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Edit:  Dozens of posts about a person of color walking down the street at 9:30 PM.
When I would see Next Door posts in Dallas- especially Uptown and Highland Park- a lot of those 'suspicious person' posts always had that edge of race involved.
The whole site bummed me out after awhile.  I really don't want to dislike my neighbors.

Not to mention dozens of posts about a man walking down the street at 9:30 PM looking at people.

Dude, you're coming off really poorly here. Yes, a reasonably prompt reply would be good. But since you've said you take a day off for your play, why wait until that day to make the appointment? 
As I've said above, we're going to Montreal in 6 days and I'm already setting things up. We met up with a provider we really enjoy in DC last weekend. I reached out to him when the trip was set to see if he'd be in town as he travels a lot. We kept in touch and had an amazing time. 
I think what providers here are objecting to is you wanting to set a date in a couple of hours and being pissed if the guys you want are busy. And, sure, a couple of guys I reached out to in Montreal haven't responded. That's fine. Either they're booked up and don't need the gig, or they're messy. If it's the latter, I don't want to see them anyway. 

That’s familiar. Reminds me of the time a client told me his dog likes to be in the room during the session. It sat quietly in its basket as I did the session, watching me for what seemed like the whole time. At the end there was some cum on my shin and foot. As I got off the bed to go in the shower the dog quickly left it’s basket and licked at my leg. I suspect the client had trained him…

I agree with Karen … I take my phone everywhere with me so I can instantly reply to clients who might want me in the next 5 minutes. Oh…hold on someone is messaging……brb….
 
Ok that’s him serviced. Where was I? Oh yeah about clients needing 24/7 instant response. So I take my phone….oh another enquiry….brb
 
Sorry about that, he wanted an outcall 20 miles away in half an hour. Just made it in time. Bit tired now as it was a long session. Sorry for delay in completing this post. Next client is in 5 minutes so I’ll be back later….
 
Ok that’s him done. Well actually we swapped places and he massaged me as I was too tired. I fell asleep on the table. I’m sure he had a good time as he’d left his load on my bum alongside payment. How thoughtful. Ok where was I? Oh yes I take my phone everywhere and as I write this I’m sitting on the toilet just responding to a client. I hope I don’t drop it dow *^%<#!’…….   <error> 
 
 

Providers exist to provide!  To hell with any personal business, sleep schedule, time off, travel, gym, work/life balance...  Unless you're directly servicing someone else, when I call, you owe it to my entitlement to answer!
Karen Slater

I usually plan a few days in advance. May not work for everyone, but i prefer to give them the courtesy of some time to respond. 

I’d rather know the truth if it’s that they’re no longer horny or they have cold feet. It’s usually evident when they book the session that they’re booking when horny or are anxious / exploring so when the ‘inevitable’ “sorry I’m sick” message comes through I’m not surprised.
Signs of booking when horny: 
- Lots of pictures sent (of cock or ass). 
- sex chat as part of the booking. 
- requests for all sorts of activities. 
- requests for pics / videos of me (beyond what’s on my website).  
- and the classic “it’s a surprise for my wife” scenario which I always decline anyway before anything gets booked 🙄
Signs of booking when anxious or exploring:
- “I’ve never done this before”. 
- Questions about discretion and sexual health etc (more than what is on my website). 
- detailed explanation about why they’re booking (which is actually quite helpful to know if the session does actually happen).
If any or all of these are present in the booking then I know with 90% accuracy that he will ‘call sick’ on the day (or the day before in response to my day before confirmation message).
I’d rather know the real reason but it makes no difference to how I respond. The horny booker is given one more chance, the anxious booker is asked next time they make contact (if indeed they do try again) to be 100% sure they’re ready and I try to reassure them I’m not going to be horrible!! The anxious/ inexperienced clients are sometimes the most pleasurable to help so I try to be understanding. Everyone starts their journey at some point and I like to be the person they choose to do that with. So they get more latitude about booking. 
 

It's none of my business whether the excuse is true or not.  I'm just grateful for the heads up rather than a no show. 
Kevin Slater

I take people at their word.
It gives me less headaches.
If they’re a lying piece of shit…I’m glad a didn’t meet them.
It’s a Win-Win in my book. 

I wonder how many of these people are new to hiring and get cold feet. We've been hiring for about 3 years now and I still get nervous about meeting a new guy. Now, of course, I realize it's just cold feet and go ahead with it. And with people who we see regularly I'm only even nervous about douching. 

Just piping in to say that there seem to be a lot of assumptions along the way that may not be warranted.  For one, I'm not sure why "no response to a thank you message" means "insulted by the lack of a tip."  For starters, was there any discussion or hint that a tip might be desired or was expected?  You're also assuming that he's seen your message and that, even if he did, he didn't just forget to respond to it.  With one of the providers that I see regularly, I think I once saw him on a Sunday, thanked him by text for coming by, and he responded four or five days later, with a brief note that he'd just spotted the message.

Just piping in to say that there seem to be a lot of assumptions along the way that may not be warranted.  For one, I'm not sure why "no response to a thank you message" means "insulted by the lack of a tip."  For starters, was there any discussion or hint that a tip might be desired or was expected?  You're also assuming that he's seen your message and that, even if he did, he didn't just forget to respond to it.  With one of the providers that I see regularly, I think I once saw him on a Sunday, thanked him by text for coming by, and he responded four or five days later, with a brief note that he'd just spotted the message.

Not much…and this is possibly why: I’m very careful about initiating contact with clients after their session. I assume people want discretion and not to have their provider send an unsolicited message…even if it is to say “thanks for the tip”. Golden rule…never contact clients unless they have contacted you and expect a response. Your guy was probably being discreet for you. 

He is very laid back and very sweet.

I’ve met. PM me if you’d like more info.

I haven't quite done this, but I have tipped in appreciation of a provider providing an excellent time at a lower rate than others and being willing to inconvenience himself for me
I saw an escort in Paris last year and had a fantastic time.  He charges a lower rate if you come to him.  During a more recent trip, I arranged another meeting and, although he wasn't able to host, after I volunteered to host, he said that he said that he would charge the incall rate.  True to form, he arrived and showed me a good time.  I added an extra amount because I knew that I'd have a good time and because he'd volunteered to take the incall rate for an outcall.

I think US insurers are required to cover at no cost to patient.
https://www.statnews.com/2021/09/02/hold-insurers-accountable-for-covering-hiv-prevention-drugs-at-no-cost-to-patients/

I think US insurers are required to cover at no cost to patient.
https://www.statnews.com/2021/09/02/hold-insurers-accountable-for-covering-hiv-prevention-drugs-at-no-cost-to-patients/

Wait really? Here I am inserting it in my ass thinking it’s a suppository..

Interesting! I must be in the 1 to 2% then who prefer clients to book in advance. If you text me for right now it’s always a “no”. I’m not laying around in bed all day waiting for clients to text. I got stuff to do!
A day’s notice is needed usually, or longer if you definitely want me to be available. 

Huh.  I spotted him on the street several years back.  He is stunning.  The same is true for fellow Sean Cody model, Dean.

I haven't quite done this, but I have tipped in appreciation of a provider providing an excellent time at a lower rate than others and being willing to inconvenience himself for me
I saw an escort in Paris last year and had a fantastic time.  He charges a lower rate if you come to him.  During a more recent trip, I arranged another meeting and, although he wasn't able to host, after I volunteered to host, he said that he said that he would charge the incall rate.  True to form, he arrived and showed me a good time.  I added an extra amount because I knew that I'd have a good time and because he'd volunteered to take the incall rate for an outcall.

I haven't quite done this, but I have tipped in appreciation of a provider providing an excellent time at a lower rate than others and being willing to inconvenience himself for me
I saw an escort in Paris last year and had a fantastic time.  He charges a lower rate if you come to him.  During a more recent trip, I arranged another meeting and, although he wasn't able to host, after I volunteered to host, he said that he said that he would charge the incall rate.  True to form, he arrived and showed me a good time.  I added an extra amount because I knew that I'd have a good time and because he'd volunteered to take the incall rate for an outcall.

I appreciate clients booking in advance. I get messages like, ‘I’m coming to London first week of September (this is in say June) are you available for booking?’ and I will say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ if I’m planning to be away then.
The client might leave booking an actual time until nearer the first week in September and that’s fine but it could be that I’m all booked up for the times he wants. That’s just tough luck so I’d always say to book in advance if possible. I’ve no problem with clients booking 2 or 3 months hence. 
I’m always surprised when clients ask for bookings on the day or for say ‘3pm tomorrow’ when they’re planned their visit months in advance yet they’re somehow expecting I’ll be free at the drop of a hat. Then they’re disappointed because I couldn’t see them on their visit, and so am I because I feel sorry for them.
If you definitely want a session then please book it in advance! I’m not just hanging around all day on the chance someone wants to book. 
I must get about 4 or 5 requests a week for ‘are you free in the next hour or so’ and 99% of the time I have to say no. Think about it…if he’s free in the next hour is he likely to be any good? Will he be focused and prepared for you? It’s unlikely. I think the chances of having a good experience are greatest if you have booked in advance.