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    BostonTom reacted to big dale in Please, please, please STAY HOME - that massage is STILL not worth your life   
    I get it. We all need touch. We all get that itch. He says he keeps his table super clean. We are both going to wear a mask. The economy needs to keep moving, etc., etc., etc.
     
    And that's all fine and well, except things are getting worse. Period. This isn't speculation, or mind control, or the government trying to take away your rights. This is life or DEATH. There's a new more contagious version of COVID-19 in the UK and now the US. In the Los Angeles area 1 in 5 people tested is showing to be infected. This is an huge increase from before the holidays.
     
    Ambulances are no longer transporting people in cardiac arrest if they cannot revive you on site you get left behind. There's no capacity for people hurt in car accidents or with other health emergencies. https://www.cnn.com/2021/01/05/us/los-angeles-county-california-human-disaster-covid/index.html
     
    So, yes... come here and share stories and tips, make your wish list for when things are more stable, ask about your favorite eye candy, but think twice 365,620 times before you book a massage. (That's the US death toll as of this posting.)
     
    And here's the thing; I know some of you are going to lambast me, and try your straw man arguments, report this post and try to have it taken down, but I really don't care. Somebody has to say this. We need to stop this thing. It starts with each of us acting responsibly.
     
    Need info on how to keep yourself safe? https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/prevent-getting-sick/prevention.html
     
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    BostonTom got a reaction from Alfstoria in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    The going rate in Montreal has been $20 a song for at least fifteen years. So given inflation (and the low Canadian dollar) it's a bargain these days (or will be again), particularly for Americans. Your friend was a little naive to think he'd get off with a stripper for $15, but hey, at least he learned his lesson. A few other tips for the less-experienced from someone who's been around the block a few times too often: the stripper isn't going to let you do much in the first dance but get his clothes off - and the lure of "one song only and then I'll see about more" can lead to a pushy or even hostile situation in my experience so I don't really recommend it. You're in this for $40-60 if you want a smooth entrance and exit. Also, some strippers will try to pretend you've gone an extra song. Assess that situation carefully. I usually try to enter the booth at the top of a song and keep track, and when breaking it off say, "So I think that was three songs" or something like that. If they push back too strongly - again, it's really not worth it. Remember strippers are in business, and they're probably not really attracted to you, and they're trying to get as much money out of you as possible with the least effort in the shortest amount of time possible. That's just life. Also remember they talk among themselves about clients, so if you want to be able to pick up the next hot dancer, you may have to part with some cash to keep the last one happy. Also remember there's not supposed to be any actual sex going on in the back room. At Campus the back room largely lacks any privacy at all now, and at Stock the staff sometimes sticks their head in through the curtains. So anything beyond a hand job is very risky. All that said, most strippers in my experience have given me my money's worth. They provide a service much more reliably than, say, waitresses or salespeople! And most are smart, good natured and want to have a good time. Just bring extra cash, don't get too drunk, don't expect the moon, and keep your wits about you.
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    BostonTom got a reaction from LD19847 in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    The going rate in Montreal has been $20 a song for at least fifteen years. So given inflation (and the low Canadian dollar) it's a bargain these days (or will be again), particularly for Americans. Your friend was a little naive to think he'd get off with a stripper for $15, but hey, at least he learned his lesson. A few other tips for the less-experienced from someone who's been around the block a few times too often: the stripper isn't going to let you do much in the first dance but get his clothes off - and the lure of "one song only and then I'll see about more" can lead to a pushy or even hostile situation in my experience so I don't really recommend it. You're in this for $40-60 if you want a smooth entrance and exit. Also, some strippers will try to pretend you've gone an extra song. Assess that situation carefully. I usually try to enter the booth at the top of a song and keep track, and when breaking it off say, "So I think that was three songs" or something like that. If they push back too strongly - again, it's really not worth it. Remember strippers are in business, and they're probably not really attracted to you, and they're trying to get as much money out of you as possible with the least effort in the shortest amount of time possible. That's just life. Also remember they talk among themselves about clients, so if you want to be able to pick up the next hot dancer, you may have to part with some cash to keep the last one happy. Also remember there's not supposed to be any actual sex going on in the back room. At Campus the back room largely lacks any privacy at all now, and at Stock the staff sometimes sticks their head in through the curtains. So anything beyond a hand job is very risky. All that said, most strippers in my experience have given me my money's worth. They provide a service much more reliably than, say, waitresses or salespeople! And most are smart, good natured and want to have a good time. Just bring extra cash, don't get too drunk, don't expect the moon, and keep your wits about you.
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    BostonTom got a reaction from AvengingDanno in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    The going rate in Montreal has been $20 a song for at least fifteen years. So given inflation (and the low Canadian dollar) it's a bargain these days (or will be again), particularly for Americans. Your friend was a little naive to think he'd get off with a stripper for $15, but hey, at least he learned his lesson. A few other tips for the less-experienced from someone who's been around the block a few times too often: the stripper isn't going to let you do much in the first dance but get his clothes off - and the lure of "one song only and then I'll see about more" can lead to a pushy or even hostile situation in my experience so I don't really recommend it. You're in this for $40-60 if you want a smooth entrance and exit. Also, some strippers will try to pretend you've gone an extra song. Assess that situation carefully. I usually try to enter the booth at the top of a song and keep track, and when breaking it off say, "So I think that was three songs" or something like that. If they push back too strongly - again, it's really not worth it. Remember strippers are in business, and they're probably not really attracted to you, and they're trying to get as much money out of you as possible with the least effort in the shortest amount of time possible. That's just life. Also remember they talk among themselves about clients, so if you want to be able to pick up the next hot dancer, you may have to part with some cash to keep the last one happy. Also remember there's not supposed to be any actual sex going on in the back room. At Campus the back room largely lacks any privacy at all now, and at Stock the staff sometimes sticks their head in through the curtains. So anything beyond a hand job is very risky. All that said, most strippers in my experience have given me my money's worth. They provide a service much more reliably than, say, waitresses or salespeople! And most are smart, good natured and want to have a good time. Just bring extra cash, don't get too drunk, don't expect the moon, and keep your wits about you.
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    BostonTom reacted to Luv2play in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    Having been a lap-dance client for decades, I find you arguments somewhat disingenuous. The first time I entered a strip club, I made myself familiar with the rules and the fees as anyone would in a new environment. After all, money in considerable amounts is involved. Even if the rates aren't posted in the club, you merely have to ask a dancer what they are.
     
    It is inconceivable that a dancer would say or imply $15 for as long as it takes you to get off. The obligation is on the client to clarify what the fees are. This might be difficult if you are a newbie and the the dancer excites you.
     
    I have never heard of a dancer saying the lap-dance is $15 or whatever, no matter how long it lasts. These are dances set to music after all, just like in high school. After dancing with a girl in high school, when the music ended, she was free or yourself, to express thanks for the dance and move on.
     
    It's the same in a stripper bar. All your examples of set fees for haircuts or massage, etc are irrelevant. Absolute red herrings.
     
    And I have never been in a club where they play 10 minute songs. The dancers would object! Usually 2 and a half to 3 and a half minutes, like most pop tunes..
     
    Talking after the dance ends, is another issue. If he continues to sit on your lap, you are on the clock. To make clear that the clock has been turned off, you as the client, must make moves to get out of the booth. That allows the dancer to put his clothes back on and physical contact is ended. The two o you can continue talking as this is going on but the dancer knows that the clock is off and will usually be in a hurry to get out and see if he can find other clients.
     
    I'm sorry your friend had a bad experience but it sounds to me like his expectations were unrealistic.
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    BostonTom reacted to + SundayZip in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    Bernie walks up to a fruit stand...
     
    Bernie: "How much are the apples?"
    Fruit vendor: "Twenty-five cents"
    Bernie: "I'll take 10"
    Fruit vendor: "Ok, here you are. That will be $2.50"
    Bernie: "What? No way! You said the apples are twenty-five cents!"
    Fruit vendor: !?
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    BostonTom reacted to Luv2play in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    It sounds like your friend was pretty naive. I can see why the dancer was pissed off.
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    BostonTom reacted to + ButchAtl in Positive long lasting impression...   
    Breathtaking? Wow...Don't we recycle anymore?
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    BostonTom reacted to + aeikaryoko in Jasson in LA   
    Still goes by Jake on MF.
    https://www.companyofmen.org/search/1137386/?q=35496&o=date
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    BostonTom reacted to SamMiller213 in San Diego Recommendations   
    Bene is probably one of the best talents in SD that you’ll find, but you’ll pay for it:
     
    https://rentmasseur.com/Realmanstouch
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    BostonTom reacted to Lazarus in Adam, The Italian   
    This is about the 5th name change for him.
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    BostonTom reacted to SamMiller213 in I think Masseurfinder let this slip through...   
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30163/
     
    ?? let me know when you find it ?
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    BostonTom got a reaction from craigville beach in Looking for recommendations in Spain   
    I'd recommend this guy. He wasn't actually my first choice in Madrid, and isn't the hottest or youngest around, but he really loves his work, is completely versatile and a lot of fun. I was really glad I ended up with him. https://rent.men/Mazza
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    BostonTom reacted to Michael PhD in Masseurs in LA with good mix of therapeutic + extra   
    Bill https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/187/
     
    Rob https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/21361/
     
    Clark https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/26848/
     
    Thomas https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/9169/
     
    Tim https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28816/
     
    Ben https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/27911/ (my favorite)
     
    I have seen all these multiple times. Ben-Clark-Rob-Tim-Thomas-Bill... my favorites in that order. Lots of folks that only do erotic but no skills - these guys all gave me a good massage before fun.
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    BostonTom got a reaction from + Charlie in Passings   
    This may sound harsh, but the younger generation is also much blander than we were. A whole culture is eroding, and they couldn't care less. And do they have as much fun as we did? A few months back I was talking to two millennials about getting my first boyfriend at age 19, and they were all like "So you finally had someone to talk to! Did you guys discuss gay identity a lot?" And I was like, "No. We never discussed gay identity. We just fucked like rabbits."
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    BostonTom got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Passings   
    This may sound harsh, but the younger generation is also much blander than we were. A whole culture is eroding, and they couldn't care less. And do they have as much fun as we did? A few months back I was talking to two millennials about getting my first boyfriend at age 19, and they were all like "So you finally had someone to talk to! Did you guys discuss gay identity a lot?" And I was like, "No. We never discussed gay identity. We just fucked like rabbits."
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    BostonTom got a reaction from JayCeeKy in Passings   
    This may sound harsh, but the younger generation is also much blander than we were. A whole culture is eroding, and they couldn't care less. And do they have as much fun as we did? A few months back I was talking to two millennials about getting my first boyfriend at age 19, and they were all like "So you finally had someone to talk to! Did you guys discuss gay identity a lot?" And I was like, "No. We never discussed gay identity. We just fucked like rabbits."
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    BostonTom got a reaction from + WmClarke in Does anyone else ever go back and look at the videos of porn stars they've hired . . ?   
    It's kind of hot. Particularly if they were more excited with you than they seem in the video.
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    BostonTom got a reaction from xanadulvr in I guess hell has frozen over   
    You know that thing, where the guy who answers the door isn't the guy in the photos?
     
    Well, once in a blue moon he's just as hot as, or even hotter than, the guy in the photos.
     
    And that's the case with NatanX in Boston.
     
    https://rentmasseur.com/NatanX
     
    That stunning jock on RentMasseur isn't the guy you get, but you get a just-as-stunning Bel Ami type in his place. Who is also a sweetheart. There's a strict limit on the interactivity past an HE, but he offers a sweet, romantic time, and he's just drop-dead gorgeous. You can PM me for details if you'd like; he's only here till Tuesday.
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    BostonTom got a reaction from Massageislife in Anndy now in DC   
    Agreed, his HE-phobia is almost strange given how generally frisky and sensual he can be.
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    BostonTom got a reaction from Dmitri in I guess hell has frozen over   
    Well, I think the point of the forum is to accurately assess masseurs. But I hear you, so I'll amend my post to say, "This guy is incredibly hot and delivered a wonderful time, but he (or his handler) is posting someone else's picture so don't use him."
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    BostonTom got a reaction from Bluefin in Meaning of 411 sorry dumb question   
    411 is the number for local directory assistance. So it's slang for "information please." It's not a dumb question, nobody calls directory assistance anymore!
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    BostonTom got a reaction from + sync in Meaning of 411 sorry dumb question   
    411 is the number for local directory assistance. So it's slang for "information please." It's not a dumb question, nobody calls directory assistance anymore!
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    BostonTom got a reaction from Lewis H in Meaning of 411 sorry dumb question   
    411 is the number for local directory assistance. So it's slang for "information please." It's not a dumb question, nobody calls directory assistance anymore!
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    BostonTom got a reaction from CuriousByNature in Meaning of 411 sorry dumb question   
    411 is the number for local directory assistance. So it's slang for "information please." It's not a dumb question, nobody calls directory assistance anymore!
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