Smokey

If memory serves from one of my convos with a provider, RM requires them to send a picture of their certificate to verify they are licensed. That doesn't stop someone from printing out their own MS Word certificate, but it's as close as they're going to get to actually verifying the credentials, given the site's real purpose.
 
I mostly agree with poolboy, but I think if someone says they are certified I put perhaps slightly more stock in them ending up being a good masseur. At the end of the day, I think feedback I see here on the forum is more valuable than any listing of a certificate. My experience has been that the feedback guys post on here about the massage quality is always reliable... the extras people might mention are always taken with the YMMV caveat.

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

I really prefer videos that show the entire massage and a nice happy ending. When it goes full porno I lose interest... I want to watch the experience I love, not what would be more like hiring an escort.

Gosh I am guilty of sending PMs, but I always offer a greeting and ask politely , if no response is given then I take it as someone is not comfortable doing so and thats totally cool with me. Some responses have helped me make some educated choices and found some great masseurs, but as mentioned above there should be some writing etiquette involved for sure!

I know they're just porn fantasies but a table with no face cradle is just a dealbreaker for me!

On the first visit?....no
 
On the 3rd or 4th visit with a guy who’s been open and playful during the previous massages?.....maybe.
 
Sexual play and comedy; reading the room is paramount for both.

I know, let's enroll in a massage school and learn the trade... I'm sure there might be some hot classmates on whom to practice and do homework...

“Is sex dirty? Only when it's being done right.”
― Woody Allen

The facts of life ain’t pretty.

Hot as fcuk indeed... but with all them hands shame the HE had to be DIY.

Great one @Smokey , had not seen this one but love his videos and this one was HAF!!

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

A four-handed massage that goes off the rails (or where some hope it would go):
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/another-four-handed-42744171
 
Featuring Rab of London

I think you need to have a chat with your partner about boundaries; it will clear the air for both of you

Also, I never offer “sex” as part of the massage. That should flow naturally if it happens. I only offer a free relaxing massage.

It’s funny cuz age isn’t a big deal for me. Though, tbh, I rarely hire anyone who says they’re under 30. I like mature guys. But when I do venture younger, like 30-34, and I’m on the table and we’ve established I’m pretty easy going, I ask how old they are. Not to catch them in a lie, but mostly just small talk, they always say their true age and it’s always 6-8 years older than their profile. On one side I get it, guys assume you’re older so if you say 40 they think you’re 55. But I just wish people would own their age. There’s a market for everyone.

After Thanksgiving dinner with friends, I went to my favorite bar in DC for a nightcap. Sitting opposite me were two daddies, one with one of the the biggest buldges I'd ever seen. They left the bar and I followed. We chatted for a while and, after commenting on his package, I offered them a ride to their hotel. I was asked up to their room where we began to strip and make out. Mr. Bulge savaged me while his partner just watched. It was so hot. I offed to have him join us but he demurred.

There are very few topics that have been more heavily debated. Some feel strongly that as an independent party (not referring to Spa type massages here) it is like visiting a dentist - why tip? Others feel equally strongly that a tip should be provided for service above expectations and this will also secure a good relationship for future visits. There is no "rules" - nor are there any rules around the amount of the tip.
 
If I receive service above my expectations I choose to tip - I usually request an erotic massage so my expectations are pretty high. Usually the tip is in the range of 20 - 30%.