope that helps

So poetic! I LOVE IT! Thanks so much for this.

Consider that if you offer your emotions and feelings to another, (regardless of who they are), do so without attachment~ Give it freely without expectation of return~ If it is returned you can be appreciative and grateful... if not returned you have neither exceeded your expectations nor missed something you didn’t have to begin with~ Either way, the result is that you will have both loved and lived, (Lovingly)~
~Tyger~

Seconding all Bluefin and rubmythighs are saying. I had a friend back in the day who used to joke of hiring: "I'm not paying them to massage /have sex with me. I'm paying them to make me believe they want to!" Glib, yes, but I always keep that in mind. They're good at their job. It's not deceitful just talent and maybe some necessary compartmentalization on their part. Good luck!

Love this!!! Thank you for your comment. Especially the "more I'll be willing to accept him as a nice guy who massages me" will make it easier for me to open myself up to meeting someone else. Thank you.

I love that "REMEMBER YOU'RE SOMEONE'S FLAVOR"!!! Would love to meet someone. I think as the weather gets nicer and more things open up, it'll be easier to get out and meet. Thank you for your comment.

I am single so it's probably alittle worse for me. I definitely need to keep my emotions in check. Thanks for your comment.

And just want to second what @Bluefin said. When you interact with someone else in an intimate setting it is easy to get drawn into the feelings that will invariably come with that type of a connection. It has happened to all of us I am sure at some point.

Remember to not confuse surrogacy for the real thing. I think of providers essentially as straight men who aren't capable of reciprocating feelings and it makes it easier for me to not develop anything. I also have breaks in between where I look for another provider for the next 3 times I'm looking, it definitely helps to change the romantic goggles.

Good to hear that you understand that it’s likely only a transactional relationship. Not that masseurs/escorts aren’t people - I’m sure there are times where fondness is reciprocated.
 
I’ve had it happen to me from time to time and what usually helps me is reminding myself it’s likely that I’m having feelings for the provider because they’re really good at their job. Part of what gets repeat clients is treating them in a way that makes them feel cared for, sexy, etc. Plus it’s only natural when physical contact is happening and the pheromones are flying!
 
I’d try moving on once the feelings start. For me personally it would be extremely distracting to put energy into something that is most likely not going anywhere.

And do you know if the masseur has a boyfriend or husband? A lot of guys are in relationships and that could be why he is declining your invitations to go out “off the clock.”
 
That being said, it seems like this is totally a one-way street. You have been very generous with him but he is keeping it all business. You have to decide if your emotional health will suffer if you continue seeing him given your strong feelings. If so you need to move on. Trust me, there are masseurs out there who would appreciate having such a committed and generous client as you have been with this masseur.

I love that "REMEMBER YOU'RE SOMEONE'S FLAVOR"!!! Would love to meet someone. I think as the weather gets nicer and more things open up, it'll be easier to get out and meet. Thank you for your comment.

I love that "REMEMBER YOU'RE SOMEONE'S FLAVOR"!!! Would love to meet someone. I think as the weather gets nicer and more things open up, it'll be easier to get out and meet. Thank you for your comment.

Love this!!! Thank you for your comment. Especially the "more I'll be willing to accept him as a nice guy who massages me" will make it easier for me to open myself up to meeting someone else. Thank you.

I love that "REMEMBER YOU'RE SOMEONE'S FLAVOR"!!! Would love to meet someone. I think as the weather gets nicer and more things open up, it'll be easier to get out and meet. Thank you for your comment.

Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate your input. Makes total sense.

I'm single. Maybe that's part of it?

You're probably right. I do feel cared for and sexy when I'm with him. I may take your advice and move on because I feel like the feelings are getting stronger (on my end) and it's probably all business for him. He's super nice and I'm not a victim so I need to learn to understand when it's happening. Thanks so much for this Bluefin!