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He was superb!!! Thanks guys for the recommendation 

He was amazing. What an incredible experience. You guys were not lying. Wow! 

I like when i able to rim the hot massaseur😛

Bozo was in Toronto last weekend.
Happy to report that the city has closed off Church Street from Alexander to Wellesley to vehicular traffic for the summer. It's pedestrian-only, similar to Rue Ste. Catherine in Montreal.  Most of the restaurants and bars in the gay village have set up seated outdoor patios in front of their establishments. It's a nice touch. 
The city had recently completed a very busy 2-3 weeks of heavy tourism.  Gay Pride/World Cup soccer/Canada Day/July 4th weekends saw many gay visitors descend on Toronto.  
Since Bozo's last visit, most of the older, out-of-shape Cock Bar dancers have been put out to pasture, and replaced by younger, more attractive guys. As Bozo has always said about Cock Bar, all you need to do is find one or two boys that you like, and because the lap dance area is, by far, the best in North America, you can have a lot of fun in the back 😍. And for an American tourist, getting $1.40 Canadian for $1.00 US makes it an even more satisfying experience .
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I’m with you.  For me the uncertainty itself is erotic.  When I get the full monty, it’s a pleasant surprise.

Maybe I'm in the minority, but I don't go into a massage session with any intention of having sex, even if it's listed as sensual. For me, the massage is the most important thing and I don't wish to sacrifice the quality of a good massage for the possibility of having sex.
I typically book therapeutic over sensual, but will opt for sensual if that means the masseur is also naked. I'm a bit of a nudist, so it's always nice when a masseur will also go naked during a sensual massage session. But getting a sensual massage or us both being naked doesn't mean sex. For me, being naked together is what makes the massage sensual and sensual does not need to end with anyone getting off. I've found having a masseur jerk me off to be a bit awkward and, honestly, I feel I can do a better job of that on my own.

Sure, skin on skin contact, or when a masseur's hand (or other body part) briefly glides across your balls/ass/dick is generally exciting and creates anticipation...but that can also ruin the moment for me, which should be focusing on the massage itself. 

I also understand that masseurs have different interpretations of what's involved with sensual massage or what should be classified as erotic. What I described above may sometimes be considered more erotic (though, I see an erotic massage as the gateway towards more sexual activities), so I may opt to book the erotic if that means the masseur will be naked too - however, I will make it clear up front what my expectations are, just so we're both on the same page. 

I laugh the whole way thru on roller coasters - something about thrill rides.
The last time that response was triggered during sex, my provider was in control of a large insertable that I had brought, and the same laughing fit got me to the bottom of Splash Mountain! 💦

Seems like a lot more of the bad and ugly than the good 
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This forum could be a real asset to providers.  Being newer to RM, I only have 500 characters to communicate who I am and what I offer.  This offers a chance to communicate more thoughtfully and give guys on the other side of this industry a more complete view of who I am. 
But this can be a treacherous place for providers!  Many of us have scaled back participation for that reason. 
There's some really dominant toxic voices.  There's a loud peanut gallery that seems to make a hobby of comments ranging from critical to derogatory about providers they've never met or hired.  ("Needs to hit the gym," "Terrible tattoos," "Too girlie!" "Looks older than he lists,"  "PNP means he's a junkie!" "Smoker!")  There's a strong risk of slander, against which it's all but impossible to defend yourself.  (I've watched it happen to providers I know well and trust!)  And there's some known scammers - about whom we all warn each other - regularly contributing as though they're legitimate clients.  
If there were more to be gained here for us to participate, it would probably draw more of us back.  A sub-forum to promote ourselves?  Would anyone actually take advantage?  Maybe not. 
Worth noting: Every client I've met who uses this site - contributor or lurker - has been a top notch guy, just doing their research a bit more thoroughly.  So the issue really does just seem to be the loudest most toxic voices.  

But being honest I love mens +50 they are so sexy. I am a daddy’s boy.

Correct.
There is no shame in what he does for a living. He is openly bisexual and busy providing for his family while bringing joy to his customer's day. What could be more positive and healthy ? 
Anyone who sees it otherwise is dragging their own fucked up insecurities to the table.

Like you, I’m a comparison shopper whenever I purchase anything… important to do the research to get the best deal. I’ve used Booking.com for travel (never had any issues with them) but I always check with the hotel website as well because they sometimes have good offers during low season travel. 

Idk if my butt is the best one.. But everyone say it is amazing. 

I'm pretty secretive. I never host and use a burner number. I do talk about travel and other life experiences. 

I think you’d be surprised how many of us - regular old Rent Men escorts - are actually well educated, with real degrees from reputable higher education institutions.  Some of us wear suits well and move comfortably among sophisticated crowds, even without  being on the arm of a generous gentleman.  Many of us even read books! 
I think you have more options for this than you may realize.  I can easily name a handful of escorts I know in person who fit this description.  Including myself!  😏 
Happy hunting!  I’m confident the guy you’re looking for is out there. 

About a decade or so ago I joined this massage exchange group…
https://www.massageexchange.com   Free Massage : Therapeutic Massage : Sensual Massage MassageExchange.com members meet to share free bodywork sessions. Money never changes hands - members are forbidden from charging other members. Anyway I only ever exchanged a couple of times. Once was when I was traveling to London and had some time to kill between meetings. I met up with a tall handsome black man in business attire and had an afternoon exchange session at his hotel. Before going to his room we had a drink in the lobby bar to get to know each other a little bit as we only had a couple online chats… let me just say that it was one of the best sessions I ever had. I have no idea what the website would be like now.

About a decade or so ago I joined this massage exchange group…
https://www.massageexchange.com   Free Massage : Therapeutic Massage : Sensual Massage MassageExchange.com members meet to share free bodywork sessions. Money never changes hands - members are forbidden from charging other members. Anyway I only ever exchanged a couple of times. Once was when I was traveling to London and had some time to kill between meetings. I met up with a tall handsome black man in business attire and had an afternoon exchange session at his hotel. Before going to his room we had a drink in the lobby bar to get to know each other a little bit as we only had a couple online chats… let me just say that it was one of the best sessions I ever had. I have no idea what the website would be like now.

Adirondack chairs overlooking my lake in the Gatineau hills north of Ottawa in 1990.

I love it!!! Sit on my face. 🤪

I'm absolutely more likely to engage a provider 40+ 
If desperate, 35 is the absolute youngest. I like men, not boys. There are any number of reasons - the same that I do not seek social relationships with young gay men. Communication styles demand a learning curve from both of us. 
I loved having a long career working alongside performers (and other artists) aged 14- 90, and will gladly hang out with my niece and nephews 20-30's.
On my dime, it's adults only. 
 
 
 

I don't think anybody has made any assumptions. You asked, and people have answered. And surprisingly there seems to be a common consensus. But neither being less, same or more selective is neither good nor bad. These are all personal choices. It was a very good question to ask. It's given me and probably others food for thought. I've had to reflect back on a lifetime of gay sex and hiring since my first hire was just days after turning 19! Nobody is judging here I don't think. I'm appreciating everybody's feedback. 

You spelled cock wrong. 

So here’s how Canada looked today at the brunch I attended. Unfortunately no champagne but lots of wine and great food. Nice company too. We all had a good time. 

I had another look at Booking.coms rates today since they sent me a follow up email after I didn’t go through with booking my stay with them. I had made a mistake and their rates weren’t twice those the hotel offered but they were $100 for the 2 nights. 
 
So I’m glad I booked directly with the hotel and got a better room. And the $100 saving will pay for the gas to get to Toronto. Lol

Before I moved to the Midwest, I was a frequent client of Arbus (between 2015-17).  Although he was just starting out back then, he had an excellent massage technique with sensual elements incorporated. Not to mention, he’s a lovely man.