SirBillybob

Just Gorgeous. The contact number is cellular. He is showing up on my Whatsapp contacts.

Good insight, to be sure, Viconte. The question about their travel plans is seduction gold. Maybe I should soften my comment on their cloned posts... "I loved the initial release, and now the Netflix, Prime, and DVD versions have me hooked. Keep it up. How can I get your autograph?" Too much on the nose? ?

In many cases their phone number, once in my smartphone contacts, seems to add them to FB and IG suggested follow-worthies. ------ One issue that I have is that many hot guys post the same photos scattered throughout the collection, and the photo timeframe actually gets distorted unless you scroll to its initial presentation. Now I realize that perhaps they do not remove the previous post after reposting it because it would eliminate the earlier comments ... is that the case? Sometimes it is framed as a "throwback", but otherwise what is the point? It just seems to be attention-seeking and obsessional. For me, it lowers their stock value. I am tempted to comment: "Yeah, looks identical to the previous [x] number of occasions you posted this pic. How many validation comments will satisfy the bottomless pit of your need for admiration? Do you suffer from narcissism or early onset dementia?"

People always tell the OP he is missing out by not getting with a sex worker, because he is so hot. My only surprise is that he did not qualify always and hot with "literally". Imagine the poor guy getting routinely bombarded with this message. Friends, family, other hot bedmates, colleagues, tradespeople, the local barkeep, barista, gym buddies, etc etc, spontaneously asserting: "U r hot and desirable; get thee to a queer brothel and pony up some cash for an escort!" Upon entering from Brazil, the border patrol agent sizing him up ... "bae, you are fuckin' smokin' and our local escorts will think it is such a waste that you are giving up that sweet ass without paying!" It must chip away at his sense of objective reality so that he believes it to be one of the most pressing life goals to be met. Furthermore, trapped into this agenda with nary a clue as to how to procure, notwithstanding having tripped into a related forum with thousands of playbook cues.

Apart from the statistical reality of personality morbidity and the implications of displeasing a provider that the client can move on from (contextual consideration-sorting), sexual excitation situations typically involve impulsive, less deliberative filters on behavioural choices. In heat in the heat of the moment, the elevated possibility of disinhibition. Failing to apply a condom where in this case the prophylactic is a metaphor for more thoughtful cognitive processing. The outcome risk not pregnancy or STI, in analogous terms, but a poor impression of character. Horny clients, like many guys, are using more intuitive fast brain functions, dodging conventionally valued social comportment, consequences be comparatively damned, whereas the provider is drawing on more advanced sophisticated slow brain processes (slow not meaning dumb). I think this has been described as the little head governing the big head. Sex is transient mental deficiency. Treat it with release or a bucket of ice water. Sure, some folks are simply bat-crap cray-cray, but I would not judge personality according to a loaded and thematically circumscribed commercial situation where the interplay of physiology and rational thought can be so off kilter. If ANY of my family and social circle knew what I got up to as a hirer, even though I am financially very solvent, I would be deemed to be perverted and wasteful, sick, damaged, worthy of a structured intervention. It would eclipse most salutary aspects of their view of me. Similarly, I am only human and quick to judge behaviour out of the (my) ordinary. And, for me, my choices about engaging trade make perfect sense, mainly because they are mine. Providers should perhaps hope that clients are just disturbed enough, viz suspending rational thought, to capitulate to purchasing fleeting pleasure, yet fall short of the thresholds of psychopathology that would make the profession untenable.

In clinical parlance, the person has to meet an expansive list of criteria rigorously assessed by a registered pro in order to be diagnosed with Anti-social Personality Disorder, under which the more outdated 'sociopathy' is loosely subsumed. There is considerable consensus that there is little that can be effectively done to mitigate the disorder. As such, the diagnosis pretty much stands permanently. In layperson settings, someone termed personality disordered has typically done an objectionable, unlikeable, disagreeable thing to the assessor in order to earn the label. The "diagnosis" pretty much stands permanently, the difference being that the record is not professionally sealed disclosure-wise.

It has come to my attention that Sauna Sunnyday across the river from Basel's main art museum may be a place, like Paragonya in Zürich, where one might hire for play. First, two online escorts, one a Czech muscle dude mentioned previously by other posters, gives it as a location for an upcoming Basel visit timeframe. Second, Spartacus Sauna Guide mentions Massage by Porn Stars in its bullet points in the description. Third, the club's photoset depicts at least one picture of an older average looking client flirting with a young gorgeous built stud. Thoughts?

The math, then, is the same proportion of escorts and clients alike are full-blown sociopathic at the epidemiological prevalence rate. Sub-sociopathic patterns slightly differ ... (Some) Escorts may alter or embellish facts to their advantage as a natural and understandable component of performative labour. (Some) Clients may alter truth or reality more specifically within the context of hiring, more so than in daily life, as there is implicit latitude in a substantially priced role-play scenario, possibly leading to the perceived fallacy that clients as a whole may be somewhat over-representative of pathology compared to the general population. This is an interesting thread. And I admit I have been made. Upon reflection, I qualify as situationally sub-sociopathic. In other-words, the entire enterprise is benignly crazy-making. Thank god for money and money shots.

Access to private gallery means premium membership, I presume? Does that mean the provider can detect each lurker's footprint and has a way to contact lurkers in order to field interest in an appointment?

LMAO ... my favourite repeat escort from the time period that movie was made over 10 years ago was an extra in it, along with a few of his gym friends!

On Rentmen it seems to be 200 outcall ... using Balder_Salazar handle. One review is in São Paulo where I doubt the fee in reais was greater than 50-60 GBP. Cute though. Guys just as hot in escort saunas there are 25-30 pounds.

Not having something because it does not exist or you are not aware of its potential existence is far easier than having something but then losing it. A potential monger reaching out to your services may create the illusion of you aready having something of value in that exchange, that is, a meaningful slice of the financial gain that your work is about. Game theory, experience theory, and decision theory all come in to this. It seems that you are labouring extremely hard to avoid losing something, at the client's window-shopping level, as if that were similar to having fee payment denied or stolen from you after the work is done. In other words, both you and the equivocating, vacillating, inquiring, 'flaky' client are playing not to lose something of perceived value, as if those utilities were identical. The objective $ is identical but its position is different. Compared to how other businesses run, it is somewhat astonishing and impressive how much time CSWs invest in client recruitment dynamics at a time-succubus on-call or personal level. From hours on a street corner or biding time in a brothel (more historical examples) to shitloads of written communication with mongers. Once a monger reaches out, his anxiety about losing something of value that he already possesses often escalates and overrides the anticipation of winning a pleasurable experience that is commensurate with the accompanying financial loss. Providers often get caught up in this. Be organized. You must know by now all of the collective monger questions. Do up a fact sheet, manual, or Q&A format info guide to expeditiously shoot off to an inquiring monger. This written summary will be longer than your ad and require more of the monger's attention span. It will not alleviate his stop-loss anxiety and will lack the personal touch and the possible thrill for him of a free window-shopping exchange. However, let it go and do not engage further with repetition. This may help amplify his opposing anxiety about not winning a pleasurable experience. He will have all of the info you are willng to provide and he alone will grapple with the worry of loss. Mirroring/replicating his loss anxiety will not add one iota of gain to the likelihood of scoring a paid booking. You may decide on an arbitrary set of images to append to the written guide. Consider learning something more about how memory and actual experience impact theoretically on a monger's future decisions about hiring. This will require research on your part. If you can subtly reference these aspects in your summary manual, that is, identify clients' struggles with stop-loss play choices, it may give you an edge. Adding the utility of empathy to the utilities of money and orgasm. In my non-entertainment business prior to retirement, the above strategies freed up my time. It was impossible to assess its impact on client recruitment volume but it alleviated the anxiety about spending valuable non-compensated time or psychological energy closing the tiresome deal.

Porn or escort guys cuz you want to communicate, ArVa? Or general eye candy not in sex entertainment, soley for your viewing pleasure? Any reference group preferences? For example, I tend to follow Latin Amer fitness guys who actually reside south of the Mexico/Guatemala border. I try to keep it to a 100 max at a time. They usually have tens of thousands followers and do not follow me back. My account, however, is private because it is pretty obvious that I go for gogo men, strippers, etc who might be willing to tap into my capacitative wallet. I have a generic IG account but still worry that family/friends will "trip into" the private account thru other social media entry points. I have personal images in the private account because if I reach out for flirting purposes I want the target to see my age, looks, and shape status. Still working on how to present myself. I travel south and can meet up. I am older >60, solvent, and pay for play. Maybe I should remove my own images from the worship and sex-focused account so that there is no verification that it is me, make the account public, and just send personal pics via flirty IG message option to guys in sexy stage entertainment, etc ... do they do private shows, etc?

It seems that currently the stripper scene in CDMX is very meagre, sadly, given the city's size, and no setup for private dances within the venue. I did have some private at either Botas or BB two years ago, the one on Niza, east border Zona Rosa, cannot remember which of these two now extinct clubs. But it was complicated and the house was very involved in wanting a cut. I would visit regularly and throw wads of cash around if there were clubs with hot muscular gogo guys available in private cubicles. In contrast, there is a system for private dances in Puerto Vallarta ... I have experienced at Wet but did not connect with any at Anthropology. I think it was 500 pesos for 15-20 minutes, timed by the clock, not per song. Private dances are not synched with stage show song tracks like in Toronto/Montreal. For fun, check out the Mexican troupe called Badboystour, formerly Zuppaboys, eg on Instagram, a sort of Latino Magic Mike Revue. I don't know if they they get a lot of bookings. If you have pots of money to burn, hahaha. One of them has an interesting story line, of which some of you may be aware.

Alejo/Hamptonn ... new neck tattoo about a month ago. I know him from Insta, major player competitor South Amer, last contest 2 months ago. Interestingly, his Insta first name and contest name are not the same, but it is definitely the same guy, because his placement rank, related Insta content, and official contest pics all line up. He has since packed on some off-season bulk. Freakin' hot. JO material. When I go to Colombia I will see if he is available (his current plans NYC and Dallas). Good to know his status here because he also may have buddies in Colombia who 'get down' for worship.

I am not too familiar because my gym is in my building, for owners. But I would think any in or near the village are populated by gay men. Or maybe the monthly 'zine Fugues has some ads ... I read the paper version but it is also online. The chain Econofitness is big here. ProGym for IFBB, Musclemania, etc, eye candy, and if you don't mind the possibility of feeling inferior, but not cruising. In the east end but walkable to the Metro stn there.

I live in Montreal. Campus, and to some extent Stock, "crashed" some 12 years ago when dance prices doubled from $10 to 20 per song and a concomitant stock market correction further thinned the crowds. Otherwise, I think both are consistent, with mild ups and downs. Perhaps infrequent attenders have a different comparison basis if hitting 'up' versus 'down' days on extensively spread-out visits. Actually, I find that Campus has declined a little more the past few years and I am much more inclined to take a private at Stock.

The pedestrian-only section of the Village commenced May 3rd last year, so likely early May this year. This is the final year of the rainbow plastic-ball canopy. I would say May and June similar. By 9PM most of the strippers have arrived for the 9-3 shift. I only go to Campus and Stock, not Taboo.

The taxi services at the airports in SP and Rio are accustomed to dealing with foreigners and offer flat rate vouchers priced according to your hotel zone. So you do not have to deal with paying driver, who will simply accept the receipt that you will have had the option to pay by credit card at the taxi service desk. By about my second visit I was negotiating down the taxi flat rate and by third visit using Über exclusively. You do need to be comfortable texting the driver within the app, involving copying and pasting brief translations, but usually only about 10% of the time. Über rates by distance are about 25-35% the cost in North America. Before any grasp of Portuguese, I had no difficulty arranging sessions with for-pay guys at the various sex trade sauna/bar establishments. Many hotels offer to accept pre-payment for the trip back to airport, or the doorman will help you arrange a flat cash rate with a hailed cab. Both cities have high-functioning Metro underground systems at about 1USD per fare, actually easier IMHO than NYC. I have spent months in Rio and never had the need to go anywhere that was not accessible to a Metro station. Much less time in SP but usually use Metro. I have used Über satisfactorily in Fortaleza, Salvador, Belo Horizonte, and Porto Alegre.

Scheuble was perfect and I found the room rate to be very reasonable. The breakfast was extra and extremely expensive, though top-notch and bottomless, but I only had it once because I eat very light in the morning and customarily had coffee in the room and grabbed something simple from the Minagro Express three doors down (adjacent to Paragonya). All main sights were walkable.

It's not animal husbandry, but I always like at least one shot somewhat depicting the state of a pricey guy's teeth.

He occasionally pops into Sauna Adan for some cash, at least when I was in Madrid last Spring. He really turned my head when he walked into the lockerroom. His background origins are not the Iberian peninsula. The ad pics are all him. I would say he is at least an inch more in height. He was somewhat mechanical, but an efficient top and got the job done. I was not looking for romance. I really got off on his beautiful body and fantasized about a scene related to his identified athletic background. His skin is perfection. For the standard 50€ rate, I was not about to whine after cumming with this handsome guy. The sparse reviews sound fake. I would have pursued second helpings if I had been there longer.

Yes, I have. I have been going to Campus since 1997. I will occasionally pop in for a drink on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon after buying some panties at Priape. Your assessment is not off, except very very rarely does a dancer straddle both shifts (ha, you may want an evening one straddling your stick shift, though). I cannot count on one unsticky hand the number of privates I have bought before sundown. If you are anxious that you might miss the stripper of your dreams, I suggest you roll in at 20:00, the tail end of the early roster, for an hour prior to the night roster. Put the saved admission fee towards half a beer. Mind you, I only hit about 5% my type even evenings.

I just learned AM left the DR in 2010 and tried to have someone take over the blog, so no big surprise. Well, I also just learned that studying Latin for 5 years of secondary school in my country was a waste of time. You use it or lose it. In the 3rd year, they finally introduced Spanish as an option. Shoulda switched.

Thread belly-up dead in the Caribbean water? Anyone know why the recommended blog by Anthony Montgomery (monaga.net) is all in Latin, seemingly the same words in each post?