NYCethan

I’ve been jonesing for Souplantation for a couple of months now.
 
I once went with a (Black) friend and as we ate we just happened to discuss the name of the restaurant. “I wonder if the ‘plantation’ in the name stirs up any negative thoughts or imagery in some people’s minds,” I observed. “Yes,” she answered, “they should probably get rid of it. They’d get more Black people [customers].”

Check out... Grindr
-Lots of guys here in NYC, maybe a camera emoji in name or a name like “zoom lens”
-Usually an Instagram attached with examples
 
That’s been a source for some of my photos

that, of course, is well-known Michael Hoffman on the table......I think this is a relatively recent video with him based on the comments section and their dates......has been sorta fun to watch MH start out a few years ago with no tats and hardly showing his junk at all (and his bar mitzvah poster on the wall behind him!) - and then to some lame qualifications about his sexuality - and then now with too many tats and a more free-wheelin' set of videos....
 
would sure love to know this guy's real story and motivation

I've been fond of Terrace rooms at Cosmopolitan Vegas
 
I also been impressed with Westin at DTW - King room overlooking jetways - TSA in lobby - TSA give hotel guests access to concourse

Air bnb’s and any W hotel. In NYC I like the Mandarin, Public, and Standard hotels. The Empire hotel in NYC is nice too but I’m biased because of my gossip girl obsession ?

Pretty much. King Size with a window and no restrictions/rules for visitors is usually what I look for.
 
 
Was in Virginia recently and loved my stay at the Holiday Inn Express. While more trendy hotels with bells and whistles were around, and in some cases a little cheaper, most needed key card elevator access or you had to sign in after a certain time.

:eek: - I don't see how that comment could sound any Less racist ! I would expect it coming from Trump, but NOT from the educated men on this board (well maybe Some !!)

I respect your point of view - no doubt a lot of folks on here feel the same. I feel differently. ??‍♂️

It is, I confess, a major fetish of mine. BUT, it would be something I would expect to talk about before hooking up. If I met a guy out of the blue who arrived smelling like that (that is, without him knowing I liked that), I might definitely question his grooming habits. I'd rather meet someone who smells freshly washed, etc, unless we plan otherwise.
 
On the other hand, I have a definite problem with guys who smell like they just poured a whole bottle of cologne all over themselves. A little should go a very long way, but many guys don't understand that.

I agree about Brazilians attitude toward sex. I have traveled there several times and they have a much more fluid concept about sex performance, as far as engaging in it at all. However as was mentioned men on the whole seem to have no problem engaging as tops. Moreover a few bucks will convince them that bottoming is not all that bad. While the country is religious I did not find that it permeated a prohibition against male to male sex. Even if a guy topped another guy that did not make him gay. It just meant that his cock felt really good. Unfortunately I do not know if the same thing applied to women or if it is the same as it is here in that woman seem to have a better ability to conceive of engaging in sex with another woman. Not they will do so but they conceive of doing so.

I think yours is a fine ad. However, the last line — “The only thing I can’t do is host” — personally, it sounds odd because that’s rather a significant thing to be preceded with a “that’s the only thing,” as though it were a trifle. That’s just what I think.
 
Also, your interview responses in #4 — “I don’t try to stand out from the crowd” can indicate that you naturally stand out from the crowd without trying, or it may indicate that you can’t be bothered to try to stand out/“go the extra mile”; and in #9 you say that you wouldn’t say much at all if you were to sit on the beach with a client. Personally, I’d modify that answer, too.

Thank you sensei ? I’m gonna rework it and repost but I didn’t wanna be to explicit and turn away people who may want someone more lowkey. I’ll find the happy medium!

Hi Again,
 
I took the advice many of you gave and made a RentMen profile. I’m looking for feedback on it because I haven’t had much traffic in the days it’s been up! Be as blunt as you like, I’m not sensitive.
 
Thanks In Advance!
 
My Ad

Lol, funny you say. I used to call Los Angeles, LOSS Angeles because if you went there expecting big money, you’d be at a loss lol.
 
But nowadays, I don’t really dislike it one way or another. Truth is, there’s tons of clients coming in and out of LA. Lots of money going around. No secret there.
 
The problem is the supply and demand is so exorbitant, one just can’t go there haphazardly expecting desired results. I think majority reason a lot of guys are advertising there, is because it’s also the Mecca for gay porn and porn in general.
 
One of my clients left me with a giant box of porn when he passed, and on just about every credit, it’s LA, Hollywood, Santa Barbara or West Hollywood in the title. So unless somebody doing all of that, it might not be in one’s best interest. Or plan way ahead of going there.

THANK YOU for the update because I felt like such a loser lol.
I'm back in NYC for presumably the rest of the semester and may try to go to miami for basel if I can. LA didn't seem to have the types of men I enjoy meeting anyway so no harm no foul!

An interesting read. Sad craigslist personals is no longer there-due to bipartisan passed FOSTA.
https://www.thecut.com/2016/12/why-straight-rural-men-have-gay-bud-sex-with-each-other.html

Many, many men compartmentalize sex, this shouldn't be a surprise to anyone who's seen what goes on in gym steam rooms or bookstores. I think there are men who have had sex hundreds of times with other men without exchanging a single word or knowing the partner's name. I think for some of them it's really just a form of enhanced masturbation. It feels good, so they do it.

If I post or PM that a masseur got naked for me and you report back that he did not get naked for you... YMMV applies.

Count your blessings honey, at least Ed Buck didn’t call you out there in LA!
 
Plus with the supposed fears of Bubonic Plague due to the booming rat population from the homeless, due to the LA exorbitant cost of living, I think LA could be dead for ALOT of people lol.
 
 
Jokes aside, I actually met a “celebrity” new client from LA over the weekend: 1,600 miles away. He wants me to come out there at some point. I said, I’m not quite in a hurry to lol. Because when I went back in April, I only went because I had a free place to stay for 4 days and some change to play with.
 
My motto for LA is, if you want to meet a client from LA, you have to meet them outside of LA lol. Meet them in San Diego or Palm Springs if you must. Forget about them being able to find you there unless you just really planted there for awhile.

Just remember: when people are coming across RentMen, they are likely browsing more X rated material. You can be low key, but it’s not OkCupid or ChristianMingle.
 

 
All good points for sure. Although, I always say there’s an exception to every rule. Couple of things you mentioned don’t always apply, but of course things change overtime and have to be updated (for example, talking to someone by phone before meeting. I can generally get around that because it’s easy to be able to verify someone before I even open the door or leave the house). And nowadays, the ones who call on the phone seem to be more prone to wasting our time than those who text. Especially the ones who call over and over. Like some idiot from Michigan called me several times between 7 and 730 am. Fortunately, I’ve learned to press the silent ring/send to voicemail button in my sleep.
 
But I’m curious what’s your input in this thread about deposits which is currently running:
 
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/escort-requesting-a-deposit.152148/

If you ever come to Denver, I definitely will take you up on that.

I agree that pic #2 isn't my favorite-- makes you look moody. But we do need more than just four pics.
 
Maybe add some useful details, like are you able to host (if so, where) and where are you willing to travel to?
 
Take a look at some other ads and get a sense of what guys say about themselves, and then try to come up with some more to say about yourself.
 
Welcome to the message forum, by the way!
 
Kevin Slater

Better a PR nightmare than having bodies strewn all over the world. Boeing has made plenty of mistakes over the years but generally has put out a superior product. And, it doesn't have the full force and faith of the US government backing it. At least, not yet.
 
Best regards,
KMEM

The Boeing 787 has become a PR nightmare for Boeing, I also think a financial catastrophe at the end of the day. Having just announced another delay yesterday after saying it was going to make a maiden flight by the end of this month. The Paris Air Show crowd must have known that Boeing Execs were bullshitting them...

.....with nothing else on underneath, of course!