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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from coriolis888 in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?   
    I would definitely recommend being open and upfront about any thing you have concerns about. For example, I am average shape with a gut. I always share with a potential provider that I am self-conscious that my body will turn them off. Some have chosen to pass, others have given me reassurance. I wouldn't want to show up expecting a certain experience and then be rejected or subjected to a 'pity fuck' where its obvious he just wants to get off/get me off and get the hell out. You will both be happier if you agree up front on a pleasing experience.
     
    Yes, agree with the sentiment that 'discrimination is not cool', but candidly, as 'customers' of service providers, we are discriminating against them all the time - top, bottom, cut, uncut, hairy, twink, bear, muscle, age, height, dick size, tattoos, etc, etc. The nature of service search choices (like RM) is discrimination. I don't want to say turnabout is 'fair play' but it is the nature of the service we are engaging in. Men can't easily fake it with a limp dick, especially if they are a top.
     
    We don't live in an ideal world and we all should try to navigate our way to happiness, so I would advise being direct about what you want and who you are. Then use reviews and this forum to call out bad behavior.
     
    Just my opinion of course.
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    MidwestCoastal reacted to + JEC in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?   
    IMHO I would be up front about it and ask if there are any concerns. Why would you want to risk the appointment going awry if it becomes an issue? Or, for that matter, why would you want to be with someone who had an issue with your race? Save your time energy and money for an exceptional experience....and in my experience exceptional experiences come from lots of up front communication about your expectations from the meeting. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from tj_forplay in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?   
    I would definitely recommend being open and upfront about any thing you have concerns about. For example, I am average shape with a gut. I always share with a potential provider that I am self-conscious that my body will turn them off. Some have chosen to pass, others have given me reassurance. I wouldn't want to show up expecting a certain experience and then be rejected or subjected to a 'pity fuck' where its obvious he just wants to get off/get me off and get the hell out. You will both be happier if you agree up front on a pleasing experience.
     
    Yes, agree with the sentiment that 'discrimination is not cool', but candidly, as 'customers' of service providers, we are discriminating against them all the time - top, bottom, cut, uncut, hairy, twink, bear, muscle, age, height, dick size, tattoos, etc, etc. The nature of service search choices (like RM) is discrimination. I don't want to say turnabout is 'fair play' but it is the nature of the service we are engaging in. Men can't easily fake it with a limp dick, especially if they are a top.
     
    We don't live in an ideal world and we all should try to navigate our way to happiness, so I would advise being direct about what you want and who you are. Then use reviews and this forum to call out bad behavior.
     
    Just my opinion of course.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from Ghadd in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?   
    I would definitely recommend being open and upfront about any thing you have concerns about. For example, I am average shape with a gut. I always share with a potential provider that I am self-conscious that my body will turn them off. Some have chosen to pass, others have given me reassurance. I wouldn't want to show up expecting a certain experience and then be rejected or subjected to a 'pity fuck' where its obvious he just wants to get off/get me off and get the hell out. You will both be happier if you agree up front on a pleasing experience.
     
    Yes, agree with the sentiment that 'discrimination is not cool', but candidly, as 'customers' of service providers, we are discriminating against them all the time - top, bottom, cut, uncut, hairy, twink, bear, muscle, age, height, dick size, tattoos, etc, etc. The nature of service search choices (like RM) is discrimination. I don't want to say turnabout is 'fair play' but it is the nature of the service we are engaging in. Men can't easily fake it with a limp dick, especially if they are a top.
     
    We don't live in an ideal world and we all should try to navigate our way to happiness, so I would advise being direct about what you want and who you are. Then use reviews and this forum to call out bad behavior.
     
    Just my opinion of course.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + nycman in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?   
    I would definitely recommend being open and upfront about any thing you have concerns about. For example, I am average shape with a gut. I always share with a potential provider that I am self-conscious that my body will turn them off. Some have chosen to pass, others have given me reassurance. I wouldn't want to show up expecting a certain experience and then be rejected or subjected to a 'pity fuck' where its obvious he just wants to get off/get me off and get the hell out. You will both be happier if you agree up front on a pleasing experience.
     
    Yes, agree with the sentiment that 'discrimination is not cool', but candidly, as 'customers' of service providers, we are discriminating against them all the time - top, bottom, cut, uncut, hairy, twink, bear, muscle, age, height, dick size, tattoos, etc, etc. The nature of service search choices (like RM) is discrimination. I don't want to say turnabout is 'fair play' but it is the nature of the service we are engaging in. Men can't easily fake it with a limp dick, especially if they are a top.
     
    We don't live in an ideal world and we all should try to navigate our way to happiness, so I would advise being direct about what you want and who you are. Then use reviews and this forum to call out bad behavior.
     
    Just my opinion of course.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from Lee_jeff in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?   
    I would definitely recommend being open and upfront about any thing you have concerns about. For example, I am average shape with a gut. I always share with a potential provider that I am self-conscious that my body will turn them off. Some have chosen to pass, others have given me reassurance. I wouldn't want to show up expecting a certain experience and then be rejected or subjected to a 'pity fuck' where its obvious he just wants to get off/get me off and get the hell out. You will both be happier if you agree up front on a pleasing experience.
     
    Yes, agree with the sentiment that 'discrimination is not cool', but candidly, as 'customers' of service providers, we are discriminating against them all the time - top, bottom, cut, uncut, hairy, twink, bear, muscle, age, height, dick size, tattoos, etc, etc. The nature of service search choices (like RM) is discrimination. I don't want to say turnabout is 'fair play' but it is the nature of the service we are engaging in. Men can't easily fake it with a limp dick, especially if they are a top.
     
    We don't live in an ideal world and we all should try to navigate our way to happiness, so I would advise being direct about what you want and who you are. Then use reviews and this forum to call out bad behavior.
     
    Just my opinion of course.
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    MidwestCoastal reacted to MikeBiDude in Bad Clients   
    It’s very disturbing...the pre-judging is blatantly clear. “Book by its cover...” etc.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from bdmarkny in 411: NateDaGreat - Visiting Philly   
    https://rentmen.eu/NateDaGreat
     
    Very limited on what he 'does'....
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from Jupiter in 411 on IvyLeagueEscort   
    He is a regular weekend visitor for me... Highly recommend...
     
    Feel free to PM if you have any questions...
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + Hung_Cody in 411 Laid Back Muscle NY ?   
    Bump....
     
    His last login is October 18th, 2019?!? But the ad has not expired..... Mmmmmm......Mystery!
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + Hung_Cody in HUNG_LucianoXXL - Coming to NYC - 411?   
    WOW....seriously!? Sign me up... although the 'hiring freeze' might make it difficult as I'm coming up from Philly.
     
    And thank you for taking one for the team.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + Steve yabsley in Weekend hire: taking the plunge with a provider you don't know   
    I find that providers that are willing to engage in longer than usual exchanges via email or text is a good first indicator of potential chemistry. Be upfront about what you want and your reservations about having someone you don't know for a weekend visit. Graduate to phone calls or video chat to seal the deal. I have offered a couple hundred bucks to chat with someone after a few email/texting sessions as long as I can apply that to the weekend visit. No one accepted and they were still willing to have the conversation anyway.
     
    I've only 'blind weekend hired' three times, but everyone was awesome using the method above!
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + stevenkesslar in Pandemic preparation? ?   
    Day 3.5 working from home.... and we're going to be working from home until, at a minimum, mid-April..... my Fortune 50 company is doing a decent job with support functions..... but everyone is freaked out and stressed out..... people with kids, especially small kids, look just haggard on every video conference call.
     
    The urban grocery stores are Soviet scary with no bread, no pasta, no rice, no meat, limited dairy, limited canned foods..... still decent fresh fruit and veggies..... Amazon, Fresh Direct, and Instacart have no deliveries unless you order 4-5 days out.
     
    I have 1%-er guilt.... I miss my delivery services, laundry service, cleaning service, and service services. I definitely now understand how ridiculously privileged I am when I look at what millions of Americans are facing - 20% unemployment!? I'm worried if the economy tanks beyond the summer, my group may be hit with layoffs.
     
    The biggest question I'm facing - Should I buy a Peloton? I just got into a semi-good groove with diet and starting to workout again and now literally no options.
     
    My 76yo mother is fine; my sister is having a nervous breakdown having to home school the kids.
     
    I have got to stop watching the news. I'm depressed that I am single and alone.
     
    Any gamers out there? I wouldn't mind a gaming buddy or buddies.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from KeepItReal in Pandemic preparation? ?   
    Day 3.5 working from home.... and we're going to be working from home until, at a minimum, mid-April..... my Fortune 50 company is doing a decent job with support functions..... but everyone is freaked out and stressed out..... people with kids, especially small kids, look just haggard on every video conference call.
     
    The urban grocery stores are Soviet scary with no bread, no pasta, no rice, no meat, limited dairy, limited canned foods..... still decent fresh fruit and veggies..... Amazon, Fresh Direct, and Instacart have no deliveries unless you order 4-5 days out.
     
    I have 1%-er guilt.... I miss my delivery services, laundry service, cleaning service, and service services. I definitely now understand how ridiculously privileged I am when I look at what millions of Americans are facing - 20% unemployment!? I'm worried if the economy tanks beyond the summer, my group may be hit with layoffs.
     
    The biggest question I'm facing - Should I buy a Peloton? I just got into a semi-good groove with diet and starting to workout again and now literally no options.
     
    My 76yo mother is fine; my sister is having a nervous breakdown having to home school the kids.
     
    I have got to stop watching the news. I'm depressed that I am single and alone.
     
    Any gamers out there? I wouldn't mind a gaming buddy or buddies.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + peterhung85 in Weekend hire: taking the plunge with a provider you don't know   
    I find that providers that are willing to engage in longer than usual exchanges via email or text is a good first indicator of potential chemistry. Be upfront about what you want and your reservations about having someone you don't know for a weekend visit. Graduate to phone calls or video chat to seal the deal. I have offered a couple hundred bucks to chat with someone after a few email/texting sessions as long as I can apply that to the weekend visit. No one accepted and they were still willing to have the conversation anyway.
     
    I've only 'blind weekend hired' three times, but everyone was awesome using the method above!
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + FreshFluff in Pandemic preparation? ?   
    Day 3.5 working from home.... and we're going to be working from home until, at a minimum, mid-April..... my Fortune 50 company is doing a decent job with support functions..... but everyone is freaked out and stressed out..... people with kids, especially small kids, look just haggard on every video conference call.
     
    The urban grocery stores are Soviet scary with no bread, no pasta, no rice, no meat, limited dairy, limited canned foods..... still decent fresh fruit and veggies..... Amazon, Fresh Direct, and Instacart have no deliveries unless you order 4-5 days out.
     
    I have 1%-er guilt.... I miss my delivery services, laundry service, cleaning service, and service services. I definitely now understand how ridiculously privileged I am when I look at what millions of Americans are facing - 20% unemployment!? I'm worried if the economy tanks beyond the summer, my group may be hit with layoffs.
     
    The biggest question I'm facing - Should I buy a Peloton? I just got into a semi-good groove with diet and starting to workout again and now literally no options.
     
    My 76yo mother is fine; my sister is having a nervous breakdown having to home school the kids.
     
    I have got to stop watching the news. I'm depressed that I am single and alone.
     
    Any gamers out there? I wouldn't mind a gaming buddy or buddies.
  17. Like
    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + barullo in Weekend hire: taking the plunge with a provider you don't know   
    I find that providers that are willing to engage in longer than usual exchanges via email or text is a good first indicator of potential chemistry. Be upfront about what you want and your reservations about having someone you don't know for a weekend visit. Graduate to phone calls or video chat to seal the deal. I have offered a couple hundred bucks to chat with someone after a few email/texting sessions as long as I can apply that to the weekend visit. No one accepted and they were still willing to have the conversation anyway.
     
    I've only 'blind weekend hired' three times, but everyone was awesome using the method above!
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    MidwestCoastal reacted to Doe Be Doe in Lorenzo oro NYC Rentmen   
    Any info on Lorenzo oro?
     
    Thanks!
     
    https://rent.men/Lorenzo_Oro
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + Steve yabsley in jackshirk - Hung NYC Twink   
    I feel wrong for wanting such a young guy inside me.... but damn.... I bet he could three rounds without blinking....
     
    https://rent.men/jackshirk
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from sydneyboy in jackshirk - Hung NYC Twink   
    I feel wrong for wanting such a young guy inside me.... but damn.... I bet he could three rounds without blinking....
     
    https://rent.men/jackshirk
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from + Reisr30 in What Happened to Anthony Philly   
    What's his cock like?
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from liubit in jackshirk - Hung NYC Twink   
    Not really into a 'Daddy' vibe... but just the thought of getting used to satisfy/gratify a younger guy... definitely pushes a few buttons.
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from beachboy in jackshirk - Hung NYC Twink   
    I feel wrong for wanting such a young guy inside me.... but damn.... I bet he could three rounds without blinking....
     
    https://rent.men/jackshirk
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from Bostonian in jackshirk - Hung NYC Twink   
    I feel wrong for wanting such a young guy inside me.... but damn.... I bet he could three rounds without blinking....
     
    https://rent.men/jackshirk
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    MidwestCoastal got a reaction from cany10011 in jackshirk - Hung NYC Twink   
    I feel wrong for wanting such a young guy inside me.... but damn.... I bet he could three rounds without blinking....
     
    https://rent.men/jackshirk
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