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I just had a session with Arthur. Very nice guy. His skills were okay. He didn't watch the clock at all. We went over by 20mins because he was so thorough and he didn't try to upsell me. He just really seemed to enjoy his work. I will definitely repeat (probably next week!). MT and HE. Because of his hair and beard he will definitely give you Wolverine vibes.

I'm slowly learning. Thank you for your feedback.

It does help. Thank you.

So poetic! I LOVE IT! Thanks so much for this.

Sounds good to me! I like your approach. Thank you.

Thank you for this. I will definitely remind myself of this when getting worked on.

Thanks so much! I will!

Love this!!! Thank you for your comment. Especially the "more I'll be willing to accept him as a nice guy who massages me" will make it easier for me to open myself up to meeting someone else. Thank you.

I love that "REMEMBER YOU'RE SOMEONE'S FLAVOR"!!! Would love to meet someone. I think as the weather gets nicer and more things open up, it'll be easier to get out and meet. Thank you for your comment.

I am single so it's probably alittle worse for me. I definitely need to keep my emotions in check. Thanks for your comment.

Thank you WestGuy! I agree.

I like your idea about taking breaks in between. I never thought about that. Thanks so much!

You're probably right. I do feel cared for and sexy when I'm with him. I may take your advice and move on because I feel like the feelings are getting stronger (on my end) and it's probably all business for him. He's super nice and I'm not a victim so I need to learn to understand when it's happening. Thanks so much for this Bluefin!

Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate your input. Makes total sense.

I'm single. Maybe that's part of it?

It seems like every time I find a masseur that I like, I end up having feelings for him. Without failure I end up with a crush for him. I find myself checking up on him just to see how he’s doing. During the pandemic I even gave him $100-$300 weekly as I felt sorry for him because his business came to an end because of social distancing and people weren’t ready to get massages. He always declines my social invitations nicely and always has a reason but when we’re together I just get lost in his touch and his ability to find all my spots that turn me on like no other. Maybe secretly I was hoping he would start to have feelings for me too. Please know that I am not playing the victim here. I understand that (for him) it’s just business. I’m wondering if anyone can offer me any kind of advice or tips on not developing feelings for my masseur or how to avoid them?

I used him a few times before the pandemic. Super nice guy and had good skills. He provided MT and HE. Would totally use him again.

Very well said. Thank you.

Thank you so much for this. You broke it down so clearly. I didn't realize about the settings on Rentmasseur. I love how you handled it.

Thanks for this. I love it.

Me too.

That's fair. I never thought about it like that. Thank you.

How crazy is that!? He could've politely declined without being so nasty. Doesn't he realize that he could've just lost a potential returning client?

Does anyone know why some Masseurs will post "ASK" when it comes to pricing? I'm sorry if this has been discussed before but I'm so curious as to why they don't list their service price. Truthfully, when I see it attached on a masseur's profile, I move on. I totally understand if they want to "up" their price for extra service or time, but I think they should at least give a base price to start off with.

I have had Pavlik work on me at least 4-6 times (early last year) before the pandemic. Super nice guy and allowed MT and HE. His massage is on the lighter side but he was very thorough. At one point I needed some attention on my lower back (because of an injury) and he gladly focused on that for me. He's on the quiet side but would speak once I initiated a conversation. Now that I've seen his pics again, I may have to give him a call! I found him to be very cute. :-)