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Flipping the script on this topic. Here’s my worst provider experience with a client in 2025. He likes to use G in his sessions. He is the reason I will no longer tolerate client drug use.
I saw him for two hour sessions about half a dozen times over several months, once with my provider friend Newell (MuscleGingerXL). He was nice enough. Long sad story about how he got clean and used to work for Goodwill inspiring others to get sober. Now he’s a junkie again, spending every last dime on providers and drugs. He always paid, until he started asking me to wait while he “moved money around” before sending it. Never a good sign.
The next session he asked if he could pay later that day. Red flag city. I should have cut the cord. Eventually he paid me days later after a lot of follow up. He may be sketchy but he always follows through. Until he didn’t.
I agreed to one more session, but I was not going to leave until he paid me. This time he had a visitor over in his bathroom showering…for over an hour. While we were in session. I didn’t care that the visitor was in the next room, but then the client asks if he can have his friend join us. He wanted to watch us play. I agreed. It took a while for him to get the guy out of the bathroom. Weird. Red flag.
Then in walks a guy I can best describe as a scraggly 20 something meth head Jesus. The client watched us play as he requested. I was weirded out because I noticed at some point Jesus had open sores on his body, and not of the stigmata variety. WTF. Not cool.
The client suddenly leaves the room and doesn’t come back after a while. Concerned, I go look for him but he is nowhere to be seen in the house. I ask his roommate the client’s whereabouts to no avail. I go back to the client’s room and chat with Jesus for a while. Jesus goes looking for him, can’t find him either. Time is coming to an end and I have something booked after I have to travel for. So I’m not sure what to do. The client went MIA.
Then the client suddenly emerged, teary eyed. Apparently he was hiding in a shed in his back yard, sobbing, really upset by something I apparently did. WTF. I explained that I had to get going and that he needs to pay me. He ran off and hid in the shed again. WTF. So I decided to leave.
The client later goes on a tirade blaming me for all his emotional distress. I try to calm him down and come back the next day while he is not on drugs to talk. We go through everything and he comes to agree with me that it was on him for taking so much G, and that he shouldn’t have brought a vagrant in off the street and involved him in our session. It was disrespectful to the vagrant and to me to use each of us in that way. But he says that I was into the vagrant (I wasn’t, believe me) and that I ignored him (I didn’t, I kept checking in asking if he was enjoying himself), and that I took advantage of him. After all that he reluctantly agrees to pay me, saying he will send it later that day. I leave.
I wasn’t holding my breath. After a lot of long, histrionic, barely intelligible texts from the client in the following days, the client decided not to pay me after all, and turns downright nasty. I finally concluded that I have to block him, cut my losses, and move on. I know where he lives. I could make his life a living hell, but I don’t have time for games or petty bullshit. And that’s not the kind of person I am.
Fast forward to this month. A provider I know in Las Vegas reached out asking if I knew [client] and I warned the provider to not see the client, that he was mentally unstable and on drugs. The provider decided to see him anyway. Apparently the client has alienated everyone in San Diego, so he is asking for sessions with men hundreds of miles away now. My provider friend tells me the client goes around flashing his gun in his trashy circus circus hotel room and is taking more drugs. Seriously unsafe, and unhinged. Eventually the client pays *part* of what he owes the provider, but it was with money he asked to borrow from a friend.
So sad. No more seeing clients who use. It’s unsafe, unreliable, and unnecessary.
You guys may have flaky provider experiences at times, but man, some of us providers really go through the wringer with these sketchy clients. All the more reason so many of us are guarded, jaded, and unwilling to put up with clients displaying any hint of red flag behavior. We have to protect ourselves.

Take it up with the California Board of Sex Workers.  State your side and show the ad, and see if the State will force the sex worker to be more explicit in his advertisements and contracts going forward.

Seems you got the boyfriend right before you break up experience.   You just did complain by the way, so that answer is yes.  It really does not help.  Recommend you be more direct in the future before and during the experience.  .  

Hi all, I've been seeing Masseurs here in LA for many years, and kept notes on the good, the bad, and the ugly.   I've never posted my reviews to provide some secrecy but after paying $250 for an absolutely awful therapeutic massage in LA last week I'm done protecting providers.
So let me ask y'all: should I post my notes?  I've seen so many of them here in LA and by and large I must say the overall quality is just average here.  There a few standouts who really understand service but many do not.
I'm feeling now that if you suck at your job people have a right to know.
Thoughts?
 

https://gayforfans.com/video/greudyn-pena-greu28-and-dean-michaelz-flip-fuck-1763044403/
 

Wow this man is a hunk in person. Very charming personable. The massage itself was deep tissues and sensual. You can feel the passion in his work. No extras but the massage experience itself was worth it! 

I experienced the quick RM message as well, and took the plunge. Definitely on the steep rate side, but I was fine with it. Great on massage technique, great on extras. Provides service in own comfortable apartment. No midstream upsell here. I think maybe the upfront rates reflect no more upselling? Anyway, I made a repeat visit and probably would again.

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1501381/colt-spence-gets-massage-from-sexy-stud-musclefoxxx-then-fucks-him-hard/
Does anyone know where I can find the entire video?  

I actually went ahead and took the plunge. He’s a very friendly guy. Appears to be doing this as a side hustle to his main career. He’s tall, handsome, and made em feel comfortable.
 
The massage was decent, but not spectacular, though it did eventually start to relax me. He was in his underwear for most of the massage, then stripped down for the end. He’s hot and allows mutual touch, but there was a bit mechanical. He gave off very “straight dude” vibes, so likely he’s just comfortable in his own skin and is massaging guys sensually for some extra cash. 
 
I won’t be opposed to seeing him again, but I wouldn’t rush back. 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1198596/clean-me/
 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1422567/sayuncle-allstars-april-spotlight-jack-waters-is-the-hunk-of-the-month-w-kyle-michaels/
 

https://gayforfans.com/video/bruce-jones-brucejones-and-marbys-negretti-callmemrkent-flip-fuck/

https://xhamster.com/videos/black-masseuse-massages-twinks-stretched-butthole-xhmWdw7#
 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1566197/kyle-and-buddy-massage-third-guy/
 

who is the masseur? 

Reached out to him a while back and here are his tiers:
Therapeutic - $180/60min.
Essential - $250/60min. Fully clothed, no MT, HE offered. 
Upgrade - $350/60min. Fully nude, no MT, HE offered. So you’re paying $100 to see the goods during the HE, but don’t get to touch. I passed real fast. 

Found this one this morning, haven't seen this take on massage before https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=66b638005a79d

Massage is not good. Extras are mechanical. Seems ill at ease most of the meeting. Def get the impression this is a “no other choice and not a fan” situation vs “choosing more/faster money instead” situation.

He’s a new masseur, very sexy, great body and very handsome. A bit too much oil and but I got a full hour and he will get better with more practice. 

I met up with him this weekend and would recommend. Very good energy and vibe with a nice heated table. Happy to share more in private. 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1561410/eldemassage-16/
 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1560869/handsome-hairy-straight-stud-is-giving-a-hot-m2m-massage/
 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1559764/a-fuck-massage/
 

For those interested, I saw Omar and it was a good experience but it wasn't exactly the experience I was looking for. When I set up the massage I asked if he was comfortable with mutual touch and us both being nude, which he agreed to but that didn't happen. He wore nothing but grey shorts (he's in great shape by the way) but kept them on and the way he positioned his body during the massage he kept a bit of distance from his body and mine so mutual touch really would not have been possible without me creepily reaching for him and I wasn't gonna be that guy. On the plus side, the massage was solid, he knows what he's doing, he definitely got some kinks out. So if you want some nice eye candy I'd definitely book with him. I'm just unclear about where he stands with extras. At the end of the day the massage felt very "professional." Nice guy though.

I had a massage from Dan a few weeks ago and recommend. His place is clean, warm and inviting. I would give the massage a B and it was definitely more relaxing than therapeutic, but very enjoyable nonetheless. He is very sexy, nude from the start and ample MT. I discussed an extra with him in advance, which he agreed to, and I left after we were both happy. 
 
Fun side note, when he gave me his address in Hollywood, it did not ring any bells. I have lived in LA most of my life so I had heard the street name before. When I arrived, I realized it was the same building that my super crazy ex moved in to after we broke up, this was over 10 years ago. I was thinking to myself, there’s no way it’s the same apartment, but lo and behold, of all of the apartments in Los Angeles, it was! I had a good chuckle to myself and then took my clothes off and got on the table lol.