Ryan Roman

The people have spoken... must be that damn Canadian polite trait I've accidentally picked up...

You have a well-developed business model where I can see how that wouldn't be an efficient use of your resources. For some reason, I tend to get quite a few first-timers, and it seems to help them get more comfortable overall. Thanks for your feedback. Cheers!

I had a few cities I worked along the great lakes... One city was bit more dangerous... One city was pretty safe and I did pretty well... The third city had some fierce competition and I was probably out of my league but I didn't care. I enjoyed it at the time. But in hindsight, I realize what I was doing was dangerous. Luckily, the cops never bothered us.

I got my start through the street scene... I was 19 and maybe 140lbs wet... It was exciting and taboo... In hind sight, WTF was I thinking... I was lucky nothing bad ever happened. Don't get me wrong, I look back on those days fondly, but I was damn lucky nothing bad every happened.

I got my start through the street scene... I was 19 and maybe 140lbs wet... It was exciting and taboo... In hind sight, WTF was I thinking... I was lucky nothing bad ever happened. Don't get me wrong, I look back on those days fondly, but I was damn lucky nothing bad every happened.

I had a few cities I worked along the great lakes... One city was bit more dangerous... One city was pretty safe and I did pretty well... The third city had some fierce competition and I was probably out of my league but I didn't care. I enjoyed it at the time. But in hindsight, I realize what I was doing was dangerous. Luckily, the cops never bothered us.

I got my start through the street scene... I was 19 and maybe 140lbs wet... It was exciting and taboo... In hind sight, WTF was I thinking... I was lucky nothing bad ever happened. Don't get me wrong, I look back on those days fondly, but I was damn lucky nothing bad every happened.

I would. I find it too aggressive and a sign of desperation from an escort if I just CLICKED ONCE on his ad. Last week I got approached after submitting a review for an escort. Another escort, whose ad I hadn't even seen, sent me a completely unsolicited message that I answered just out of politeness but in just a couple exchanges I made it clear I was absolutely not interested in him.
 
HOWEVER, big however, @JTtorretto made a good point! There is a little group of escorts that I haven't hired yet but I FREQUENTLY WATCH as I keep them in my buddy-list feed. Since they could see how many times I have visited their profiles, I wouldn't mind a message from them at all, would actually feel flattered and perhaps it would increase the chances for us to meet.

Totally agree. If I were on the fence and you reached out to me, that might just be the spark needed to get things started. At the very least, you would seem more approachable to me. I also feel that it signifies you are interested in me as a potential client.
 
I acknowledge you might have a few people out there that would get offended by it, but why the fuck would they leave profile visibility on if that were the case? They could simply turn it off and never have to worry about it.

Same here - I have guys who messaged me that I otherwise would not have met.
It captures my attention and gets me interested Also, frequently I receive no response to texts I send to guys (stating a definitive interest in meeting with a proposed date and time) and sitting around waiting for days sucks. If someone messages me I know they are interested.

I have to agree, some of the best experiences I've had was because the provider messaged me after I viewed their page. I probably wouldn't have booked with them otherwise, but now I'm booking them whenever they come to town.

I'm a client but I gotta tell ya, that follow-up tactic works really well for some of us. It got me into an overnight session really quick a few months ago. I checked out his profile, moved on to looking at other options, got his message and started chatting... couple hours later we were hanging out at a hotel for the night. He got $1500 out of me from that follow-up message, with little effort.
 
Some clients don't like to be bothered with it. Some of us respond well to the attention.

You have a well-developed business model where I can see how that wouldn't be an efficient use of your resources. For some reason, I tend to get quite a few first-timers, and it seems to help them get more comfortable overall. Thanks for your feedback. Cheers!

The people have spoken... must be that damn Canadian polite trait I've accidentally picked up...

Thanks for sharing! I've always figured if they took the time to look at my profile, I should at least thank them for checking it out.

I'm curious guys: how many of you follow-up with a brief message to guys who've viewed your ad. If you do; have you found it made a difference in client relations, or no difference whatsoever.
 
I guess I'm curious to hear what others do (I thank the guys for checking out my page, and let them know if I can be of assistance in the future to feel free and contact me).

I'm curious guys: how many of you follow-up with a brief message to guys who've viewed your ad. If you do; have you found it made a difference in client relations, or no difference whatsoever.
 
I guess I'm curious to hear what others do (I thank the guys for checking out my page, and let them know if I can be of assistance in the future to feel free and contact me).

You have a well-developed business model where I can see how that wouldn't be an efficient use of your resources. For some reason, I tend to get quite a few first-timers, and it seems to help them get more comfortable overall. Thanks for your feedback. Cheers!

Thanks for sharing! I've always figured if they took the time to look at my profile, I should at least thank them for checking it out.

I'm curious guys: how many of you follow-up with a brief message to guys who've viewed your ad. If you do; have you found it made a difference in client relations, or no difference whatsoever.
 
I guess I'm curious to hear what others do (I thank the guys for checking out my page, and let them know if I can be of assistance in the future to feel free and contact me).

I'm curious guys: how many of you follow-up with a brief message to guys who've viewed your ad. If you do; have you found it made a difference in client relations, or no difference whatsoever.
 
I guess I'm curious to hear what others do (I thank the guys for checking out my page, and let them know if I can be of assistance in the future to feel free and contact me).

I got my start through the street scene... I was 19 and maybe 140lbs wet... It was exciting and taboo... In hind sight, WTF was I thinking... I was lucky nothing bad ever happened. Don't get me wrong, I look back on those days fondly, but I was damn lucky nothing bad every happened.

I prefer advanced scheduling, but have no problem seeing a client the same day.

You're in a sex-based business: Get used to guys plainly sharing their innermost fantasies.
 
Asking guys to soften those sexual edges is like asking Mel Brooks to go gentle on the satire.
 
Also realize that a lot of what people say vs what they actually do is nothing more than pre-fuck bravado.

"Have your way with me" is a standard, if old fashioned, euphemism.