SirBillybob

Passportindex.org does it by rank. UAE, Luxembourg, Finland, Germany, ... Iraq, Afghanistan.

Passportindex.org does it by rank. UAE, Luxembourg, Finland, Germany, ... Iraq, Afghanistan.

I wonder if sustained holds, in contrast to those in conventional sport aimed at a rapid conclusion, are simply more taxing and depleting for the provider than we might acknowledge. The contract:expand time ratio is different. The energy for a fast choke-out may be less than the energy for a slower, regulated, pre-asphyx hold. The graph may not be straightline. Elapsed time may elevate consumption curvilinearly. Mental energy (the cognitive processing alertness grade assuring safety while satisfying a unique request on which kink arousal is predicated) also competes for the same effort pool as physical energy. This is empirically proven, that the components of expenditure trend to zero-sum. Another Example ... Do alternate-side bilateral standing dumbbell bicep curls at a set weight with arbitrary set reps (left, right, left ... ). Then when rested or at the same baseline energy pool, do unilateral curls, flexing and releasing the same number of reps one side while holding the opposite arm flexed at 90 degrees holding the same weight stationary, then change sides and do the same. Identical weight and number of reps for each arm in the two models, but a different experience of strain and energy expenditure. And not the same net work as the first sequence. The non-rep arm is stationary for a time at the mid- point juncture of movement, while not sharing the same work simultaneously. Also requires more mental attention. The rep work sustain, plus the added mental energy to attentively hold a second physical task stationary perpendicularly, compete differently for available resources compared to the first sequence. My trainer used to have me do bosu-ball push-ups for a duration versus holding a mid-range position. Naturally my body started involuntary trembling far sooner in the latter.

PS: Do the ad platforms prohibit your inclusion of a justforfans handle in your basic ad? Or can you privately send inquirers same, setting a low pricepoint? I believe it is easy for mongers to confine purchase to one month for each individual provider. How pimpy is justforfans in their cut? How viable might it be to level out profit?

Are not all ad platforms postmodern promotional pimps, grinning never smiling? Getting as much cut as possible? Holding registered mongers' personal details? Distancing from deal fallthroughs and offsetting providers' drought by casting the net to entice new added inventory? Ensuring enough pimp role sustainability, indirectly or directly penalizing workers, to adapt to profit ebb and flow? Is pimping not the second oldest profession, with solidly anchored unalterable dynamics? [baby you know I love you, use you, and my job is to convince you I am the only choice.] I am not miserly when I hire, and maybe pimps are sometimes necessary evil to that end (I spring for purchase via ad platforms less than 1% of trade), but no platform pimp will see a red cent from me. If that spills over punitively, sorry about that, but I cannot mitigate entrenched systemic ills and I waive ownership for flaky consumer wavering. I realize there are very limited options, but if you want to have a broker with a conscience like in some other professions, don't have a MacDaddy helping to push your meat. Perhaps SESTA, certainly misguided overall, conceptually got it a teeny bit right and has underpinned the heft of related legislation with this inarguable reality.

I spent lunch and a full Sunday afternoon in Basel. It is a sin to visit Zürich and not try to sidetrip by 70 minutes train and see most of the main sights by foot.

Ha ... I had better put a fire under it. In the blink of an eye dinner will be a 16:30 o'clock affair with evening liquids restricted due to overnight incontinence.

One might base decisions on a number of factors. How much douchebag politicians can say with impunity, pandering to their base and getting press. Remember that Bolsonaro and Rio mayor Crivella are generally thumbs down on any diversity and are happy to deflect from the realities of actually serious out-of-control social problems. Re: orientation and transgender, 15% of the general population lacks acceptance for a defined 10% of the general population. This performance record still outranks American attitudes in favour of LGBTQ Preponderance of violent hate crimes committed on LGBTQ nationals. Terrible performance record, as is the alarming overall national homicide rate. Decriminalization of sodomy. Done and dusted. Not so in some other countries. Professional regulatory licensing bodies. They have a very dim and intolerant view of pathologizing sexual diversity, and shit-for-brain therapists are shunned. Socioeconomic status of the homosexual minority. More represented in the top tiers of wealth, consumer privilege, and quality of life compared to hetero. Societal and legal advances since 1980 favouring acceptance and rights protection. Less than Europe, a little less than Canada and Australia, on par with Latin America, better than USA. How much a country is already stereotyped as a gay tourism mecca. Brazil in top 10? Top 3? Likely gets under the skin of local evangelicalism, homonegative fundamentalism. The perception of gay-magnetizing likely amplified by absolute numbers outside of statistical reality, for example breadth of Pride attendance, as well as the relaxation of self-presentation towards fluidity in all forms of identity during Carnaval madness. How much a country wants to inflate overall tourism and taking measures for same. Muchly. How much vitriolic hatred and disapproval that is front of mind within the individual and directed to select soccer players and teams compared to other minorities. What repeat visitors say ... Personally, I am not gifted with foreign language skills but that does not pose an impediment for me when in Brazil. I worry most, like anyone there, about being robbed, though I have not been targetted over many trips. As a gay sex tourist, being defined as "other" by straight trade who are able to suspend their anxiety and differentiate their MSM behaviour as more performative than self-defining viz orientation, actually works out fairly well. The complex balance of easy cash access and financial expediency, as well as the capacity they possess to distance their motives from mine because of the very compartmentalization of orientation that otherwise potentially yields discrimination paradoxically works for some of us. To equalize socioeconomic status they draw selectively on the collective psyche to help create a narrative that mitigates the negative implications involved in prostituting themselves. It is a complex phenomenon to explain, but I think that the ability to reconcile commercial sex with conventional heterosexual roles is somewhat more uniquely advanced for these men. Muscle worship is a foreign concept; it is a point of pride to top johns skillfully and impressively. Simply put, my impression is that gay-for-pay there is more easily integrated into what is occupationally viable. Mind you, it may be absolute numbers, as in other examples. A vast population may statistically better sustain the existence of a miniscule minority that nevertheless exceeds the actual inventory of other destinations. Not to mention that a small proportion of men can sustain physiological arousal out of synch with subjective sexual cue preference. The appeal of travel to a densely populated place, with sex trade infrastructure capturing the trickle-down effects of variables supporting sex play experiences in line with my self-serving fantasies, is always going to far override the transient mouthing off of a temporarily tenured blowhard.

Just Gorgeous. The contact number is cellular. He is showing up on my Whatsapp contacts.

Good insight, to be sure, Viconte. The question about their travel plans is seduction gold. Maybe I should soften my comment on their cloned posts... "I loved the initial release, and now the Netflix, Prime, and DVD versions have me hooked. Keep it up. How can I get your autograph?" Too much on the nose? ?

In many cases their phone number, once in my smartphone contacts, seems to add them to FB and IG suggested follow-worthies. ------ One issue that I have is that many hot guys post the same photos scattered throughout the collection, and the photo timeframe actually gets distorted unless you scroll to its initial presentation. Now I realize that perhaps they do not remove the previous post after reposting it because it would eliminate the earlier comments ... is that the case? Sometimes it is framed as a "throwback", but otherwise what is the point? It just seems to be attention-seeking and obsessional. For me, it lowers their stock value. I am tempted to comment: "Yeah, looks identical to the previous [x] number of occasions you posted this pic. How many validation comments will satisfy the bottomless pit of your need for admiration? Do you suffer from narcissism or early onset dementia?"

People always tell the OP he is missing out by not getting with a sex worker, because he is so hot. My only surprise is that he did not qualify always and hot with "literally". Imagine the poor guy getting routinely bombarded with this message. Friends, family, other hot bedmates, colleagues, tradespeople, the local barkeep, barista, gym buddies, etc etc, spontaneously asserting: "U r hot and desirable; get thee to a queer brothel and pony up some cash for an escort!" Upon entering from Brazil, the border patrol agent sizing him up ... "bae, you are fuckin' smokin' and our local escorts will think it is such a waste that you are giving up that sweet ass without paying!" It must chip away at his sense of objective reality so that he believes it to be one of the most pressing life goals to be met. Furthermore, trapped into this agenda with nary a clue as to how to procure, notwithstanding having tripped into a related forum with thousands of playbook cues.

Apart from the statistical reality of personality morbidity and the implications of displeasing a provider that the client can move on from (contextual consideration-sorting), sexual excitation situations typically involve impulsive, less deliberative filters on behavioural choices. In heat in the heat of the moment, the elevated possibility of disinhibition. Failing to apply a condom where in this case the prophylactic is a metaphor for more thoughtful cognitive processing. The outcome risk not pregnancy or STI, in analogous terms, but a poor impression of character. Horny clients, like many guys, are using more intuitive fast brain functions, dodging conventionally valued social comportment, consequences be comparatively damned, whereas the provider is drawing on more advanced sophisticated slow brain processes (slow not meaning dumb). I think this has been described as the little head governing the big head. Sex is transient mental deficiency. Treat it with release or a bucket of ice water. Sure, some folks are simply bat-crap cray-cray, but I would not judge personality according to a loaded and thematically circumscribed commercial situation where the interplay of physiology and rational thought can be so off kilter. If ANY of my family and social circle knew what I got up to as a hirer, even though I am financially very solvent, I would be deemed to be perverted and wasteful, sick, damaged, worthy of a structured intervention. It would eclipse most salutary aspects of their view of me. Similarly, I am only human and quick to judge behaviour out of the (my) ordinary. And, for me, my choices about engaging trade make perfect sense, mainly because they are mine. Providers should perhaps hope that clients are just disturbed enough, viz suspending rational thought, to capitulate to purchasing fleeting pleasure, yet fall short of the thresholds of psychopathology that would make the profession untenable.

In clinical parlance, the person has to meet an expansive list of criteria rigorously assessed by a registered pro in order to be diagnosed with Anti-social Personality Disorder, under which the more outdated 'sociopathy' is loosely subsumed. There is considerable consensus that there is little that can be effectively done to mitigate the disorder. As such, the diagnosis pretty much stands permanently. In layperson settings, someone termed personality disordered has typically done an objectionable, unlikeable, disagreeable thing to the assessor in order to earn the label. The "diagnosis" pretty much stands permanently, the difference being that the record is not professionally sealed disclosure-wise.

It has come to my attention that Sauna Sunnyday across the river from Basel's main art museum may be a place, like Paragonya in Zürich, where one might hire for play. First, two online escorts, one a Czech muscle dude mentioned previously by other posters, gives it as a location for an upcoming Basel visit timeframe. Second, Spartacus Sauna Guide mentions Massage by Porn Stars in its bullet points in the description. Third, the club's photoset depicts at least one picture of an older average looking client flirting with a young gorgeous built stud. Thoughts?

The math, then, is the same proportion of escorts and clients alike are full-blown sociopathic at the epidemiological prevalence rate. Sub-sociopathic patterns slightly differ ... (Some) Escorts may alter or embellish facts to their advantage as a natural and understandable component of performative labour. (Some) Clients may alter truth or reality more specifically within the context of hiring, more so than in daily life, as there is implicit latitude in a substantially priced role-play scenario, possibly leading to the perceived fallacy that clients as a whole may be somewhat over-representative of pathology compared to the general population. This is an interesting thread. And I admit I have been made. Upon reflection, I qualify as situationally sub-sociopathic. In other-words, the entire enterprise is benignly crazy-making. Thank god for money and money shots.

Access to private gallery means premium membership, I presume? Does that mean the provider can detect each lurker's footprint and has a way to contact lurkers in order to field interest in an appointment?

LMAO ... my favourite repeat escort from the time period that movie was made over 10 years ago was an extra in it, along with a few of his gym friends!

On Rentmen it seems to be 200 outcall ... using Balder_Salazar handle. One review is in São Paulo where I doubt the fee in reais was greater than 50-60 GBP. Cute though. Guys just as hot in escort saunas there are 25-30 pounds.

Not having something because it does not exist or you are not aware of its potential existence is far easier than having something but then losing it. A potential monger reaching out to your services may create the illusion of you aready having something of value in that exchange, that is, a meaningful slice of the financial gain that your work is about. Game theory, experience theory, and decision theory all come in to this. It seems that you are labouring extremely hard to avoid losing something, at the client's window-shopping level, as if that were similar to having fee payment denied or stolen from you after the work is done. In other words, both you and the equivocating, vacillating, inquiring, 'flaky' client are playing not to lose something of perceived value, as if those utilities were identical. The objective $ is identical but its position is different. Compared to how other businesses run, it is somewhat astonishing and impressive how much time CSWs invest in client recruitment dynamics at a time-succubus on-call or personal level. From hours on a street corner or biding time in a brothel (more historical examples) to shitloads of written communication with mongers. Once a monger reaches out, his anxiety about losing something of value that he already possesses often escalates and overrides the anticipation of winning a pleasurable experience that is commensurate with the accompanying financial loss. Providers often get caught up in this. Be organized. You must know by now all of the collective monger questions. Do up a fact sheet, manual, or Q&A format info guide to expeditiously shoot off to an inquiring monger. This written summary will be longer than your ad and require more of the monger's attention span. It will not alleviate his stop-loss anxiety and will lack the personal touch and the possible thrill for him of a free window-shopping exchange. However, let it go and do not engage further with repetition. This may help amplify his opposing anxiety about not winning a pleasurable experience. He will have all of the info you are willng to provide and he alone will grapple with the worry of loss. Mirroring/replicating his loss anxiety will not add one iota of gain to the likelihood of scoring a paid booking. You may decide on an arbitrary set of images to append to the written guide. Consider learning something more about how memory and actual experience impact theoretically on a monger's future decisions about hiring. This will require research on your part. If you can subtly reference these aspects in your summary manual, that is, identify clients' struggles with stop-loss play choices, it may give you an edge. Adding the utility of empathy to the utilities of money and orgasm. In my non-entertainment business prior to retirement, the above strategies freed up my time. It was impossible to assess its impact on client recruitment volume but it alleviated the anxiety about spending valuable non-compensated time or psychological energy closing the tiresome deal.

Porn or escort guys cuz you want to communicate, ArVa? Or general eye candy not in sex entertainment, soley for your viewing pleasure? Any reference group preferences? For example, I tend to follow Latin Amer fitness guys who actually reside south of the Mexico/Guatemala border. I try to keep it to a 100 max at a time. They usually have tens of thousands followers and do not follow me back. My account, however, is private because it is pretty obvious that I go for gogo men, strippers, etc who might be willing to tap into my capacitative wallet. I have a generic IG account but still worry that family/friends will "trip into" the private account thru other social media entry points. I have personal images in the private account because if I reach out for flirting purposes I want the target to see my age, looks, and shape status. Still working on how to present myself. I travel south and can meet up. I am older >60, solvent, and pay for play. Maybe I should remove my own images from the worship and sex-focused account so that there is no verification that it is me, make the account public, and just send personal pics via flirty IG message option to guys in sexy stage entertainment, etc ... do they do private shows, etc?

It seems that currently the stripper scene in CDMX is very meagre, sadly, given the city's size, and no setup for private dances within the venue. I did have some private at either Botas or BB two years ago, the one on Niza, east border Zona Rosa, cannot remember which of these two now extinct clubs. But it was complicated and the house was very involved in wanting a cut. I would visit regularly and throw wads of cash around if there were clubs with hot muscular gogo guys available in private cubicles. In contrast, there is a system for private dances in Puerto Vallarta ... I have experienced at Wet but did not connect with any at Anthropology. I think it was 500 pesos for 15-20 minutes, timed by the clock, not per song. Private dances are not synched with stage show song tracks like in Toronto/Montreal. For fun, check out the Mexican troupe called Badboystour, formerly Zuppaboys, eg on Instagram, a sort of Latino Magic Mike Revue. I don't know if they they get a lot of bookings. If you have pots of money to burn, hahaha. One of them has an interesting story line, of which some of you may be aware.

Alejo/Hamptonn ... new neck tattoo about a month ago. I know him from Insta, major player competitor South Amer, last contest 2 months ago. Interestingly, his Insta first name and contest name are not the same, but it is definitely the same guy, because his placement rank, related Insta content, and official contest pics all line up. He has since packed on some off-season bulk. Freakin' hot. JO material. When I go to Colombia I will see if he is available (his current plans NYC and Dallas). Good to know his status here because he also may have buddies in Colombia who 'get down' for worship.

I am not too familiar because my gym is in my building, for owners. But I would think any in or near the village are populated by gay men. Or maybe the monthly 'zine Fugues has some ads ... I read the paper version but it is also online. The chain Econofitness is big here. ProGym for IFBB, Musclemania, etc, eye candy, and if you don't mind the possibility of feeling inferior, but not cruising. In the east end but walkable to the Metro stn there.

I live in Montreal. Campus, and to some extent Stock, "crashed" some 12 years ago when dance prices doubled from $10 to 20 per song and a concomitant stock market correction further thinned the crowds. Otherwise, I think both are consistent, with mild ups and downs. Perhaps infrequent attenders have a different comparison basis if hitting 'up' versus 'down' days on extensively spread-out visits. Actually, I find that Campus has declined a little more the past few years and I am much more inclined to take a private at Stock.