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THANKS Eric that's very very helpful... I will also prepare the traduction too.

THANKS Zach for your answer, that’s actually why I offer a 30min to 1:00 naked massage cause in case you are not ready for the all shambam we can start with that and see , therefore we have the time to talk it out live before / after or while we meet.

Hello my name is jamal masseur check out my website
 
ambivalentstudio.com
 
I am here :
 
For you to feel secure
 
For you to feel comfortable
 
For you to share your fantasies and passions
 
For you to push your limits
 
For you to share and talk
 
 
FOR YOU TO BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF
 
 
 
I WILL BE HONORED TO HAVE BEEN CHOSEN TO GUIDE OR JOIN YOU ON THAT JOURNEY

Hello my name is jamal masseur check out my website
 
ambivalentstudio.com
 
I am here :
 
For you to feel secure
 
For you to feel comfortable
 
For you to share your fantasies and passions
 
For you to push your limits
 
For you to share and talk
 
 
FOR YOU TO BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF
 
 
 
I WILL BE HONORED TO HAVE BEEN CHOSEN TO GUIDE OR JOIN YOU ON THAT JOURNEY

SO AFTER A BIG 2 WEEKS OF NON-STOP WORKING ON IT (NOT A GEEK HERE)
THERE IS A 40% READY VERSION OF MY WEBSITE THANKS TO ALL OF YOU FOR THE HELP AND ADVICE, CAUSE SINCE BY TAKING THEM IN CONSIDERATION AND APPLYING THEM TO ME I GREW A NEW FOUND CONFIDENCE IN WHAT I OFFER TO MY CLIENTS AND HAD RECENTLY LESS STRESSED MEETING CAUSE THEY KNEW WHERE THEY WERE GOING ...
 
ANYWAYS HERE IT IS
 
https://www.ambivalentstudio.com
 
JAMAL

well @Mocha now its time for us to get in the DM situation:)

I went to a Chinese restaurant in a small Washington State town last year and they had no tofu. Weird. I know, off topic.

Whenever people get stuck on sex questions, I suggest switching to a restaurant scenario to help clarify your thinking.
 
This is how it would apply here: you go to your favorite diner. You’ve been craving a mushroom swiss burger. When the waiter comes over to take your order, would you hesitate at all to make it clear that you specifically wanted mushroom and swiss on your burger? Of course not! You’d ask, and you’d get it. Or he’d say they don’t have swiss and suggest an alternate cheese, at which point you get to choose if you want that alternative. Or, he’d say “sure” but your burger comes without mushroom and swiss, at which point you might ask for it to be remedied. Or you won’t, and you’ll just have to suck it up.
 
In the same way that you’d ask for mushroom and swiss if that’s what you wanted, it’s entirely appropriate to ask for cum if you want it.

Yeah....maybe that wasn’t the best “anal-ogy”.

I think I read somewhere something like:
"I really enjoy watching my companion enjoy my company as much as I enjoy his and his achievement of a climax with me is a key part of my enjoyment of our time together. Given your busy schedule do you think that it would be better to postpone our appointment until your next visit to town when we can meet earlier in the day?"
 
Hypothetically.

When I've been asked for a pic, I'll send a full body pic without showing my face. That's always been sufficient. I've never been asked specifically for a face pic.

I would compare it to something like wine. A person may like wine, any wine. But I’m sure they wouldn’t appreciate someone bringing them an entire truckload of blacked out bottles of it. They’d want to know is it Red, White, or Blackberry wine. Is it going to be sweet and light or dry and heavy? That way they can prepare the palate accordingly to receive it. Doesn’t mean they’re a wine snob who doesn’t appreciate wine, but rather a sophisticated person who knows their wine.
 
Once people set aside the insecurities and ego (e.g. I’m paying, so what does it matter), it’ll all reveal to be pretty logical. And meeting someone without knowing what they look like, is like grabbing a bottle of wine off the shelf and hoping it pairs with what you cooked. When all was needed was to pair the meal and wine together to make the best fit.
 
Sure, your guest may get full and drunk either way. But the purpose of fine dining is not to merely get full and drunk, of course. If it was, one could just go to Chilis or Applebee’s and spend much less.

I say 100% of the time because I won’t meet anyone who doesn’t provide their stats. That’s the very 1st thing I ask, in an automated template response. Photo not necessary, though many of my clients voluntarily send one anyway, so it wouldn’t be earth shattering if one day I decided to even ask for that.
 
It’s nothing to do with looks or judgement. It’s like come on, it’s 2018. This is not 1995 blind internet dating where you had to have a scanner and stamp to send a picture. There’s no reason to meet anyone who doesn’t volunteer what they look like. And if they can’t provide it, I have the technology to pull it up myself.
 
I simply ask because on more than a few occasions, I’ve ended up meeting someone who was either underage or significantly unexpected. I think it’s a misunderstanding that just because an escort should be able to handle any client, that it equates to them being willing to meet someone without even knowing who or what they appear.
 
There’s a difference between being able to handle any client, versus not knowing who the person who’s merely TEXTING you (the other reason I’ve begun to ask more often, as many appointments are text back). To me, it’s unsafe and irresponsible. I refuse to do it.
 
Some “clients” (saying that loosely) may have an issue with someone asking. Yet, they can see a whole collage of face and full nude photos of me, but are afraid to tell me what their age or stats are? Dude, GTFO of here.

I assumed that's what you meant. I see you've corrected the spelling.
 
~Boomer~

Hi everyone,
 
So I need your input but first and foremost I'd like to thank @Eric Hassan and @Mocha for their help on my last question I created my add and I am in process to do my website i understand that a signature is very important but until it is done I'd rather not disclaim it until then here is my rentmen add https://rent.men/JAMALTURNER.
 
1/How do you advertise or talk about the sexual services you're willing to provide without breaking the law
2/How do you make the ad less about the sex per se but the connection (too many times the first contact being a text asking how big I am tended to make me cringe a little )
3/is a website a good idea ?
4/how to manage your desire to meet and interract with mature men but also keeping them in check (there's a guy tied to that dick remember???) no disrespect to any respectful client of course.
 
Thanks jamal

Oh gawd no. Don’t underestimate the Adam4adam. It’s one of the longest running, most consistent sites out. The fact that i still regularly pull clients from there speaks volumes. But actually, for awhile that had dropped off and I would stop using it for a 2-3 months. But, that was in Denver...a place that’s kinda annoying when comes to business anyway. I just don’t want them to continue falling into this censor train.
 
At the same time, it’s not for the faint at heart. Don’t take it personal if out of 500 messages, you get 1 or 2 real clients. Madison Wisconsin is BAD for that. Then after a week, nobody hits you up.
 
I think right now it’s been slow due to April 18th. Not everyone owed, but I’m definitely noticing a drop off since coming out of March. Always some fucking holiday slowing shit up. Easter. St. Patrick’s. Oh, well there’s no holidays until Menorial Day. Let’s throw in TAX day. Tomorrow is Arbor Day, where’s the hype for it?
 

Lets start a KIK group! create your profile! We can name it Jons4Johnson!
Start spreading the word!

I've been talking to a bunch of people and it sounds like blockchain websites are the wave of the future. I'm not tech savvy to really understand 100% what is going on there but its using the same kind of decentralized system as Bitcoin thereby avoiding the part around being sourced as criminally liable. Most of what I have heard of is aimed towards cis and or trans women but hopefully there will be some sites that advertise men as well.
 
In the meantime there is also switter.at an alternative to twitter as we will began to see adult content taken off social media platforms. I also got an VPN and an encrypted email at protonmail and I encourage everyone else to do the same.

Well what are we going to do? Print and send that post to the aforementioned dating site, so they CAN fucking let people advertise. Let them know how things are, and how bad they are getting...that they continually refuse to de-criminalize prostitution. It could easily be mitigated if they just stamped "PROFESSIONAL" on their profile like adam4adam does, but they want to make escorts out to be some foreign race of human beings to be separated from all gay humanity....the same gay humanity out there doing the same things.
 
However I do agree, if guys are advertising, they need to be upfront early. It's not right to fake interest in someone over several messages, and then wait to bring up money. Waste of both parties time.
 
BUT...even HINTING is enough to get the profile removed and phone blocked. That's why within a couple messages, I leave my number and don't say anything else. Why are you hating for? That's the problem. Some people who patronize escorts, need to stop with the condescending view towards them. Y'all are partly to blame for all of this FOSTA stuff happening. It's really an internal solution. If more "clients" stood up for us, rather than putting us down, they wouldn't have to pass laws to "protect" and "remove" us. You're promoting exactly what FOSTA wants: to shoo us away. You can't be one-sided: love us when you're horny and it's convenient, but hate seeing us in places you deem inconvenient, aka bars, Grindr, dating apps.
 
It's 2018, time to call the spades a spade. Quit monkeying around out here. People are going to need to reach deep down inside of themselves, and see how they are the very contributors to their freedoms being marginalized.

I think you wear them in both. I was born after the code. Well technically during, but it was no use to me, lol. But I’m fascinated by it.
http://78.media.tumblr.com/a172796a0a200d5cb91722b31efafff6/tumblr_owyj0bYE6T1tjnp1xo1_1280.jpg
http://78.media.tumblr.com/a02dddb149a4a799c643a042028da7aa/tumblr_owyj0bYE6T1tjnp1xo2_250.jpg

Strip clubs are great.......if you're a stripper.
 
Otherwise you have to compete with a bunch of naked muscle guys swinging hard cocks and firm asses around.
 
Maybe wear a bright color?

We are going back in time my friends. In the flesh is where you’ll have to hire. Here’s some free game.
 
Spots escorts typically hang out:
 
-High end hotel bars (Four seasons, ritz Carlton, Hilton, Marriott, etc.) look for someone well dressed & presentable sitting alone and scanning the room. May make eye contact, wink, or waive at you.
 
-High end steak house bars (In Houston popular ones would be Steak 48, Mastros, etc. ) you’ll be looking for the same things
 
-DATING SITES: Grindr, tinder, any type of hookup site can easily be used to hire or find clients (Providers please learn how to properly finesse a dating site) there are many instructional videos on thecompleteguidetoescorting.com (due to FOSTA their education and video section is private and you will need to create a customer account before you can access it)
 
- Las Vegas casinos + casino bars (I’ve seen both men and women working the casinos here and it’s great because you can have longer windows of opportunity. You get 4-5 hours to make money at normal hotel bars but in Vegas you can be working all day and night if you’d like.)
 
 
-Strip clubs/gogo bars (can be hard because you do have to compete for attention due to the dancers, but I feel this a great place to find clients and providers, some already working but also if you think about it men go here because they’re horny .. so why wouldn’t this be a great spot to meet potentials?
 
I’m sure there are many other places but these tend to be my go to spots when my ads aren’t hitting.

Would you think a concept of a professional sexologue/massa-kinesitherapeuthologue / DOMINANT MASTER with the intention to not only tamed or satisfied the pig/sub/dom or anything in between that lies in us but also OUR altersexgo. would be a service wanted ?
 
Where instead of an hourly rate sex-session , I would have a 2h service with brief/debrief and goals adjustments? Use the BDSM experience and knowledge that comes with it to train help someone to be a full round balanced pig IN control ... but also with relaxations services and more therapeutical action if needed.
 
See .. might need your help to clarify the right branding TO offer something very different.
 
Jamal

You've read my mind...

Well, that’s why I’ve created FLAKES OF RENTMEN on twitter to put review and warning to these kind of characters. Personally, Rentmen has always been a very flaky site compared to all the predecessors. It’s just become more known and popular. Now, it’s become more popular than ever, and now is the time to be more vigilant than ever.