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Thanks for your report. This is the most important piece of information from my perspective 😀.

Ditto, at least for my yahoo account.

We never met in person, but we did correspond about getting together in Montreal if our paths crossed there. What I remember best, however, was a short, very hot post of yours describing an erotic encounter on the London underground. Do you recall that encounter? That post? (Might have been on the Northern Line, but I wouldn't swear to it.) You were one of the sane and interesting voices on this forum back then. Stick around! I'd be interested in learning where life has taken you since those days.

the most important thing....

Looking forward to it! I'm going in June.

Poppie's post just above sent me back to the Campus website for the first time in a month or so. It continues to evolve, as does the club, it appears. They are now offering VIP table reservations, for example, and are posting events (e.g. "best ass contest"). Has anyone been to Campus in the past month? Report? Does anyone know when Daddy's corner will actually open?

which of the "three" are you not recommending😀?

The idea of a "massage intern" (as it is called on his profile) really gets me going....

the image of a frog ticking a box....

So you're saying that Johnson's is now like that too?

Haven't been to either for a couple of years: what do you mean by that? Inquiring minds want to know.

I am a big Mahler fan...if I'm really lucky, I can exchange a concert with Bruckner for one with Mahler. I wonder if Bruckner/Mahler preference correlates with anything else? (use your imagination 😉)

Sort of how I feel too...whenever there is Bruckner on my symphony subscription, I exchange for a different concert 😀.

Pretty much describes me...although not because it's "very intimate"...somehow the progression of a massage, no matter how erotic it gets, doesn't seem to lend itself to kissing. In the back of my mind, kissing is what happens at the beginning as you lead into other things, while massage leads you there in a different way. Kissing at the end of an intense session, especially if both of us have climaxed, seems natural, however.

Most overlooked line in this article...just crying out to be quoted 😀

Thanks for posting this. I had been wondering when the new owners would fix the old, tired web page. I'm very much looking forward to the return of 3-7 pm dancers...that was always my favorite time. I wonder if there will be a cover charge?

Thanks very much @aeikaryoko...posting this link saved me from making a bad mistake next week

But that's so much fun....

Perfectly said!

Unfortunately, that may no longer be the case. I see more and more guys advertising on both Rentmen and Rentmasseur. Some of them may offer different things depending on where their clients found them, but some certainly do not. Case in point: I recently hired someone from Rentmasseur who also has a Rentmen ad. After a good erotic massage (both the massage and the erotic extras were good), I mentioned the Rentmen ad and asked what further things we could do if I hired him from Rentmen. "Nothing different." I pointed out that, for example, his Rentmen ad mentioned he was into toys (something that hadn't happened in our massage session). He said "yeah, I'm into toys, but just for myself."

But do they always ask, especially the newbies? Or are there some who tiptoe around what they really want, perhaps out of shyness?

Are there really spas that charge only $60 for an hour massage? And why would someone work for only $20/hour, especially when they are unlikely to have a client every hour? They could probably make more at amazon or mcdonalds, yes?

As this discussion (and many, many similar discussions in the past) demonstrate, there simply is no rule when it comes to sensual/erotic massages. As someone uncomfortable in situations where expectations are not clear, it took me a while to accommodate to the ambiguities. But I now relish not knowing in advance exactly how things are going to develop. I never bring up explicit sexual expectations in a first conversation, although I do ask whether the masseur works in the nude. Over the years I have experienced pretty much everything at one time or another during a massage, only once with an upcharge. In that case, the masseur took advantage of my aroused condition to offer something for an additional fee; I agreed and regretted it afterwards...it was a distinctly lackluster experience. Bottom line: no matter how much advice you get here, you will not know exactly what's going to happen in advance. Just jump in with some recommended guys. After your first few experiences, you'll get the hang of it. Good luck and have fun!

My go-to masseur in Fort Lauderdale retired a few years ago. He had strong hands, good massage technique, and worked the erotic changes like a master, integrating erotic touch and more throughout the massage. If you know someone like this in the Fort Lauderdale area, please shoot me a private message with details. I do look through the postings here, but the information is usually too skimpy to make a judgment. I've often been disappointed. Thanks in advance.

A masseur once told me that a longer session takes more energy and leaves him more tired. (His charges were in line with your expectation; he was explaining why he didn't do 2-hour sessions.)