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I've met him. He's real. His dick pics are pretty accurate IMO. He is busy though. He is a local DJ at gay bars and those take priority than any meetings with clients. He also travels out of town quite a lot too. But if you can meet up with him. it's a good experience.

Thanks for the rec. Sadly he's out of town when I am in town. But otherwise I definitely would be interested.

Any other hot SF guys I should check out?

I had my eye on Luke so thank you. I'll see if he's available.

I'm going on a little trip to San Francisco for the July 4th weekend and would love to meet with a couple of hot, raunchy guys while there. I've long enjoyed Andy Arcade's porn and think I'd have a hot time with him. Curious if anyone has met up with him. https://rent.men/AndyArcade Also any other recs for a hot, raunchy vers tops in the SF area. Love a guy that has kind of a hot setup with slings or restraints as I'm getting more into that as a bottom. Not typically interested in vers/bottom as I can usually get that on my own on the apps. A vers top is hot though as I do enjoy flipping. Thanks all.

Unfortunately I find your experience to be quite common these days. The reality is a lot of guys are doing this more on the side and they may only take a couple clients a month at most. If you catch them at the right time it can work well but it's more and more common to see. I think it's good to very specific on time and if they don't text you back quickly move on to another guy.

More of a question for the admins, but honestly I think part of it was that really there were only a few escorts that consistently answered any questions or participated much. I think this thread is better as it gives more pespectives on the hobby.

I do think the intention to change it to "Questions about Hiring" from "Ask an Escort" is to make it broader than simply asking escorts questions. I do think that it is (and should be) be clients asking other clients/escorts about the hobby itself. I personally like the change as previously people would sometimes get upset if a non-escort gave their perspective on a question even when that perspective was valuable to the conversation. Less shooting the messanger and more abou the message, which I appreciate.

I personally have only had good experiences with him, but multiple people have gone after @Jarrod_Uncut on here even though he is an active participant in discussions, sharing his (sometimes controversial) opinions as an escort. I really don't see any kind of censorship or behind-the-scenes deals or anything like that from CoM. If anything, I think they try to really be fair and have a lot of integrity. I am talking about the forums of course as there isn't really a "review site" yet. I have put up a couple of profiles of a few guys but I wasn't allowed to do reviews when I did unless something has changed.

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Welcome to CoM and congrats on one year! Definitely a hot profile and sound like you got a good head on your shoulders. Best of success!

As a client, I don't mind paying upfront as I meet the client. It's more on him if he will provide a great service or not. If not, then I know not to ever rehire him. In my experience, I've had great times paying upfront and mediocre times. It didn't really change anything.

There's quite a few for me and unfortunately I think another one pretty soon. I live in Denver and its such a transitory city that a lot of guys just seem to only live here for a couple years before they move away. The handsome, chill and fun Wesley Steele is about to move back to Atlanta (where he is from originally) so you GA men, definitely reach out to him as he's a great guy. But there are many others: SexyMexican, MuscleAlex, GianniLegno (still active but no longer travels down to Denver much) and a few others.

I do agree with this. Definitely have had some encounters with guys that I think could be semi-homeless. There definitely are some drug users out there. I don't think is new but it is important to be careful. Had one guy hit me up when I was out of town and he tried to convince me to Venmo him for a "future visit." I declined of course and when I got back into town, his RM profile and SM had him in LA. He apparently moved there to "couch surf" with a friend after being evicted from his spot in Denver. There always has been a significant number of escorts (perhaps even most) who do this job because it's one of the few ways to make quick and relatively easy money when there otherwise aren't many other opportunities. It's one oef the few ways that these recent Venezuelan and Colombian guys can make good money. Absolutely nothing wrong in hiring these guys and many of them can provide a wonderful experience. But it's always a great idea to be careful with anyone that you hire as we have no idea what is going on in their life and yeah in some ways you have to be prepared for shit like, "What if this escort has a medical emergency while with me." If you cannot, you probably shouldn't hire at all.

If he looked closer to this guy, I'd be much more interested.

Never a bad idea to assess where any emergency exits are in a venue, especially if you are unfamiliar with it.

Nah. We just are so used to over-exageratted sizes that we forget that a 7" dick is actually pretty rare. Probably only about 5% or even fewer men have a 7+" dick. (18cm is about 7 inches for conversion). Obviously escorts and porn stars are in that top 5% for a reason. But truly the vast majority of guys are more in th 5-6" range.

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This guy in particular is a total vers. Since I am as well, I find it incredibly hot. We definitely have a good time. :)s

There is height discrimination. Just met a short king who says that he travelled across town to an outcall only to be rejected at the door by the client because was short. He accurately has 5'7" on his profile and he's hot AF so their loss.

"Boyfriend experience" is a very subjective term. Almost best to look inward and think about what it means to you and what your expecations are for a "boyfriend experience." I think most halfway decent escorts can meet them if they understand what you are looking for.

I don't go there very often but last time I was there the DJ said there was an area in the back for "lap dances" and that you talked to him to book them. Have no idea how private it is but I saw a couple guys go back there. I didn't notice any lap dances on stage but there were some in the bar area in front of everyone. They felt more "impromptu" and just based on guys tipping the dancers more than it being a planned thing. One of my friends got a short (like 30 seconds-1 minute) lap dance at the bar just by giving the guy a $20. I felt bad because I had no cash. I think the should put a Venmo QR on their speedos 😆.

Boyztown in Denver does lap dances in some semi-private area. I have never done one myself so don't know all the details or how private it actually is. Maybe I'll have to check it out for research. Several local escorts dance there.

I think "regular" is pretty subjective and might even depend on client vs escort. Like as a client, I honestly would consider a "regular" to be anyone I see multiple times a year. That might only be 3-4 times a year. But to the escort that could be just an occasional client. Unfortunately I don't really have the budget to hire multiple times in a month and never would get a "regular" that I meet even monthly. But I have built a good rapport with several guys and definitely feel like we are somewhat "regulars" to each other. I definitely think about them if/when I am considering a bigger hire.

I don't think it's a problem to contact an escort/masseur who takes his ads down. Worse case scenario, he just tells you that he's no longer providing services. Best case, he has an active client base, which includes you, and of course he'd love to set up a new appointment.