AlexanderRF

I met this guy in Prague. https://www.instagram.com/jay_officiaaal/
Sadly enough can't upload pics here coz his profile is private. He was on rentmen before as well, but now he is travelling and I cant find him. He is damn hugeeee. Could easily lift me overhead. His upper arm is basically the size of my quad. link to image: https://ibb.co/6vtgcBG

oh god, this topic is so relevant. Had it more than often that a client fell in love with me. And just one advice: don't fall in love with an escort. What they said before, when they do like they love you, its mostly for the wrong reasons. Money. For me it's always clear, and in Munich I have mostly guys that I meet every (other) week. But it is a clear friends-with-benefits relation kind of thing. Besides that we go also out for dinner, a visit to some place (besides my bedroom) and that is unpaid. And that is normal in my opinion. But falling in love with an escort: nah. Don't go there.

@Jamie21 I totally agree with what you are saying. Was also at grindr and some other crappy websites. full of fakers and time wasters. So I am sticking with Rentmen. Most serious and almost no time waste. It is all about the platform what I've seen.

I repeatedly see hot Korean muscle guys on my IG feed. There seems to be so many of them and cute, almost feminine faces on these incredible bodies. Does anyone know if these guys are gay? I realize that Korean culture encourages closeted lives....but just wondering if anyone has some first-hand knowledge. Thank you.

nah, free fuck is different than a 10 usd fuck. for 10 min. I mean, come on. who wants to get only fucked for 10 minutes by a nice dick.

I met this guy in Prague. https://www.instagram.com/jay_officiaaal/
Sadly enough can't upload pics here coz his profile is private. He was on rentmen before as well, but now he is travelling and I cant find him. He is damn hugeeee. Could easily lift me overhead. His upper arm is basically the size of my quad. link to image: https://ibb.co/6vtgcBG

I met this guy in Prague. https://www.instagram.com/jay_officiaaal/
Sadly enough can't upload pics here coz his profile is private. He was on rentmen before as well, but now he is travelling and I cant find him. He is damn hugeeee. Could easily lift me overhead. His upper arm is basically the size of my quad. link to image: https://ibb.co/6vtgcBG

oh btw, twinks, bears, whatever.... there are always clients that like one of these types. I am a super normal guy that happens to have a fat dick. And even when I was in London -pre-covid-era- I had so-many-messages! Anywhere I go. And then I see all these super sexy muscle hunks. But still I was mega busy. Deff shouldn't be too worried if there is a ''market'' for you.

When you wanna start with escorting you just should be sure about what you want and can. Somebody is not going to pay for you to figure out what position ur in. As long as you have something that you really like, then you can promote/advertise that about yourself. It is horrible for a client to meet somebody and then the escort doesn't get hard. Personally, I never meet somebody when I am not in the mood. Sometimes I am in the mood but can't stay hard for a longer time, then I take kamagra jelly. (works super fast) Nothing harmful or bad, just that u dont have to worry about being hard all the time. So you can completely focus on your client.
 
And cock rings, probably your question is already answered. but its with everything... should explore what ur into. For me they dont work, besides they also break all the time XD Too big I think. lol.
 
For me its also really important to know what kind of clients you wanna meet. I realized that when I had a really low rate (when I started) I got all kinds of morons and idiots. Guys that just wanna fuck for a buck. And that is not what you want. It is really important that you enjoy it too. Otherwise you will just hate yourself soo much after a few meetings. But when you get people that appreciate you, your body, your dick, your qualities, your person, then it will be super enjoyable for yourself as well.
 
After some years I have discovered a sort of pattern in guys behavior. Can see when they are serious or not. Guys that ask hundreds of questions arent serious. When they are new, and it is their first time, then they will tell most of the time. Somebody that has experience with escorts and knows what he wants will just ask you straight to the point questions. And its really important to answer all of them.
Got a lot of feedback from clients that complained about other guys in the city. (Prague) The client send a message like: blablabla, I am this, staying in hotel bladiebla, I like this and that, are you available and what is your rate? Then the escort often answered: €150,-/h. Dit some market research by myself as well, and discovered that there are sooooo many morons. That just want money. I always answer personally. Just be yourself is important.
 
 
But jeez, I am sounding like a daddy now. So daddy is gonna stop giving advice.

true. and of course it is never an issue (at least with me) when people contact me like that. It is quite nice actually, when people think about you when they make travel plans.

Thank you! I'm going to try give topping a shot, not with a client. I think I'll start off as a bottom at first, just so I'm comfortable. If I'm still getting used to topping. But lovely advice, I totally agree with the rate fees. Guys at least here in Toronto charge anywhere from $200 to $350; no matter what body type.
 
Also I see there is a lack of twinks in Toronto especially, time to hop on the gravy train before it gets too busy

When you wanna start with escorting you just should be sure about what you want and can. Somebody is not going to pay for you to figure out what position ur in. As long as you have something that you really like, then you can promote/advertise that about yourself. It is horrible for a client to meet somebody and then the escort doesn't get hard. Personally, I never meet somebody when I am not in the mood. Sometimes I am in the mood but can't stay hard for a longer time, then I take kamagra jelly. (works super fast) Nothing harmful or bad, just that u dont have to worry about being hard all the time. So you can completely focus on your client.
 
And cock rings, probably your question is already answered. but its with everything... should explore what ur into. For me they dont work, besides they also break all the time XD Too big I think. lol.
 
For me its also really important to know what kind of clients you wanna meet. I realized that when I had a really low rate (when I started) I got all kinds of morons and idiots. Guys that just wanna fuck for a buck. And that is not what you want. It is really important that you enjoy it too. Otherwise you will just hate yourself soo much after a few meetings. But when you get people that appreciate you, your body, your dick, your qualities, your person, then it will be super enjoyable for yourself as well.
 
After some years I have discovered a sort of pattern in guys behavior. Can see when they are serious or not. Guys that ask hundreds of questions arent serious. When they are new, and it is their first time, then they will tell most of the time. Somebody that has experience with escorts and knows what he wants will just ask you straight to the point questions. And its really important to answer all of them.
Got a lot of feedback from clients that complained about other guys in the city. (Prague) The client send a message like: blablabla, I am this, staying in hotel bladiebla, I like this and that, are you available and what is your rate? Then the escort often answered: €150,-/h. Dit some market research by myself as well, and discovered that there are sooooo many morons. That just want money. I always answer personally. Just be yourself is important.
 
 
But jeez, I am sounding like a daddy now. So daddy is gonna stop giving advice.

oh btw, twinks, bears, whatever.... there are always clients that like one of these types. I am a super normal guy that happens to have a fat dick. And even when I was in London -pre-covid-era- I had so-many-messages! Anywhere I go. And then I see all these super sexy muscle hunks. But still I was mega busy. Deff shouldn't be too worried if there is a ''market'' for you.

oh btw, twinks, bears, whatever.... there are always clients that like one of these types. I am a super normal guy that happens to have a fat dick. And even when I was in London -pre-covid-era- I had so-many-messages! Anywhere I go. And then I see all these super sexy muscle hunks. But still I was mega busy. Deff shouldn't be too worried if there is a ''market'' for you.

When you wanna start with escorting you just should be sure about what you want and can. Somebody is not going to pay for you to figure out what position ur in. As long as you have something that you really like, then you can promote/advertise that about yourself. It is horrible for a client to meet somebody and then the escort doesn't get hard. Personally, I never meet somebody when I am not in the mood. Sometimes I am in the mood but can't stay hard for a longer time, then I take kamagra jelly. (works super fast) Nothing harmful or bad, just that u dont have to worry about being hard all the time. So you can completely focus on your client.
 
And cock rings, probably your question is already answered. but its with everything... should explore what ur into. For me they dont work, besides they also break all the time XD Too big I think. lol.
 
For me its also really important to know what kind of clients you wanna meet. I realized that when I had a really low rate (when I started) I got all kinds of morons and idiots. Guys that just wanna fuck for a buck. And that is not what you want. It is really important that you enjoy it too. Otherwise you will just hate yourself soo much after a few meetings. But when you get people that appreciate you, your body, your dick, your qualities, your person, then it will be super enjoyable for yourself as well.
 
After some years I have discovered a sort of pattern in guys behavior. Can see when they are serious or not. Guys that ask hundreds of questions arent serious. When they are new, and it is their first time, then they will tell most of the time. Somebody that has experience with escorts and knows what he wants will just ask you straight to the point questions. And its really important to answer all of them.
Got a lot of feedback from clients that complained about other guys in the city. (Prague) The client send a message like: blablabla, I am this, staying in hotel bladiebla, I like this and that, are you available and what is your rate? Then the escort often answered: €150,-/h. Dit some market research by myself as well, and discovered that there are sooooo many morons. That just want money. I always answer personally. Just be yourself is important.
 
 
But jeez, I am sounding like a daddy now. So daddy is gonna stop giving advice.

Interesting. Thank you.

(4) Dubai 17/05-30/05 | M4M Message Forum (m4m-forum.org)
 
hi, considering you @AlexanderRF have plans to visit Dubai maybe you'd like to contribute to this thread
 
One more thing, here in the USA we write dates differently, we say 5/17-5/30 and not the European way which is more common all over the world. You can always say May 17- May 30 to make it more clear but the month goes first in America and according to the graphic posted by @RadioRob most poster are from USA.

About that client that is calling everybody. I hate it when they send this ''copy-paste'' message. Then you know that you are one of the 1000 that he writes. I ignore them always. Won't be good sex anyhow.
 
I always ask for the number when I am meeting somebody at their place. Most people write me on whatsapp/viber/signal anyway. E-mail is too personal I think.

Cancelling the day before is deff fine, can happen. But sometimes you just have the feeling that it aint right. Mostly I don't meet people that cancel with a vague reason. Even not after just 1 time. People that are serious won't cancel. When they have cold feet, they can say it honestly. It happens sometimes. But what I've seen so far is that most people that cancel, aren't serious at all.

Unfortunately some threads have become a raise to see who brags about paying the lowest for the hottest guys.
 
btw whatever happened with the self fulfilling prophecies about rates must go down 11 months ago when shit hit the fan and covid-19 came to our lives? Memory lane!

Welcome to the world of big business.
 
You should charge whatever you feel comfortable with.
Look at the market you’re in.
See what others are offering and what they’re charging.
Then pick your price point.
Yes, a lower price will get you more clients, but there is a point of diminishing returns.
As a new unknown, I would suggest starting low.
Build up a clientele and a great reputation first.
However, realize that is your “regulars” won’t been too keen on you raising their rate later.
 
I’m sure there’s a market for twink tops out there. Have fun.

Welcome to the forum! You may find this thread of interest: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/i-want-to-move-to-new-york-and-commit-to-escorting.134417/
 
Some escorts will offer discounts for repeat clients and for multi hour sessions. All depends on your business model. I agree with @FrankR that NYC rates mostly fall between $250 and $300 for incalls. I can't speak to outcalls. Be a man of your word and encourage clients to leave reviews for you on rentmen, and you will do well.
 
Best of luck with your career!

Welcome Alister! I’ve never contacted a guy via rentmen messenger or email - it is just too clunky; I think you will find most guys want to reach out via text message. You may find it useful to add a phone number where people can text you. You don’t have to give out you personal cel number - just get a google voice number and install the app on your phone; gives you both functionality and privacy.
 
$250 is very fair for NYC when it comes to an escort experience. In my experience most guys charge slightly more than that. If a guy is not willing to pay your hourly rate, wish him well in a polite way and move on. Some escorts offer a massage experience (which does not include penetration) for less $ but it is up to you how you want to structure your business model.
 
Good luck!

After the gym for sure! ?
 
But what has been said before, late afternoon, early evening is the best time. Late in the evening I am sleepy anyways. Early mornings is also fine, always nice to fuck a morning load out.

true. and of course it is never an issue (at least with me) when people contact me like that. It is quite nice actually, when people think about you when they make travel plans.