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    Chadsford reacted to big dale in Are You Getting Massages?   
    While the science is changing rapidly and we are learning more every day, these facts are not disputable based on what we know today:
    1. You can pick this thing up and not know for 14 days that you have it.
    2. During that 14 day period you can spread it.
    3. The virus seems to throw different symptoms in different people and outcomes vary wildly. You do not need to be elderly or immunocompromised to have a very, very bad outcome.
    4. There is no cure. If you catch it and survive you could still spend life connected to breathing machines, need organ transplants, etc.
     
    If after knowing all that you still think a massage is worth it, you are indicating that you do not care about others. You do not care about the life of the provider. You do not care about the lives of those other people in your life whom you come into contact with. You are selfish.
     
    This is not political. This is science. Zoom out. Think beyond your "needs". Help save lives and end this fucking thing.
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    Chadsford reacted to Capitano in 411 on Luka now on rentmasseur   
    I saw him last year. He is hot. That's the only positive. I can go on and on about the negatives, but I'll just say that he seems to specialize in treating his clients the way one treats an unusually slow and annoying ATM.
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    Chadsford reacted to Dmitri in If you have to pick one masseur for the rest of your life...   
    My chiropractor told me once that Bob Hope got a massage every morning and every evening. He would sign his masseur to a one year contract to provide the service. It was understood that the masseur would only work for him for one year. At the end of the year, he would let the masseur go, and hire another masseur for the next year, and so on. He did this for the rest of his life.I think I would go that route.....
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    Chadsford reacted to tchm in Doped up masseur.   
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/22947/
     
    Watch out for this guy. He was nude with great bod but I think he was high as the proverbial kite when I saw him. He was talking a mile a minute about his travels and how he met this Indian guy in Bali with a giant cock that could hardly fit in his mouth. The massage started well enough. But halfway through, he laid on top of me for a long time making this snorting and groaning sound and felt like he was having an epileptic seizure. I had to ask him if he was alright. He slurred he was ok. At one point while he was rubbing my foot, he fell asleep half lying on the table and he was actually snoring. He pulled on my right arm so hard it actually hurt. He apologized. He tried the extras but I was so weirded out at this point that there was no way it`s gonna happen. I got dressed and got out of there in a hurry. My weirdest experience so far. LOL.
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    Chadsford reacted to big dale in Zeel or Soothe... HE?   
    But at least I am free to jack off and blast a huge cumload in the comfort of my own home right after they leave.
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    Chadsford reacted to PaulM in How to resist the urge to hire a masseur?   
    Jacking off usually works...
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    Chadsford got a reaction from NJ_hiker in 411 on Felix in NYC   
    I did see him.... and was very pleasantly surprised. He’s a total sweetheart with a killer body. Better than decent massage and I left happy. Definitely not cold or off putting as his photos might suggest.
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    Chadsford reacted to Typical in tantric fireside nyc   
    The more clothes the better in this unusual case...
     
    Trust me.
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    Chadsford reacted to Elvis in tantric fireside nyc   
    ditto. spent most of the time showing me his home movies asking if I knew anyone in Hollywood.
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    Chadsford reacted to LookingAround in tantric fireside nyc   
    Agree. Saw him like 10-15 years ago. Wouldn’t stop talking about his “girlfriend” and was very weird. I couldn’t wait to get out of there and the memory still haunts me.
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    Chadsford reacted to + EVdude in tantric fireside nyc   
    Run run run away as fast as you can! Truly one of the weirdest, most uncomfortable “rubs” I’ve ever had. And that was about 16 years ago.
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    Chadsford reacted to + EVdude in tantric fireside nyc   
    Run run run away as fast as you can! Truly one of the weirdest, most uncomfortable “rubs” I’ve ever had. And that was about 16 years ago.
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    Chadsford reacted to BuddyWorker in Joseph (new?) in Washington Heights (New York)   
    Got tired of seeing all these talk so I tried Joseph: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38769/
     
    His massage was great, a blend of swedish and some deep tissue with the use of thumbs and knuckles. It was great especially for someone with tight muscles like myself especially in my back. His apartment is clean and modern despite the overall look of the building itself. He looks much younger than his photos though. He is so sweet and courteous - gave me a bottle of water upon entry and a small chocolate bar as I left. He speaks Spanish primarily and speaks halting English (he's Venezuelan-Israeli). He works with his shirt off. I would definitely go back.
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    Chadsford reacted to + EVdude in Rude Masseur   
    Actually it’s not irrelevant... we’re here to both recommend and help avoid bad actors in the community. It’s one thing that you two didn’t agree to a session, but wholly unacceptable that he kept coming back at you after the fact. No doubt your fellow massage lovers in Atlanta would like knowing who this or any other douche bag is.
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    Chadsford reacted to Jose Anmo in Massage with edging NYC   
    I have seen this Aaron recently, but it wasn't edging. and he was singing and whistling.. super weird lol.
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    Chadsford reacted to wearytraveller in Is the second time around as good as the first?   
    For me the first time is exciting, the second time amazing, the third time good but familiar and by the fourth I'm looking for another first time;)
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    Chadsford reacted to jcarper in MASSAGE TABLE CRASH   
    I would consider it my fault, or the table's fault, but NEVER the client's fault. It should never be the client's fault. If the average cheap student table only has a 300 lbs. limit, I wouldn't get on top of it -- ever. As a provider one should probably upgrade to a more professional table anyways, something that can hold 600+ lbs. Sensual stuff that's what beds are for lol. On amazon there are reviews for 450 lbs. tables where they say things like
     
    "a 250 lb female got on it and the wood cracked. She asked me to give her a minute and when she let me in, she had tears in her eyes and I saw that the wood in the table had broken in half. IN HALF! and no matter what I said about the table being faulty and poorly constructed she blamed herself and her weight. On top of this probably costing me business, my clients self esteem is bruised and battered."
     
    Guy did the right thing though, and exactly what I would do too. Make the client feel not at fault, go on amazon write a bad review of the table, and uhm try to claim a warranty hahahaha if possible. I would not ask a client to pay for it and wouldn't take money even if they offered.
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    Chadsford reacted to Midtownm4m in Hung Masseur NYC   
    Sergey comes very close
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    Chadsford got a reaction from + bencleve29 in 411 on Jeko NYC   
    I’ve seen him a few times. He’s great. Thorough with a great sensual edge. Worth it.
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    Chadsford reacted to Wanderoz in Russian Wrestler in Brooklyn - not a fan   
    Oh, it’s a sign all right: AVOID.
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    Chadsford reacted to + Funguy in Ever since I started getting massages, my views on sex with men have been tainted. Anyone else experience this?   
    Isn't this why most of us hire: we want what we want and we dont want to waste our time being disappointed with who we might meet/pick up/hook up. Skills vary - and please, I do not think I'm God's gift to sex - but even I at 70 have been majorly disappointed with some of the men I've met and been with. As Monarchy says above, many are selfish, limited in skills, too submissive, or just out to get their rocks off. It's just much easier to go to a masseur or escort with whom you have had very satisfying experiences.
     
    Me personally - give me 2 hours with certain providers and I come home a happy man with a shit-eating grin on my face ready to face the world.
     
    I dont think your views are tainted in the least - you are just discovering what others in this community have already discovered, there ARE men out there who sure know what they are doing.
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    Chadsford reacted to Monarchy79 in Ever since I started getting massages, my views on sex with men have been tainted. Anyone else experience this?   
    So fellas, I got my first massage that turned erotic about two years ago. And ever since, I’ve had some ultimate sensorial, mind blowing experiences.
     
    Unfortunately, it has tainted my desire to deal with “regular” men.
    In the past, I’ve found dealing with most men to be pretty mediocre, as either their skills were limited,they were either sexually selfish (or overly submissive and pleasing) or they had a skewed perception of what good sex is... many of my encounters left me disappointed And irritated. However, with these sexy masseurs, who know how to do everything right (in my opinion), I just rather get a sensual/erotic massage than bother with taking the chance of wasting my time with a dude who either has bad skills, hygiene or approaches to seduction.
     
    Has anyone else ever felt this way?
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    Chadsford got a reaction from Edge All Year Long in Where do you find masseurs?   
    I’ve tried both and have been pleasantly surprised two or three times. My favorite massage is when the unexpected happens.
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    Chadsford reacted to WSmith in Where do you find masseurs?   
    Hope this isn't a repeat. With so much changing in the past year or so, I was wondering what folks were using for resources anymore to find masseurs. Masseurfinder and Rentmasseur seem to be the two obvious ones, with possibly some crossover from Rentmen. I used to use Adam4Adam, but am no longer a member and didn't have the best luck on there anyway (though it often was easier to see more revealing pics on there).
     
    No Craigslist. No MassageM4M. Sexymasseur seems to be dying. Malemasseurs died if that was ever a thing really.
     
    Anyone have any luck elsewhere? I'm kinda getting tired of the two main resources. Unless someone new pops up, a lot of what I'm finding are some folks that only want the business if they find you attractive too, or are horrible about responding/setting something up, or what to charge huge rates for a game of hide the sausage (and not in a good way). Seems like a lot of folks are going through the motions. Any suggestions?
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    Chadsford reacted to Jose Anmo in Massage by Will NYC   
    I started following him on Instagram and lost interest very rapidly.
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