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Emmy immunity for Ellie it is, then.

Not that visibility ever mattered as private dances were years ago at tables in general seating and a lot could nevertheless creatively occur, prior to the current obsession of recording everything for visual posts, at Campus some time ago the plexiglass barrier was frosted with staggered opaque horizontal stripes. Cue the besides the point entry of the no camera rule. My point is simply a historical context for one’s assessment of privacy. I’m not the least bit exhibitionist but in those days it was a venial if not mortal sin to not offer one’s lap on which a hot guy could deposit self his perfect behind. One just suppressed overt expressions that typically accompany orgasm.

If people opine that you are the reason for good things in your life it’s a judgement. It doesn’t seem judgemental because the implication is that you are laudable. If a chatroom member spontaneously posts success the response is typically that it’s deserved and it emanates from positives and strengths. You may blush but not discount the source (me, myself, I) that drove the outcome. It isn’t pathologically narcissistic to concede that you are the author of your success. Yet you won’t drill down too much to give credit to external factors unrelated to you. In contrast, any response containing the notion that you are the reason for a problem or deficit in life quality will seem judgemental, can sting and seem questionable. An entry about the lack of success is polarizing because attributing to you the reason for failure does seem judgemental. You split the response range, at risk of continuum oversimplification here, into harsh versus soothingly supportive. The latter has only been useful because it suggests you are worth the success (cliché encouragement). However, that alone doesn’t consider the ways in which one, consciously or not, is contributing to failure. The tendency is to externalize the variables impeding success. It isn’t without secondary gain as resentment may compromise function less so than sadness. The idea of personal deficits is naturally depressogenic. If you hadn’t been exposed to a set of ideas about how failure is what you sow then perhaps you yourself should have directed such notions to yourself. Even then, many would protest that you are being too hard on yourself. So why wouldn’t you label critique about your world view as inhospitable (rhetorical). Well-meaning holding back judgement is the current you must swim against. There may be value in criticism that comes across as harsh because it should be no more rejectable than salutations. Red-faced with hackles up paradoxically challenges the concept of owning your fate. It’s as narcissistic as what pats on the back stimulate. Think about the contradiction. It’s remarkable how we’re hotwired to react. By this I mean the universal commonality of narcissism as opposed to clinically disordered.

Back to the ask. It could be worth it to exchange in kind for sexual intimacy as a model for sexual self-actualization. It’s only framed as fraudulent because people erroneously think the work can only be soul-crushing and the connection no more than artificial. Primary attachment relationships are not obligatory. Half of the folks who assert going solo is an inferior model end up in failed relationships anyway and rush for serial do-overs out of confirmation bias. There’s no rule that truly legitimately argues one over the other. That’s value systems for you. How you juggle family, friends, libido, and genital play dates is up to you. Just do you and own it. If you and your team proclaim your glass is half empty owing to external deprivation by others, that can mess up the type of worldview that might otherwise guide you well.

He’s as representative of the humanizing as any non-hire. Not an outlier within his domain yet good people in genpop are the majority. Again, he offered the value add of meeting the precondition and of heterosexuality (?) that amped up the flattering validation. His disservice was unwittingly castigating those who haven’t found and appreciated you. Maybe he’s dating the therapist. You masturbate, right? Not a wild assumption. What is the fantasy, the script? How long is the session? That usually shapes expectations and a more controlled experience of hiring will dovetail right in, supplemented with a bit of pillow talk usually absent from autosexual narrative. The recent feelings are an artefact of what you manufacture coming to life as facsimile. You can’t print out the real world and it’s pointless to rail against it. If you’re objectively hot that will end. Lacking the prop in which external locus of control prosecutes others you are set up for unhappiness. You will need internal self-soothing and equanimity to survive being less visible. That’s not something any relationship can confer other than with self.

Look at any two members that represent the dyads you see as relatively successful. You would need to view both, not just one, as worthy of the response the other gives based on physical attraction. Cultivate the habit of doing this analysis regularly. If you were to discount either, let alone both within the pair, as worth your erotic interest you haven’t transcended the central impediment to faith in broad-based compatibility. It’s absolutely fine to rate poor compatibility with the hookups that were superficially meeting precondition criteria but were otherwise poor matches . That said, your fundamental interest template constrains the pool of men you draw upon.

But you shopped for somebody that met a certain precondition. You may have screened out hundreds. That appearance precondition having been met, you were open to the emotional that might occur meaningfully between any two people you’d have screened out based on the rigidified precondition. Dollars to donuts (pastry again!) you squirm upon amorous affection directed your way if preconditions not met. That’s fine if you own and accept your template. It approximates mine. I decided to forego the conventional model of intimacy, wherein many people would say it’s refusing to try for an upgrade and at one’s expense. Now in my 70’s, I exclusively hire. No regrets.

Not a bad thing, but escorts unconditionally love you for your money and otherwise conditionally love you. That’s not the dynamic for their boyfriends. Paradox: higher pastry fee, less flaky pastry. BTW, your unpaid are saying you don’t need to pay, without saying it. It would be weird for a hook-up to comment upon leaving y’know you strike me as somebody that doesn’t need to pay. Myself, I find it best to always go with it’s not them; it’s me.

I was going with Papineau actually. All last 3 letters should be silenced as o would do. But speaking of pronunciation and confusingly silent letters was it Am-irst, Aw-mairst, Am-ersed, Am-hears’d, … ? I think Enry Iggins proposed the new name.

Sometimes the right ikea is new furniture.

I take it not one of the Saint rues. Photos … Loyalist to him <~> Patriotic Duty to us 0 sum

Welp, that’s all rather harsh. On your knees and ‘pologize. My Movie 20.mov

Climbing gym, where much of what has just been recommended should be accompanying you.

So the prostitutes in legally exempt counties, upon retirement, tend to settle in Washoe County, say, Reno, as no longer needing to reside in locations where not running afoul of the law?

Actually, unlike for Canada, Quebec deviates from celebrating Victoria Day as a statutory holiday but has long established National Patriots Day exclusively for the province to coincide with the same Monday. It’s too complicated a history to explain; you will likely wonder why the term national when it’s not federal, but it acknowledges history that precedes 1867 Confederation (when Canada established) by a few decades. As many will know Quebecers also more inclined to resist monarchist association. Campus was packed Saturday but that may reflect Memorial Day weekend influx from USA. Also, the neighborhood generally comes more alive with the seasonal terraces. However, it’s been 21 years since I met a dancer that interests me sufficiently to migrate from the back private room to my home nearby on a scheduled basis.

I am fawn of, in venison with, the pay-per-lay playbook, as is my Aunt Lorraine.

I thought it was code for ankles in the assumed position in missionary work.

You guys. Leave this lad tf alone. By that I mean, sure, accommodate his unambiguous and circumscribed ask if you will, that consists of his modest little paper cash register for donations that you might supply while being circumspect about his context. He has wordsmithed his signage narrative just enough to legitimize requesting $ but falls short of asking to be rescued. He is not asking to be the face of any societal problem. 1 in 100 Canadian men are diagnosed with schizophrenia and the majority can “present” well. A higher proportion than 100% of general population have some form of illness within the realm of psychosis. If a cluster of men, however numbered, were to descend on him and convey knowledge of his background and he is mentally vulnerable his response may be no less predisposed to a triggered effect of paranoia than it might be coloured with appreciation of the crowdsourcing implicit in the well-intentioned story entered here. As has been suggested there is no lack of professional resources including street outreach services in the downtown Toronto district. I fail to understand assumptions you might have about the degree to which he is genuinely disenfranchised relative to the collective unhoused genpop, or what it is some of you think you can offer to make his connectivity to resources stick if indeed his plight is blockage to assistance access that you imagine you can transcend on his behalf. Good to be alert to the reality of those less fortunate. Perhaps a donation to Covenant House would satisfy the call to altruism.

Slipped by us that charges were finally made: https://www.justice.gov/d9/2025-02/u.s._v._sikkema_indictment.pdf

Including 🎶“how much to do doggie with that endowed?🎵

This is not good for clients because of the implicit put-down that upsell amounts in the $100 range make us “cheapie”.

Perhaps because our most recent vaxx dances have been with viruses. Viruses and bacteria have in common surface proteins, ie, antigens. The 4CMenB vaccine produces antibodies that can recognize and neutralize gonococcal antigens. Many of our routine childhood vaccinations confer prophylaxis against bacterial pathogens. My latest senior vaccine was for protection from bacterial pneumococcal disease. If I step on a rusty nail this summer my vaccine dose will not be virally based.

I follow him as I do for many Brazilians but there’s no evidence on his social media of the Time Machine that has flung him forward to December, shaved off several age years, and reflects a continental shift or nuclear event in which Le Marais has landed in Picadilly. But he is in London currently. He last physique competed in 2023 and he is still in excellent shape. He hangs with another Carioca that I have met that similarly works the European circuit.

As Offred/June, played and directed by Moss in next to last Ep passionately put minutes before a viewer “WTF did that just happen!?” response, “Love Serena Joy; choose love.” Handmaid’s Tale.

Haha. I don’t know what it is I don’t know but I’m sure it’s overwhelmingly vast. Like for example is T “the”, Theodore, Tiffanee (hommage to R Gere), or Twinkletoes?