TrickRocket

In my experience, there can be a significant difference between "submissive" and "bottom," and I am indeed both, or at least as I understand and apply the terms.
I have been the insertive partner on only a few occasions and only with a handfull of men. And I never really enjoyed it, as either the receiver of oral sex nor as the top in anal sex; just never did much for me. Seems odd to say it, but I just don't get much pleasure from my genitals. (Nipples, however, are different. They're like launch buttons ,,, 3-2-1- GO!)
I think it's about the psychology. In the affairs of intimacy, I just don't have the "top" mentality. But I do have the ardent desire - and get my greatest satisfaction from - giving pleasure to the other man; I find that immensely satisfying! And in my pursuit of that goal, submissive by no means equates to passive. I consider that as a submissive mindset in that I am not really interested in my own pleasure but am committed to giving my partner the best orgasm he's ever had - until the next time. And on a few occasions, with two or three of my favorite paramours, have reached orgasm when my partner did and without touching myself "down under."
Oh Damn! Now I need a cigarette. Is it hot in here or what?!?

In the same vein, I am not into "sub" bottoms and it seems like that's the preferred language these days. "Submissive" has become synonymous with "bottom" so that sub/dom seems to have replaced top/bottom. (Just that the way talk about 'kinks' has become ritual - almost replacing "what are you into..." but that's  WHOLE other thread.)
Not sure how to explain it, but I don't want my bottom to sub out. I want them on my level.

In the same vein, I am not into "sub" bottoms and it seems like that's the preferred language these days. "Submissive" has become synonymous with "bottom" so that sub/dom seems to have replaced top/bottom. (Just that the way talk about 'kinks' has become ritual - almost replacing "what are you into..." but that's  WHOLE other thread.)
Not sure how to explain it, but I don't want my bottom to sub out. I want them on my level.

Often when I'm talking to a bottom guy about hooking up they'll think they are turning me on with one of the following lines:
- I'm super tight.
- I haven't been fucked in forever.
- I'm looking for my first time.
But that's an instant killer for me. I'm thicker than average so I really don't enjoy tight guys. I find it so much hotter when I find a bottom that I can slide into balls deep nice and easy. I know we're in for a good long fuck then without the bottom saying I need to stop or being so tight around my cock that it makes me blow fast. I basically love guys who state they are slutty or power bottoms.
Wondering do you guys, my fellow tops, prefer a tight hole or a looser, used hole like I do?

No recent experience but saw him a year or so ago. Enthusiastic if not technically superior massage. But he was a lot of fun at the end.😉

I wouldn't say that he's "not hung." He has a very good size dick and big balls. It's not like porn star size, but it's very worth playtime.
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I didn't find his massage to be particularly skillful. But he has such good energy and the extras and HE were very nice. 😈If anyone wants to know more, DM me.

I wouldn't say that he's "not hung." He has a very good size dick and big balls. It's not like porn star size, but it's very worth playtime.
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I didn't find his massage to be particularly skillful. But he has such good energy and the extras and HE were very nice. 😈If anyone wants to know more, DM me.

I agree.
I don't personally like to hire escorts, as I prefer to meet people in person before I know if I am interested in them, sexually.
Men who offer both sexual services and (reasonably good)massage services are my preference. Booking for a massage gives me a chance to meet them, at a reasonable rate. If I am interested in more, this encounter gives me a chance to discuss sex services IN PERSON after the massage is completed, the provider is paid, and he has had a chance to meet me and catch the vibe of my personality. This also drastically limits the always present risk of entrapment in a prostitution sting operation.

Always best to discuss specifics with the provider. Professional, polite, discreet, honest. 

HE with sugardaddy nyc ? 

Yes, I've been to George recently and the massage work is great. Def try him. I used to go to Tommy (exceptional) all the time but he's currently dealing with a hand injury and stopped advertising on MasseurFinder. Tommy recommended I try George and I love him.

I was never able to schedule a massage with Eli. He doesn't return calls to people he doesn't find attractive: cold, aloof. And it's not just with me - he has a bad rap on this front. At this point, I'm well past the point of even wanting to bother.

He used to be at Hush as well. Just saw him this weekend. Same as always - good massage, no dealing, hint of sensual, nothing more. My consistent experience at least.

Agreed - great service, very professional and pleasantly flirty.

Incredible service but no HE. Super professional. Clean. I get excited when I'm there and the work is always top-notch but, nothing off-menu. Armando (the owner) used to offer massage and could be found on MF but no longer.

Incredible service but no HE. Super professional. Clean. I get excited when I'm there and the work is always top-notch but, nothing off-menu. Armando (the owner) used to offer massage and could be found on MF but no longer.

As with any other beautician/masseur, YMMV. The only way to know is to check it out yourself.

Sugardaddy nyc is awesome

Has anyone worked with Louis? He's sxy AF and I wonder if YMMV or if there's any HE...
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35567/

Maybe keep your conspiracy theories to your QAnon meetups. And say hello to Elvis for me

Would love to hear more recs on the best currently.
I'd love to hear your opinions on the best masseurs who REALLY massage (I genuinely need some real bodywork) but who also might provide a bit extra. Esp since Alex (Blessings)'s profile is inactive now.
My faves (who have accessible profiles):
George: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6239/
Aleks: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12512/
Roberto: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36562/
Sergey: https://rentmasseur.com/Ssergey
Chris: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1261/ (No extras)
Omar: https://rentmasseur.com/OmarCures (limited extras)

PSA to clients: please keep in mind this is the most common reason your masseurs do not text you back “immediately”. You can’t have it both ways. Immediate responses 100% of the time AND their full, uninterrupted attention during the session? Usually it’s one or the other. Unless you happen to luck out on your timing, and it’s exactly that: luck.
I’m careful not to detract any attention from my client to my phone during their session. The good masseurs are focused on you for the whole session.
Have grace when inquiring and it takes a while to get a response. It’s not uncommon, for example, for me to have a two hour client appointment, plus time after (still not texting other clients) to wrap up, accept payment, walk the client out, chit chat, etc. There’s no clear agreed-upon standard regarding an acceptable amount of time to return texts. For me, it’s up to 2-3 hours, most often I respond much sooner than that and obviously within minutes if I’m otherwise free. Response times have been discussed on several other forums at length. Same with hours to contact your provider. Here’s one related thread on that topic:
 

i had a massage recently where the masseur WOULD NOT SHUT UP.  he was unbelievably chatty from start to finish, talking super-fast and not taking a breath.  never had a massage experience like that before.  he talked about what tv shows he was watching; his night out at last week at the bar; his various hookups with porn stars; recent changes to his diet; concerts he was going to; etc.  none of this could be classified as friendly conversation, this was just him with the 'on' switch flipped.
for every song that came up on his playlist during the massage he would be like "omg, i totally love her!  what's your favorite betty who song?"  and then he would be discernibly annoyed when i would mumble something like "sorry, i have never heard of 'betty who' and i don't know any of her songs".  a similar thing happened when he brought up drag race.  "who's your favorite this year?"  and i said i don't watch drag race, and his response "you don't watch drag race!  you have to watch it to support the community!  i can't believe you're not watching it!"  and it was clear that he wasn't just surprised that i don't watch drag race, but kind of pissed off about it.
the whole experience was this horrible, nonstop firehose of words.  every once in a while he would say something like "ok i need to shut up now." and then about five seconds later he would start again.  definitely for me the most annoying massage ever.  couldn't wait to get out of there.

Gold Status is something the masseur pays for in order to get listed higher up in searches.

Used to go there before I discovered other options. No “V” in the UMMV. Never had anything other than a professional waxing.